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Hello all, I have a question to all small dick people out there. How does it feel to you to have a really small penis. What challenges you guys have faced? I am barely 4 inch and my partner gives a pathetic smile everytime she looks at it, that expression I never understood meaning of. How your wives/partner react about your size?
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Posted - Mar 11 2014 : 1:08PM
If dragonsbum was still around, he would post on this one. So, I'm female, so my clit is way less than 4 inches. I still get full pleasure. A 4" dick should have the same number of nerve endings as a bigger dick. You have a girl. That's good. Make sure she has full pleasure. I don't know what else to add except, honestly, women enjoy looking at a big dick, it's attractive. The really large ones aren't always the most comfortable, but they can hurt and feel great at the same time. Average size looks good and feels good. Small is going to look different--unexpected when you first see it, with an uncertainty whether it will do the job. They do, though, but all of the nasty things that guys say about a woman whose vagina is stretched ("It's like throwing a hot dog down a hallway") is the same kind of thought for the woman looking at a small dick. Neither of you will get the same pressure and friction there. It won't have that 'full' feeling. On the other hand, all of the other erogenous zones all over her body still get the same sensations, including the breasts and the clit area (so get really good at grinding the mons--lots of variations there in pressure and direction and speed, including s-l-o-w). Get really good at giving head (there are books). Pay lots of attention to her neck, breasts, lips, etc. Whatever she likes. Mostly pay incredibly keen attention to what she likes. She may not like things she's 'supposed' to like (same as lots of guys don't like their balls sucked). Pay attention to when her breathing speeds up, when she quivers, moans, all of that, and be an expert in understanding it. Ask sensuously (and not in a loser-creepy way) if there is anything more you can do (maybe ask when she is already panting and satisfied and exhausted, so you are coming from a place of confidence, not from a sense of inadequacy).
If her lady parts feel good to you and get you off, don't worry about how you feel to her. Most women don't get off on fucking anyway, they get off on clitoral stimulation and what goes on between their ears. Improve your oral skills until you are the master of all she surveys. Learn to give massages that make her weak in the knees. And when you are fucking her, tell her that is the tightest, most velvety, wettest, incredibly phenomenal pussy you've ever known. There is nothing wrong with the size of your penis.
For the record Sutz, Kimi is a retired porn performer so she should know what she is talking about here. Also, believe it or not most male porn performers don't have extra large dicks either. There are likely plenty of four and five inch dicks that have performed in porn (no, I won't name names here). You know the saying that the camera adds ten pounds? It also adds three inches to men's dicks.
Mine is exactly 4 inches. And it's also pretty thin. I've never had sex before, so I don't know how they would react to it. But it's not hard for the whole thing to get into your head. I think most small guys fear getting laughed at when they first show it. I've head stories about women laughing when they first see a small guy. Which is totally wrong, since there isn't anything funny about a small dick I worry about how I will be viewed by a woman when she first sees it, if I ever get into that position. It's rather intimidating.
^Imagine if you were with a girl you really liked, and you were about to have sex with her. She removes her top, then her bra. You find out she was wearing a padded bra, and instead of B-cups, she's has very flat A-cups. Would you look at her tits and laugh at her? Unless you're a horrible person, you won't. If a woman likes you enough to have sex with you, I seriously doubt she'll laugh when she sees your 4" dick. And if for some reason the woman does laugh at you, be grateful that you found out she was a horrible person before you ended up seriously invested in the relationship.
I obviously wouldn't laugh no matter what her boob size was, it wouldn't matter. But that isn't a vagina, so it wouldn't have any effect on the sex itself. A penis on the other hand does. If a woman laughed my my dick, I would be beyond humiliated.
