Prostate Milking??????

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curiousbandit22 Member 29 Posts 11/09	Posted - May 4 2013 : 3:52AM I watch some of the Shemale videos sometimes and recently saw a shemale cum from just butt sex, no hands at all. After some research I found it is called prostate milking. But after some more research I also found that that sort of orgasm trickles out and isn't in spurts. I am looking for techniques to do to myself. Currently I use home made objects with a condom on it. And with that I can get some trickle of cum going, but I can't get any more than a few drops of cum going. It's about one drop every minute of so. Anyone know how to get the trickle going faster? Also is there a way to have a full on squirt from this? My technique involves using a handle to stick in and push down against my ball area from inside the anal cavity of course. Then just message and try to push slightly for pee, but not actually try to pee, it's a weird open feeling. [Link]
SexShopGrl Member F is for Forty and Fabulous! 940 Posts 5/11	Posted - May 4 2013 : 12:00PM It depends on the person just like everything else about sex. I just learned how to do P-spot massage about a year ago and since then everyone I've tried it on ejaculated like they normally would but they shot a huge load. There are toys out there specifically made for P-spot massage and I would reccommend using on of them instead of something homemade. You'd be surprised how mny people go to the ER every year from sticking toys in their ass. Aneros are a top of the line brand. Edited by - sexshopgrl on 5/4/2013 12:00:57 PM [Link]
WardqueenJanine Member 914 Posts 2/08	Posted - May 4 2013 : 12:06PM ^^ I agree SSG. The ejaculations don't seen to differ but the sheer volume of cum is greater. In fact, I don't know if you have had the same experience but once I get "on" the spot it seems as if I can prolong the shot and completely unload him. As far as advice to the OP goes, I really don't know how you'd be able to do a good job at this without actual digital penetration so as to detect the right spot. [Link]
SexShopGrl Member F is for Forty and Fabulous! 940 Posts 5/11	Posted - May 5 2013 : 12:18AM Not to mention the awesome expressions on their faces when they come. Hehehehee.... [Link]
matchmaker Senior Member 24909 Posts 4/05	Posted - May 5 2013 : 3:29AM SexShopGrl wrote: It depends on the person just like everything else about sex. I just learned how to do P-spot massage about a year ago and since then everyone I've tried it on ejaculated like they normally would but they shot a huge load. ... Click to expand I like the term "P-spot" that you came up with. Since you found the "P-spot" for guys, I was wondering if you or someone else has found your G-spot before? [Link]

His Dudeness All Business Shut the fuck up, Donny!! 2793 Posts 4/10	Posted - May 5 2013 : 9:36AM Come milk me SSG! [Link]
SexShopGrl Member F is for Forty and Fabulous! 940 Posts 5/11	Posted - May 5 2013 : 4:41PM matchmaker wrote: SexShopGrl wrote: It depends on the person just like everything else about sex. I just learned how to do P-spot massage about a year ago and since then everyone I've tried it on ejaculated like they normally would but they shot a huge load. ... Click to expand I like the term "P-spot" that you came up with. Since you found the "P-spot" for guys, I was wondering if you or someone else has found your G-spot before? Click to expand I didn't come up with P-spot. I think maybe sex toy companies did. And yes, I have experienced a G-spot orgasm before although they are a bit more elusive for me than for some women. [Link]
jayo All-Star Member 2117 Posts 7/04	Posted - May 5 2013 : 6:10PM SexShopGrl wrote: I just learned how to do P-spot massage about a year ago and since then everyone I've tried it on . . . Click to expand I'm sorry, it's NOMB but I can't get it out of my mind. How many people have you tried it on? (And where do I sign up?) [Link]
