I think it's so popular in porn because it looks good on camera and is more like a forbidden fruit.

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Also like if you go listen to the Holly Randall podcast episode with Adriana Chechik she talks about having nothing put anal sex in her personal life. The first time she literally had sex was anally. The guy she is with supposedly is the anal king where he only has sex anally. So for someone like Adriana who loves anal not just on camera but in her personal life because literally thats all she does from what I gathered from the podcast it says that its more than just what pornstars do on camera to make it seem like its good. Everyone has their thing though so what might be good to someone might not be good for someone else. Id say try it a few times just to see if you like the experience. If you try it especially with someone you feel like could maximize the experience and if you like it awesome but if you dont then you know its not your then in your personal life. There is nothing wrong with fantasizing about something and loving it even though its not something you actually want or love to do in real life.

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With that said, anal is still kine of hot in a kinky way.

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The taboo and how it looks on camera are much more appealing than the reality at least from my experience giving it. I definitely prefer vaginal sex though I wouldn't refuse to give it if my partner asked for it provided she was clean.

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Compared to porn, it's really different. In real life you don't switch from ass to pussy or getting sucked after you had anal sex. And most girls don't like a hard pounding, but want it more slowly. It took my girl some time to find the right mood for anal sex. But after she found it, she is really crazy about it. So like most men above, I have to admit that it's physically more fun for her than me, but I'm ok with that.

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Is it as hot as it seems in the videos? I'm asking from a straight guy's perspective but I'd love to hear any thoughts from a woman or gay man as well.

There's just no way I can accurately predict how "hot" your experience will be. It might be great, it might be a bust, which is why you should really try to stay in the moment, and react to your partner, rather than go in with preconceptions and a plan of action.

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Sorry I misspelled: It supposed to be "spit" maybe the autofill....

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Your own bedroom habits are your own business but making a suggestion to others to try something that could unexpectedly be painful or even cause injury is irresponsible at best.

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I remarked that your advice to use saliva as lube is poor when there are personal lubricants better suited to anal sex and safer to use. I specifically used the word "unexpectedly" because that's the nature of an accident, which is never caused by malicious intent but can be caused by ill preparation.

I wasn't criticizing you for telling your experience. I criticized you suggesting the OP give your advice a try when it's acknowledged that saliva isn't a great lubricant for anal sex. Experience and advice aren't one and the same. I'm surprised that has to be explained to you.

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What's cannabis (directly) got to do my criticism? As you seem to be so fond of observing, you supposed that autofill mistakenly put "sativa" from which I assumed you meant to type saliva when you clarified that you meant spit.

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This sweet girl had me orally give her so many orgasms.I was exhausted.
She was a 6ft, green eyed, auburn hair, girl from Texas named Melissa.
Her breasts were beautiful, she wouldn't let me between them though.
Her blowjob was so good, I tapped out without cumming.
I told her she had a beautiful ass, she said I was the the first person to ever say anything,
she was also the first butt obsessed girlfriend I had (me obsessed with her)

She had awoken, got showered, she used this a colon cleanout product, and
she left her buns and entrance covered in a oil (mineral oil maybe)

She came back to bed (I never knew she left)
I was laying on my side,
she apparently spooned up in me, again, I did not know
we were laying spooned side by side
I woke up and I found she was grinding her as into me
in spoon position my cock was being pushed through her slippery buns
with just the tip darting in and out of the hole ,
ocassionally she would shake and tremble and tighten
we did this for 38 minutes, it was more or less mild entry over and over again
she came from this without her vagina being touched
She didn't want me to pop inside her but where I did cum was really sexy.

I really liked anal - although it wasn't the doggystyle variant.
I liked the slow and sexiness of it and the way she was taking control

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But the best way to get a girl into anal is to let her have her "girls nights out." People say men are pigs when they get together and talk--they ain't got shit on what girls talk about when they are out drinking. My second wife was, at first, totally against anal sex. Luckily, she had a girlfriend who was into it. That was the clincher. After a few girls nights out, she wanted to try it. I used my previous experience with the nurse to persuade her that butt sex was not a "spur of the moment, let's be spontaneous" deal. I worked her into it slowly. TIP--eat her pussy a LOT!! Occasionally working your tongue to her butthole. Once she gets used to that, try just working your finger over her asshole as you lick her pussy. Only once you have done that several times and got her used to it, try gently inserting your finger right when she is about to cum. It really makes them cum hard!!

Above all, do not pressure her to let you put your cock in there. Wait until she is ready, and she asks you for it. Getting them used to the enema or an anal douche beforehand, well, that may take some time. Don't try to do it to her, let her do it to herself. No girl wants you to watch her shit. Another tip--wine helps!! Never known a chick to drink wine and not get horny. Again, you have GOT to go at her own pace, do not force anything. If you do, she will hate it and you will never get a second chance.

But, if you do it right and all goes well, before you know it you just might have a girl that becomes an analholic. Once I finally got my second wife into it, she became an anal maniac. In fact she preferred it--which was just fine with me, because I am all about 'dat butt!! I shot more cum into that woman's ass than you could shake a stick at! And loved every minute of it.

Bottom line is, Anal sex is awesome with someone who enjoys it!!

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That being said, I believe that anal porn makes it seem like anal is waaaaay better than it actually is. In real life there is always the cleanliness thing even though I am fortunate to naver had any big mishaps.

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BUT, if you want your wife or girlfriend to let you buttfuck her a lot and if she's never done anal before, you have to go really slow and gentle the first several times or else she will probably not want to do it again. That almost happened with my first wife. (my second wife had done plenty of anal before she met me!)

You should "practice" with her by using your pinky finger first with lots of lube, then use your index finger, and then your middle finger. Do several different practice sessions before you try to stick your dick in her ass. And like I said, go real slow and gentle the first three or four times you do anal with her.

My first wife agreed to try anal but I was a dunderhead about it and didn't do any prepping of any kind. I just put some KY lube on my dick and slid it into her ass. Luckily the sensation of being in her butt was so intense that I climaxed in like 10 or 12 seconds and pulled out. She did not enjoy it at all and refused to try again for several months. When she finally agreed to let me try again, I prepped her with gentle fingering with KY lube for about 10 minutes, and when I inserted my dick I slid it in very slow and moved back and forth in her really slow. When we were done, she said that was a lot easier than the first time and that she wouldn't mind doing it again "every now and then."

"Every now and then" ended up being once or twice a month and after a few months I could buttfuck her just about as hard and fast as I wanted.

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