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earthwindfire Deactivated User
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Posted - Mar 14 2014 : 6:37PM
Women won't break out laughing at you. They just don't do things that way. But you will have a lot of disappointment and many women will not want to get into a long term relationship with you. People can be all PC and say that is wrong, but that is the facts of the matter. You don't need to have a big dick at all as most of us don't and we are averaging 6 - 7, but if you are 4 inches and slim, that is into an area that most women won't accept. let me give you a tip, shave all of your pubic hairs. Having a penis your size buried in pubic hair will make it look far far worse. Go to asia and meet someone there who is right for you. They are more apt to accept the size of your penis as opposed to a western woman. Edited by - earthwindfire on 3/14/2014 6:38:34 PM Edited by - earthwindfire on 3/14/2014 6:40:02 PM
I knew a guy in high school who was, shall we say, less than average, and he still managed to get women into bed with him (yes, good looking ones). Granted, he had problems, but those were due to his psychiatrist father, not his penis. You think you have it bad? You should thank God every night that your father didn't treat you like a psychiatry experiment. Okay, enough Jewish grandmother - Kimi and Pieps make excellent points. So your penis is small. Stick a finger in - two - hell, your whole damned hand. Whatever works. You aren't just a penis and your partner isn't just a vagina, so don't complain that is all you have to work with. Explore and experiment until you know every inch of her body and how to use those special areas to maximum effect. If she likes sex talk then learn the best way to talk sex but, above all, learn HER. Now, how will you know what works? Well, there's nothing wrong with asking a woman how this or that feels; if this or that works. Communicating in bed is good and, since we're talking about sex, a moan is as good as a soliloquy. Pay attention! Finally, and especially in light of all that advice, sex is play, so try not to get overly serious about it all. Take your hang ups off along with your clothes and just take pleasure in giving pleasure. As long as you remember that you should come out alright in the end.
In a recent self-reported poll, the average erect penis size for American men is 5.6 inches. Since this is self-reported, I'd say the true average is a little less than what they reported. Insecurity about your own dick is a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you don't think it's big enough, when you take off your pants in front of a woman, you'll give off an insecure vibe which nearly all women will find unattractive. But if you really like your penis, and you truly feel it's just fine the way it is, your confidence will show.
You do know that prostitution is legal at certain licensed businesses in Nevada, don't you? I suggest going to one and spending $500 to take a "trip around the world" with a prostitute (last time I knew $500 would get that trip around the world, call a legal house of prostitution to verify before going). Bring a condom, you are required to wear one in Nevada. Tip the hooker well. After that you will feel much more confident about chatting up the cute chick at the bar. I don't recommend going downtown wherever you live and getting a prostitute that way in the US as it is a felony in many states and you could end up doing an extended stay at the state prison wherever you are. Good luck and I wish you well.
500 dollars is waaaay to much money. Not everyone has that type of cash to spend. And that isn't even counting how much it costs to travel half way across the country.
Please, don't follow this tip. Nothing looks worse than a small penis with no pubic hair. Honestly, do you want to look like an undeveloped child or like a normal adult male with somewhat less generous endowments? Trim and groom as appropriate for hygiene and pleasurable interactions, not because it will make you "appear larger" because, trust me, it does NOT make you appear larger.
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earthwindfire Deactivated User
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Posted - Mar 15 2014 : 3:02PM
This is not legit advice. You are trying to give him a false sense of security instead of giving him the hard truth. If his pubic bush is such that his penis can not even be seen unless erect, you can not pretend that will help his cause with a woman.
Who has a dick so small and or a bush so big that it can't be seen through the hair? My dick is 4 inches, not 4 cinemeters. And your harsh truth is a bit insensitive and not very truthful, since you think seven inches is average.
I have been with two men who have micropenis, and even their equipment could be seen through pubic hair. Also, for what it's worth, both of those men were able to bring me to orgasm (not through penile-vaginal stimulation, which I wouldn't expect no matter the penis size anyway). *I* felt awkward and I was terribly afraid that I would not be adequate for their needs, but we managed to work things out and a fine time was had by all. Would I have dated, or settled down and had a family with, either of them? I don't know, I was with them professionally and did not meet them in a social or casual situation. Did the sex or the size of the penis matter in considering that question? No, not at all. I've had FAR, FAR worse sex with men of average and above average penis size. Will every woman you encounter feel that way? I doubt it, because people are not always nice, not always considerate, not always open minded, and also because most people have insecurities of their own that get in the way.
