About a month ago my wife’s workmate emailed her an adult video clip, and to my surprise she agreed to watch it with me. She had seen a few other adult movies before, but never watched more than a minute or two because they just didn’t seem sexy to her. This one was different. She watched all of it over and over. It starts out with the camera peering through some open window blinds at a black couple in a hot tub drinking champagne and eventually evolved into full on sex. She enjoyed that so much and has since been open to seeing other videos. She would like for me to get a few, but I don’t think I can find the same combination of elements that we stumbled upon with this one clip.

I’ve been analyzing what really excited her about this clip, and turned her off in the others. I’ve determined that the most significant requirement is that the females be believably enjoying what is going on. If they aren’t into it then she isn’t going to be. Therefore I think a lot of the more degrading acts such as slapping, spitting, choking, facials, DPs, ATM, etc… would bring her down. She prefers one on one hetero couples, but a gentle threesome might fly. She also wants them to include romance, dialogue, interesting sets and clothing, full body views or at least fewer close-ups, and good looking considerate guys. Oddly she also likes black couples more than whites. She thinks the women are curvier and the men have larger organs. Wow, that is shocking, but she works almost exclusively with minorities.

I hadn’t watch an adult video in years because she was always so negative toward them in the past, but when I did, I liked graphic sex (not soft-core), natural women not teens, some tease, outdoor screens, women giving good head, and lots of doggie style positions. I don’t’ like condoms, rough sex, or gangbangs - defined as more than three people.

So, instead of breaking out to the nearest adult shop and purchasing what most immediately appeals to me, I thought I’d ask the experts what they would recommend. I don’t want to blow an opportunity to indulge her in something I would like to make a more frequent occurrence, us watching and enjoying them together. Does anyone know the title of the movie, and where I can get more like this. Finally, do I have to buy the who tape or disk, or can you now by them scene by scene on line?

Thanks In Advance