SexShopGrl Member F is for Forty and Fabulous! 940 Posts 5/11	Posted - May 6 2013 : 12:30AM I've tried it on a few guys in the last year, hubby included. I think a lot of guys are intrigued by it but some are afraid of being labled "gay" or whatever. I think for me as the Top I was just really turned on by knowing that I got them off that hard and that they trusted me to do it without hurting them. That's one of the reasons I love kink. You can experiment with all the little curiosities you've wondered or fatasized about and no matter how simple or twisted, how vanila or perverted, there is always someone out there in the community who's willing to help prove your theory either as lab rat or partner in crime. So we have Dude and Jayo as willing lab rats? LOL How do either of you feel about fire play? [Link]
matchmaker Senior Member 24909 Posts 4/05	Posted - May 6 2013 : 3:23AM SexShopGrl wrote: ... How do either of you feel about fire play? Click to expand I remember Breeze started a thread about fire play. Does that mean when you and Breeze get together, both of you like playing with fire? [Link]
matchmaker Senior Member 24909 Posts 4/05	Posted - May 6 2013 : 3:34AM SexShopGrl wrote: I didn't come up with P-spot. I think maybe sex toy companies did. And yes, I have experienced a G-spot orgasm before although they are a bit more elusive for me than for some women. Click to expand Thanks for the info! It's cool that you eventually ended up experiencing a G-spot orgasm! Did you end up having your G-spot orgasm on purpose (like you were trying to find your G-spot) or did it happen by accident? Just like how you mentioned that you noticed the guy's load was more when you found his P-spot, when you had your G-spot orgasm, did you also notice that you were cumming significantly more than usual or was it not that different in the amount of cum? [Link]
SexShopGrl Member F is for Forty and Fabulous! 940 Posts 5/11	Posted - May 6 2013 : 12:32PM We do like to play with fire although he usually worries about marking me up and tends to be more cautious. I have photos but I'm not sharing. :) I have other friends that are pyros too. lol I'm sure with women who squirt, you could probably guess the amount they come from G-spot orgasm. But I don't squirt. I'm either wet or I'm really, really wet. I can't really describe a G-spot orgasm. All I can say is there is a difference in sensation and how it comes over me. A average orgasm for me is like being wound up, you feel it build and then it snaps. A G-spot orgams is more like peaking the top hill of a roller coaster. When you feel it hit, you're already in the middle of it. I have experienced them from G-spot toys, finger bangs and anal. Once my husband made me come so hard from anal that I was crying. I was like, *sob,sob,sob.."I'm okaaaayyy!" sob...sob, "Oh God." sob..sob..."That was the best orgasm ever." sob.. [Link]
scorpiusdeus Member Nice thing about tattoos, I'm spending much less on porn now. 225 Posts 9/11	Posted - May 6 2013 : 1:41PM I had a woman try it one me once, she was really into the tantric thing, but I gotta say, I was so distracted by it I just couldn't come like that. Do you do it while jacking the guy off simultaneously or just solo finger insertion? Fire play? Seriously? You are both my favorite female and you scare the piss out of me at the same time. :) There aren't many women I think I can't handle, but I'd guess you are one of them SSG. [Link]
jayo All-Star Member 2117 Posts 7/04	Posted - May 6 2013 : 7:48PM SexShopGrl wrote: How do either of you feel about fire play? Click to expand Only if I'm wearing an asbestos suit. [Link]
SexShopGrl Member F is for Forty and Fabulous! 940 Posts 5/11	Posted - May 6 2013 : 9:19PM scorpiusdeus wrote: I had a woman try it one me once, she was really into the tantric thing, but I gotta say, I was so distracted by it I just couldn't come like that. Do you do it while jacking the guy off simultaneously or just solo finger insertion? Fire play? Seriously? You are both my favorite female and you scare the piss out of me at the same time. :) There aren't many women I think I can't handle, but I'd guess you are one of them SSG. Click to expand Well, the first time I pretty much did whatever he asked for because he was teaching me what to feel for, what buttons to push and what felt good to him. That's pretty much how I handle it, I do whatever feels good. As far as fire play goes...I have always loved fire, loved setting things on fire just to watch them burn. I love candles, wax, all of it ever since I was a kid. I won't set you on fire, I promise. Breeze would probably tell you I'm a pussycat. Meow. [Link]