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earthwindfire Deactivated User
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Posted - Mar 15 2014 : 9:30PM
It was supposed to be insensitive. This isn't counselling. I said 6 - 7 was average because I fall in the middle of that. If you want to make yourself feel better because 5.5 is scientific average all the power too you. My point is, regardless if a porn girl on a message board trying to tell you she would accept a guy with a 4 inch dick just remember this is a message board. People often preach that they will be the understanding people of virtue and perfection, but they are just like the rest of us humans.. we judge and reject based on physical traits. That is part of the human condition. As for you, my very best suggestion is to find a really good escort in your area. A professional will treat you like a king and help you work through this issue. Yeah, it costs money but staying a virgin for many more years is not a pleasant prospect. There is nothing wrong with paying for sex so if anyone looks down on you that is their problem. Most guy who knock you for going to an escort have done the same thing in their life but don't want to admit it. My city has over 10,000 sex workers in the metro area but zero guys who admit they use sexual services.. go figure. You need to get some sexual experience under your belt so you can stop hiding from women. If you get good at many other aspects of sex, then you will find a woman who will accept your size. Hell, you will get anal from girls who don't normally like it because you are small, so take that as a victory. Edited by - earthwindfire on 3/15/2014 9:31:08 PM
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Posted - Mar 15 2014 : 9:33PM
You were with those two guys as part of your profession. That is not the same as our friend her wanting to explore relationships with real life women. You are intelligent enough to know there is a difference and I doubt you would be so accepting if you got involved personally with a guy and he was that small. Don't stand up and pretend you should be on some high plane of existence. VISUAL matters to almost everyone, men and women. For anyone to deny that is just absurd. Edited by - earthwindfire on 3/15/2014 9:33:54 PM
It was worse than insensitive - it was wrong. Sutz, I've been on these boards a long time and I can promise you that Kimi and Pieps are good people. They also just happen to be two of the smartest human beings on these boards. They will not lie to you, so I would advise you to listen carefully to anything they have to say. While they may not represent every woman, they do represent the kind of woman you should be looking to have a long-term relationship with.
Good point. I was trying to not suggest finding a hooker on the streets of whatever town you live in as it would be more than likely risky at best and ruinous at worst due to it being illegal and your local pig/swine department (otherwise known as the police) possibly doing a sting operation to catch people soliciting hookers. Using the services of a legal brothel was the best I could come up with. For the record a night with a street hooker in my area fifteen years ago was about $125-$200. With inflation I would estimate it would cost at least $250 now to get a decent looking prostitute (you don't want a methed out one, trust me).
Lots of new assholes on the forum, I see. If your girl is looking at you funny, she's not the girl for you. Also to be accepted, you have to be accepting. It goes both ways. And those are your helpful hints from Sexshopgrl. Edited by - sexshopgrl on 3/17/2014 6:46:43 PM
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earthwindfire Deactivated User
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Posted - Mar 17 2014 : 10:35PM
Its easy to call everyone an asshole who doesn't agree with you. And it is also easy to preach and say that a woman should accept the 4 inch penis. MOSt women will not, and that is just a fact of life. That is not being an asshole, and women can preach how bad it is to reject a guy for dick size, but it happens. This isn't some issue of a girl rejecting a guy who is average (which doesn't happen too often), but when the guy is like your pinky finger, you won't accept it. Period. Don't be self righteous and pretend you would.
How would you know? As I said before, I knew one guy whose small penis didn't stop him from bedding some good looking women. So he didn't score every time. Big deal. Give me your average male and most women will find something objectionable about him. That is just a fact of life, which means that obsessing over penis size is as stupid as obsessing over any other perceived flaw. Just move on. More to the point, sutz doesn't need most women, he only needs one woman. In that regard, confidence in his self, not the size of any particular body part, is what is required. Otherwise, he'll be taking all those rejections personally, which is completely pointless.
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earthwindfire Deactivated User
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Posted - Mar 18 2014 : 1:17AM
was your friend's penis this small? If it was, he was bedding them on his looks and confidence, they didn't know about his dick ahead of time!!!!!!!!!... once they saw the dick they certainly did not become his long term girlfriends. Edited by - earthwindfire on 3/18/2014 1:17:53 AM
It doesn't take long for women to figure out that having a big dick doesn't automatically make a guy great in bed. At any rate, this fellow ran around in tight jeans (as did the rest of us), so they had a pretty good idea what he was packing. Here's the thing, though - if he was confident that he could please them sexually then some of them were willing to give him the chance to prove it. Enough so that he wasn't doing worse than most of the other guys I knew. - once they saw the dick they certainly did not become his long term girlfriends - Wrong again, amigo. Not only did he have girlfriends, but the last time I saw him he was married, and before you ask, yes, she was good looking. Here's the deal, if you are disappointed with or worried about your self then women will pick up on that and wonder what's wrong with you. It isn't what's in your pants that women are most concerned about, it is what's in your head.
