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Joey Starr
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Posted - Mar 19 2014 : 5:07AM
Im posting this on behalf of a friend... I swear!
Say you're in a gangbang situation in a club, your wife/girlfriend is fucked repeatedly by this single guy and she loves it (or you are the wife/girlfriend).
Would it be OK for this single guy to leave some kind of contact details (email or mobile number) and would she consider seeing him again in a more private situtation or is the whole point of swinging about "fuck and forget"?
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Boogie With Stu
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Posted - Mar 19 2014 : 12:11PM
If she likes you (er... your friend) and seems open to the idea (and it isn't considered "verboten" in the setting), then I don't see the harm in asking her. If it's the boyfriend/husband who has the problem, then that's a conversation that the girlfriend/wife needs to have with him. If it's a no-go or non-starter in whatever agreement that the couple has, then unfortunately you really have no say.
As with all complicated matters involving people (especially in a situation like this), there really is no definitive answer since each situation is unique. Your best bet would be to ask either one of them. Preferably together, unless you're willing to go behind the guy's back, the inherent risks of which should be obvious to any grown person.
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Boogie With Stu
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Posted - Mar 19 2014 : 12:14PM
Drat. As a non-swinger, I totally disregarded the thread title. Apologies. Feel free to equally disregard my advice (not that you need my permission for that).
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Joey Starr
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Posted - Mar 19 2014 : 2:32PM
Any swingers out there?
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stinkfist
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Posted - Mar 19 2014 : 7:10PM
Of course that is one of the things about swinging if you find someone who is compatible both sexually and knows it's only fun with limits then a chance to repeat the occasion would suit them too so he could just leave a contact number and if they enjoyed the experience it could lead to regular fun,not a meeting behind her Husbands back though as the couple should have full control over the situation.For instance it may suit them for her to be fucked by the guy while he is not present then when he gets home from work etc he gets to hear all about it,or perhaps he wants to be present but not join in.
If the guy is simply trying to see the wife again without her Husbands knowledge then that is not swinging.
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SexShopGrl
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Posted - Mar 19 2014 : 9:24PM
In our local community, swingers and kinksters often run with the same crowds.
I was always under the impression from what my swinging kinkster friends have told me, that it was something you discuss with all parties involved. They usually lay down some pretty heavy rules so no one is considered cheating.
Edited by - sexshopgrl on 3/19/2014 9:25:54 PM
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Boogie With Stu
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Posted - Mar 20 2014 : 1:28AM
Sure, they'll tell you different. Oh, wait...
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iowagonzo
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Posted - Mar 28 2014 : 11:10AM
My wife and i only have a certain group of people we play with...or swing with...it's safer that way. Not saying our group doesn't accept newbies, i mean we all had to get into the group somehow at one point. As far as swinger style private "night clubs" as long as both you and your wife are comfy then contact exchange is acceptable...I would however look into getting into a safe, tested group and stay there...very similar to the porn industry that way...we are all tested monthly and know we are clean...which makes barebacking and fluid exchange give you peace since you know what's you are licking or fucking or whoever is sucking you or your gf or wife is sucking, fucking and swallowing is clean...so much better...more primal and real then condoms.
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iowagonzo
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Posted - Mar 28 2014 : 11:15AM
Rules are strict...my wife and i are for our safety...however we agree to seperate room swing (my wife can fuck and suck without me physically in the room...and I can get sucked and fucked without her physically in the room ) because of trust. We just request that our significant other is physically at the same function or event or house before any sex occurs. Privacy is nice but we are also voyeurs...my wife more so...she loves having a group of people around her getting fucked with her or being watched while she is getting dicked. Always ask the rules beforehand...it will save on a ass whooping from a hubby or a group of hubbies friends.
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Joey Starr
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Posted - Mar 28 2014 : 2:55PM
Thanks to all of those with swinging experience who took the time to answer.
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