matchmaker Senior Member 24909 Posts 4/05	Posted - May 7 2013 : 1:00AM SexShopGrl wrote: We do like to play with fire although he usually worries about marking me up and tends to be more cautious. I have photos but I'm not sharing. :) I have other friends that are pyros too. lol I'm sure with women who squirt, you could probably guess the amount they come from G-spot orgasm. But I don't squirt. I'm either wet or I'm really, really wet. I can't really describe a G-spot orgasm. All I can say is there is a difference in sensation and how it comes over me. A average orgasm for me is like being wound up, you feel it build and then it snaps. A G-spot orgams is more like peaking the top hill of a roller coaster. When you feel it hit, you're already in the middle of it. I have experienced them from G-spot toys, finger bangs and anal. Once my husband made me come so hard from anal that I was crying. I was like, *sob,sob,sob.."I'm okaaaayyy!" sob...sob, "Oh God." sob..sob..."That was the best orgasm ever." sob.. Click to expand Thanks for the info! I think I understand what you were describing about a G-spot orgasm about how you're already cumming, but feel an extra orgasmic boost as you're cumming! It's cool that you could give your husband (and other guys) powerful P-spot orgasms and that you're husband could give you powerful G-spot orgasms! Or in other words, you could dish it out and receive it. Earlier on in the thread, you mentioned that you enjoy the expression on guys' faces when you give them a P-spot orgasm. How would you describe the expression on your face as your husband is making you have a G-spot orgasm? Edited by - matchmaker on 5/7/2013 1:03:11 AM [Link]
SexShopGrl Member F is for Forty and Fabulous! 940 Posts 5/11	Posted - May 7 2013 : 1:03PM I don't know. I can't see myself when I come. LOL [Link]
matchmaker Senior Member 24909 Posts 4/05	Posted - May 8 2013 : 1:12AM ^I see your point. [Link]
curiousbandit22 Member 29 Posts 11/09	Posted - May 9 2013 : 12:15AM SexShopGrl wrote: I don't know. I can't see myself when I come. LOL Click to expand What is your technique? I have found so far that being flaccid is the only way it will cum out. And gentle message in and out against the back of the balls. I used my fingers to find that walnut sized thing people are talking about, but I was hitting it all along, so no help there. I read online that you should message the sides, then the middle, but when I tried that I actually got less. Though I will say I could feel it flowing through my dick, but barely any came out, I squeezed my dick after a a while and a bunch of drops where in there. Like I said before, so far just some drops with basically going over the prostate by going in and out, side to side didn't really do anything. I wonder how many people jerk off to these threads. [Link]
SexShopGrl Member F is for Forty and Fabulous! 940 Posts 5/11	Posted - May 9 2013 : 2:13AM I just did it like he asked the first time I tried it which was pretty much like G-spot massage. I felt for it and then I rubbed it in a stroking motion. I also alternated with hand job and oral as I felt like it or if he asked for it. Everyone I tried it on came for a looooong fucking time. [Link]
WardqueenJanine Member 914 Posts 2/08	Posted - May 9 2013 : 7:42PM curiousbandit22 wrote: SexShopGrl wrote: I don't know. I can't see myself when I come. LOL Click to expand What is your technique? I have found so far that being flaccid is the only way it will cum out. And gentle message in and out against the back of the balls. I used my fingers to find that walnut sized thing people are talking about, but I was hitting it all along, so no help there. I read online that you should message the sides, then the middle, but when I tried that I actually got less. Though I will say I could feel it flowing through my dick, but barely any came out, I squeezed my dick after a a while and a bunch of drops where in there. Like I said before, so far just some drops with basically going over the prostate by going in and out, side to side didn't really do anything. I wonder how many people jerk