I think I may just have the most considerate lover ever! But I am curious, and a little concerned, maybe you guys/gals can offer me some advice..? My love likes to give me orgasms ALL the time! lol Now don;t get me wrong I am not not not complaining. However, I wonder about reciprocating? He will oral sex or finger me before he leaves for work, or as soon as I wake up, in situations where there is no time for returning the favor, or to have full on sex. I mean isn't it selfish to let him pleasure me and not return the favor? How do you all feel about this? Do you do this too? I don't want to be a selfish lover. ------------------ "I'm glad I amuse myself."-Lunacy
I was much the same way (as your partner)with my last partner myself. I dearly loved and truly enjoyed bringing her to multiple orgasms before even penetrating her (with my dick). It was always nice to bring here pleasure and in many ways more satisfying to me than just 'getting a nut' all by myself... Don't know if that makes me weired or not, but someone should take advantage of it soon
You have what I like to call a quality problem. You found one of those rare men that actually get pleasure from giving and you're feeling a little guilty about taking. My advice to you is enjoy what he gives without guilt. If he hasn't told you that he'd like more from you, chances are it's not a problem for him. If you still feel guilty about not returning the favour as often as you'd like, try to initiate your own gifts before he gets a chance to service you. I hope this helps xoxo Tina
Tina is right. Maybe you can surprise him with a treat at a time he might not be expecting it. Like maybe as soon as he egts in the door when he returns home. I know I would be thrilled if I walked in the door and a girl pushed me up against the wall and tried to give me an orgasm. (Of course, I'd be thrilled if I could ever touch a woman again. )
From the male point of view, feel real guilty. If he keeps pleasuring you like that, he should get LOTS in return. Seriously though, if he enjoys it that much, let him. I enjoy giving my wife as many orgasms as possible. I figure that as long as she can have multiple orgasms, she might as well use them! It's a big turn on for me. As much as I enjoy it, I'd still love for her to surprise me sometime when I'm not expecting it.
Aw, hell, Luna. Do what I do...wake him up at 5 am with a blowjob...then, just as he really wakes up and starts to respond...hop on and ride 'em cowboy. Makes mornings verrry interesting, lemme tell ya... -M
O.K Nick..submit your resume and refrences. I will review it for M. Be forewarned though, I am mighty picky, Ms.M's my friend, and is due for a good man. Here are some prerequisites to start with- Single Handsome Responsible KIND Inteligent Great in bed Considerate Gainfully employed Willing to travel to the east coast ..did I miss anythng M? lol ------------------ "I'm glad I amuse myself."-Lunacy [This message has been edited by -lunacy- (edited July 14, 2000).]
Well I'll be... Let's see: I'm single, at least decent looking, pretty smart, have a good sense of humor... love sex and am good at it... live on the east coast...sound like ADT hooked up! LOL
Oh, god, it's 2:30 in the morning and I just woke up the entire building laughing.... You guys are too damned funny... You also forgot one important list item: A PULSE LOL -M