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jakejd4949
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2938 Posts
8/06
Posted - Jun 27 2016 : 8:19AM
Are there any recommendations on sites for married men and women looking for an affair or FWB ? Since the implosion of Ashley Madison , is there any site with any integrity ? Craigslist seems so , trashy I suppose . I was a member of AM , and knew that many of the ads were fake , but there were real ones interspersed , as I did meet two women over the course of about 3 years and had satisfying affairs with both . Just moved to another state , and I know there are women looking , and what sites might they use ?
arkra
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Posted - Jul 5 2016 : 5:28AM

Edited by - Flash on 7/5/2016 9:27:53 AM
jakejd4949
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2938 Posts
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Posted - Jul 20 2016 : 8:06AM
Nope , not spam , a legit question . I've been here for a decade now .
Edited by - jakejd4949 on 7/20/2016 8:06:49 AM
Flash All-Star Supporter
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11018 Posts
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Posted - Jul 20 2016 : 10:49AM
I didn't say you were spamming, I know you have been here for years and didn't consider your post to be spam. Arkra was going around spamming the forums.
Joey Starr
Senior Member

Still wanking after all these years.
8082 Posts
10/00
Posted - Jul 21 2016 : 10:11AM
Craigslist, there is lots of BS to sift through, but hopefully you can find some gems. I can now spot the ads that are really different and try those. No real success so far, but I keep on trying, don't want to waste money on scam meeting sites anyway. Just hoping to hit the jackpot on Craigslist. Have you stuck to the Casual Accounters WFM section? I might try writing ads for the MFW section, you never know. You have to be persistent and watchful because I see some real ads been removed by author shortly afterwards, it's not a problem if you had back and forth correspondance as you can then keep up for six months. But if you missed it you missed it. Two tips : copy/paste the blurb in google, if several positive results return, its not good. Also Tineye helps you spot the fake photos, but I find anyway that most "genuine" ads (meaning not prostitution/commercial) do not have pics.
 
Canadian_Cindy
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1102 Posts
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Posted - Jul 22 2016 : 8:25PM
Affairs generally are found through work, your profession, school, and social circle. Places you show up and meet the opposite sex and the same people over and over again and you strike up a bond.
The websites are, for the most part, fake female accounts (Ashley Madison had something like 1300 that appeared to be active vs millions of fake ones). When you sign up to these sites, because so many are fakes, it is so hard to find someone. The ones that are legit are getting so bombarded with emails that they can't even keep up.
Craigslist is a bit better because you are not paying, so if you have no success no harm. The problem is, it is overwhelmingly men. And the " female" ads are not only small in number, but mostly prostitutes or fake ads looking to mine your email address.
Married men will use free regular dating sites like POF or OkCupid. Plenty of women to meet there, however, they have to put up they are single. Easy enough, but it brings a lot of negative energy when the girl meets you and you tell her you are married or you try to hide it and it ends up blowing up because she was looking for a single guy.
At the end of the day, nothing beats striking up that connection over a few months with someone within one of your circles (work ,school, sports activity, things like that).
The question really is, are you looking for sex, or a relationship with someone that involves emotions (a traditional affair). IF you just want to get fucked, hire an escort. Simple easy and you can walk away. If you see the same one over and over your strike up a friendship and it is just as intimate as any FWB (just adding on the little envelope of cash on the table). And she won't rat you out, make demands that you get divorced, or cause you to be worried about her messing with you. TO me, an ongoing arrangement with an escort is far superior to sneaking around with emotional affairs that put you and your life at risk of implosion.
I am not condoning affairs, just making comments. I think the best way for a married couple is to share other people together and have threesomes or foursomes. I understand this is not practical as many reasons people seek affairs is because the other partner has closed the door emotionally or sexually.
Edited by - Canadian_Cindy on 7/22/2016 8:29:41 PM
Joey Starr
Senior Member

Still wanking after all these years.
8082 Posts
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Posted - Jul 23 2016 : 2:57PM
^
Very true.
Only thing I must add in countries like the US is that escorts are a very expensive proposition for the average guy, especially seeing one say once a week.
More affluent people won't have that problem of course.
And there are some countries where the escort/prostitute option is much more affordable, like Germany for instance.
Breeze
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One Smokin Hot Chic
532 Posts
11/08
Posted - Aug 31 2016 : 2:49AM
I have had great success on Craigslist, like Joey says, lots of bullshit, place a well written ad and good luck!



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