off to these threads. Click to expand I think the side to side massasing isn't helpful. Like SSG, I've been very successful. Getting the right amount of pressure I think is important too. A constant, moderate to light pressure and more of back to front. When you start to cum you can't let up either. That's how I have gotten guys to shoot some truly astounding loads. Whe they start to shoot, I have gotten to the point I know exactly how much to change the pressure and the rhythm of my massaging. What SSG girls is referring to I'm pretty sure is that when I get a guy to cum, I can not only get him to shoot a real massive load but, unlike if I'm jeerking him off or giving him head, I can have him sustain each spasm for a long time. In othe word, instead of each spurt of cum shooting out each time he pulsates, one he starts the cum shoots like a stream, and I mean a lot of fucking cum too! The other thing you might try is to just encircle your dick close to the base and constrict it as you cum. If I'm jacking a guy as I'm milking him I stop when he starts cumming and hold the base of his cock pretty tightly. Keep trying [Link]
SexShopGrl Member F is for Forty and Fabulous! 940 Posts 5/11	Posted - May 9 2013 : 8:12PM ^Yes. Or it kinda gushes in little pulses. It's crazy. [Link]
matchmaker Senior Member 24909 Posts 4/05	Posted - May 10 2013 : 3:48AM ^Hey SexShopGrl! I was wondering if you received the message I sent you (or would you rather I ask more about G-spot orgasms in this thread)? [Link]
oldguy Senior Member 1270 Posts 3/06	Posted - May 10 2013 : 9:03AM ^^^ Janine, what great info you always give about how you are so good about getting your partners off and how to do it expertly. I for one sure envy your clients and the ladies that come here should be so grateful for your advice too. [Link]
SexShopGrl Member F is for Forty and Fabulous! 940 Posts 5/11	Posted - May 10 2013 : 3:30PM matchmaker wrote: ^Hey SexShopGrl! I was wondering if you received the message I sent you (or would you rather I ask more about G-spot orgasms in this thread)? Click to expand Yes, I got the message. I can't really describe them other than what I've already said. They are intense and they kind of take you by surprise. As to your other question. Read and learn. Wiki G Spot Article Edited by - sexshopgrl on 5/10/2013 3:32:01 PM [Link]

matchmaker Senior Member 24909 Posts 4/05	Posted - May 11 2013 : 1:07AM ^Thanks for the link! [Link]
Mattj123443 Member 672 Posts 10/11	Posted - May 19 2013 : 2:41AM SexShopGrl wrote: So we have Dude and Jayo as willing lab rats? LOL Click to expand Sign me up too..lol [Link]
jakejd4949 Senior Member 2938 Posts 8/06	Posted - May 23 2013 : 8:17PM I do get hj's pretty regular from my wife , no ps massage though . I used to have a fwb , she tried it with me a few times , wow , I have naver cum so hard or shot as far , was just so intense . [Link]
greg spader Member 720 Posts 2/13	Posted - May 26 2013 : 9:42AM SexShopGrl wrote: I've tried it on a few guys in the last year, hubby included. I think a lot of guys are intrigued by it but some are afraid of being labled "gay" or whatever. So we have Dude and Jayo as willing lab rats? LOL Click to expand I love this topic; yes, I don't understand what could be gay about having a woman massage there. I wish there was more porn that had this also. Sign me up as well. Edited by - greg spader on 5/26/2013 9:42:58 AM [Link]
Firefly_Fan Member 86 Posts 7/13	Posted - Jul 12 2013 : 1:07PM I have just purchased a prostate massager. I can see there is some practice needed though. I have never had anything up my butt before and on my sole attempt so far, once I got over my inhibitions, it felt good pushing it in, although I did not get the full four bulbs in, which makes me think I wasn't quite getting to the prostate? Maybe I just need to relax more and I wss probably a bit scared lol. Any techniques recommended for easing the thing all the way up? I used a lot of lube but maybe I was too tense and will be better next time? I had some porn on to try and get hard as I know that helps the muscles in the anus relax and eases the insertion. So looking forward to experiencing a P spot orgasm. How long on average do I need to massage would you say? [Link]