Besides, isn't it the assumption that women don't get into relationships for sex? That's what all the guys seem to be complaining about (I know, not ALL the guys, I'm generalizing.) "My wife doesn't have any interest... blah blah blah". If women aren't interested in sex why would they even care what size you're packing? It's got to be one of the lowest things on the list of stuff women are looking for in a mate/partner. I'm quite certain it was never even on my list at all.
earthwindfire...stfu, I wasn't really even talking to you. The guys that have been around awhile still remember me and know what my posts are like. You don't even know me. So fuck off. That being said, I AM a woman, I think I can honestly say I know what "most" women accept and what they won't accept. Cause ya know, girlfriends talk and stuff. Sutz's problem is going to have more to do with his confidence. When you are in a committed relationship part of that relationship is to make your partner feel good. I'm not saying it's up to you to fix her daddy issues anymore than it's up to her to fix your mommy issues. It is however up to you to make th em feel like whatever little flaws and quirks they might have don't really matter...smaller sized penis and all. Kinda like how when a pregnant woman is feeling bad about herself because she's getting bigger. She might say she feels fat but a good partner would tell her she's beautiful because she's pregnant. Because really, when you're in a LTR (like,um, idk, 18 years of marriage?) small penises and big bellies DON'T MATTER. Therefore it's pretty accurate to say that if your partner gives it a pathetic smile, maybe you're with the wrong partner. I think my advice (as well as a few others) is waaaaaaaay better than sounding like a racist prick and telling him to go to Asia and find someone there. Wow guys! It's great to be back.
You're missing out on a chance to be selling those worthless penis pumps and extensions. If you can't make a buck on people's basic insecurities, what's left?
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earthwindfire Deactivated User
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Posted - Mar 19 2014 : 2:45AM
what a ridiculous response. But, since you are female and there are very few females on here, the guys will circle the wagons around you. Guys with skinny 4 inch dicks will have a very hard time finding a long term lover. That is the reality of it whether you want to admit it or not. You are so out of touch, and telling people to fuck off because they don't agree with you is absurd. And calling me racist when I say go to asia is typical western woman stuff. Asian women in that culture are far less demanding of a man and far less superficial if you go to the right countries. They don't nit pick the shit out of you in the dating world like women over here do. Try to be a guy dating in a big city and all you get is their full effort to find something wrong with you. Small dick, shitty car, whatever. Yes, when you are in a marriage, people accept these things. But to get that 6 - 12 months relationship will be hard. Most girls will dump him after seeing his dick, period. We are not talking about an average 5.5 or something.. this is extremely small and beyond what most women will accept. You can deny it all you want but this is how it is. In order to build confidence he needs to break his virginity and get some experience so a professional is the best way to start.
Now you sound like a virgin. Females are programmed by nature to look for winners, not large wieners. It is confidence in one's self that a female wants. Granted, that confidence might be misplaced, but it is still the best indicator she has that a male can succeed in protecting her and her offspring. Penis size doesn't come into it. From the male's point of view, confidence in one's self makes penis size irrelevant. The confident man does not depend upon the size of his penis to satisfy a woman, he depends upon his mind. Edited by - hardware on 3/19/2014 11:52:24 AM
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Posted - Mar 19 2014 : 12:08PM
In fairness to you, you sound more sexist than racist. Kudos?
I have to concur. Now let's play twenty guesses as to where SSG was all that time -- Mine are either in California making lots of porn for her big break into the industry or in a Mexican jail for not paying a bribe to the cop that pulled her over for speeding while she was on a vacay to Cancun.
^Unfortunately, nothing that fun. Just shucking teeth, sucking spit and slinging lead. I did get pulled over one night by a state trooper for allegedly running a stop sign on my way home from work. I think I deserve a spanking. OMG!! You mean you guys are only supportive of me because I'm a girl!! Damn! And all this time I thought it was because I do anal!!That too.THIS. Edited by - sexshopgrl on 3/19/2014 9:37:39 PM
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earthwindfire Deactivated User
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Posted - Mar 20 2014 : 2:19PM
wow, the best you got is to circle the wagons and call me a virgin? I though this place could handle more than that. If you are going to trash talk a guy you don't agree with, try something more creative :) You might as well just say "My dad is tougher than your dad" and be done with it.
I didn't say you were a virgin, I said that your advice makes you sound like a virgin. Nor did I stop at saying you sound like a virgin, I actually wrote something substantive, so you can get off your high horse now.
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earthwindfire Deactivated User
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Posted - Mar 20 2014 : 3:29PM
why is that advice a virgins advice? If a guy has no confidence to meet, date, and ultimately sleep with a woman. Wouldn't it make sense to consider having a few encounters with a professional to build his sexual experience and confidence? I don't think that is a "virgins advice" at all. I think this is a better alternative then a few more years of virginity.
Maybe it is a I wanna fuck you smirk or she enjoys seeing your naked body?I could not let this one pass. The image in my head right now...hey! Hardware in his tight jeans!
^ Hide de wimmens!A professional gives you what you want. How will that teach you the give and take of sexual intimacy? Odds are our putative virgin will leave with the mechanics and absolutely no idea about what really matters. Furthermore, I do not subscribe to the idea that there is a confidence specific to sexual experience. There is only one true kind of confidence, and that is confidence in one's ability to meet life's challenges head on. When you have that kind of confidence then being a virgin isn't a fault, an embarrassment or an insurmountable obstacle. It is simply a state of affairs that will change when you meet the right woman.
Okay, while we're on the subject, here's a shot I took last year -- the penguin on the right had just stolen his rock from another's nest. Filthy little thief! But I bet his lady was impressed. It totally made up for his tiny wiener.
DISCLAIMER: I'm not a doctor and this is based on my opinion and experiences. Just like penises come in different shapes and sizes, so do vaginas. I'm average to slightly below average in size. I've been fortunate that the two LTRs I've had in my life were with particularly snug women. Do you feel sufficient friction when you're with your current partner? Also, don't let the way you are interpreting a facial expression ruin your relationship. Ask her about it, just don't ask from a place of insecurity. Try something like "Have you ever wanted to try a toy that's a little bigger than what I have to offer?" That's going to need some word-smithing, but maybe it's a start.
Beyond the money, I just couldn't take the arrest risk. I don't think I could explain to anyone how I got caught paying for sex without being labeled a creepy bastard. If it were legal in my area and I had the money I would do it, because that is a better option than never getting any.
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earthwindfire Deactivated User
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Posted - Mar 29 2014 : 3:47PM
Paying for sex is something a huge portion of our population do (from street prostitutes right up to high end companions famous sports stars take to clubs), yet everyone says they don't and condemn and shame someone who gets caught. Kind of sad too see. So your point about being labelled is unfortunately true in a lot of places. The metro area of my city has around 10,000 sex workers (if you include the hundreds of micros and "rub and tug massage" that we have. Yet you will find about 3 men that will openly admit they see sex workers and the rest will mock anyone who does it. Edited by - earthwindfire on 3/29/2014 3:47:20 PM
A man pays a hooker for sex. Tells her how he gonna fuck her down. She gets kinda excited ,he talks a good game. Once in the motel anxious to get it on she strips and he does the same. But when she sees his small penis she laughs and says "who are you gonna please with that little thing" The man says ME BITCH!
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Posted - Apr 1 2014 : 7:10AM
This article from just last year http://www.livescience.com/28169-men-who-use-prostitutes.html and several other studies say otherwise. According to the article only 14 percent of American men said they paid for sex at least once in their lives, and just 1 percent said they visited a prostitute in the past year. Other studies show that on average only 10-20% of men worldwide have paid an escort for sex at least once in their lives. A line from the article that was not really a surprise: "A survey of men in this online community revealed that a substantial portion of them are married, white, and earn over $120,000 per year". So basically if you make a lot of money then $200-$300 isn't a big burden for hour or half hour of sex. For most guys who are middle or lower class earning say $30,000-70,000 that's too much money to just get some pussy or a blowjob I would think.
I agree complete. 
