Hi everyone… I am a first time message poster. I was wondering what movies you could recommend where the wife/GF is trying to behave but the male come-ons are so intense that she gives in. I am not even that interested in the sex scenes being that good. I am more interested in seeing her trying to not give in to the come-ons and eventually failing. The more detailed the build up the better. Thanks!!!
ok... either nobody has seen a good movie to fit my description or I didn't word my question very well.
I hope this will help.... I have read a lot of really great erotic writing that I really like. One of the things that makes the writing so good is that the writers usually take careful steps in approaching a sex scene instead of a few words and then jumping right into it. I just wish the adult film world would take on some of the characteristics of the erotic literature or the mainstream film world and build tension in a scene before giving you the action. I'm not talking about a stupid underlying plot line where high priced hookers are trained to be undercover detectives. I am also not talking about the "real tv" feel where "real" people are say its their first time on screen etc. I'm talking about little details that make the stars seem like real people or let the viewer feel what the main characters are feeling. I hope this helps someone help me!!! Please, please help!
I've expressed my desire for that a long time ago. I think many Porn directors/performers can benfit from reading erotic fiction. There's so little of them willing to do their homework though. Working in the sex industry like that, you have to know and understand it all, and run the gamut from books, video, photos, etc....
I don't even think there are many directors who research other porn movies from peers in their chosen genres. You could do a lot from simple observation which leads to assimilation, adaptation, improvement
as the saying goes, an amateur artist borrows ideas, a real artist steals them. Something like that
Scipio -- I think this should have stayed in the porn pool, to perhaps edjumacate a few gonzo zombies (both in front of the tv & behind the camera) that the core of human sexuality -- as opposed to mere animal rutting -- resides in the friggin' MIND, thank you.
& I can't help but toss this in to the "directors should read erotic fiction" topic ....
I'm so glad to see some people answered my posting!! Thank you! I was afraid that I was asking for something that other people arn't into. I'm afraid adult film is still a mans world and erotic literature is still a womans world. Why can't we meet in the middle????
Dang, sorry Fiddlesgrl, but I can't be much help. I love the idea, but sadly I can't think of it being done before. The closest might be in one of the Dinner Party movies...
"Vegetarianism for me is about saying ‘yes’ to things - even meat." - Coupling
Thanks everyone for trying! I'll keep checking in to see if there have been any new thoughts on the subject. Anyone who reads erotic literature must know what I am talking about. There is an erotic tension that is so much fun when you're trying to behave but you want to be bad. I would love some scenes that play off of that moment for a long while as a great tease making the payoff really nice. Here is a story that I read last night that might give you an idea of exactly what I'd like to see on film (same pacing but not necessarily through the eyes of a lover).
Hmmm...I know I've seen storylines like that from some pre mid-nineties porn. Perhaps "Every Woman Has a Fantasy" or "Talk Dirty To Me" touch on that subject. Either way, they are both well done films that you will probably enjoy. Maybe something else will come to mind later.
"Every woman has a fantasy" would probably fit your criteria, good suggestion nipfan . The original "Debbie does Dallas" has some of that too (although it is more for money than because of lust). "Bad Girls IV" also isn't exactly what you are looking for but you would probably enjoy the story.
I have a feeling that you are going to find most of what you want was made back in the "golden age". Back when the illusion was still generally accepted by society that a woman would struggle to preserve her "virtue" & that men would do/say anything to corrupt her. The movies of that time exploited that quite a bit.
Thanks guys! I will try those recommendations! I can't believe the things that I like are so "70ies" and not done anymore. That sucks! I don't think I'm THAT out of touch am I? Some adult studio must want to reach this subgroup. no??? I think that a lot of women still want to remain faithful to their husband but feel urges now and then too. The problem with porno stars is they just jump right into the sex and DON'T try to resist. Its not realistic to the people I know anyway. They never get to feel that torture! Therefore, I can't relate to the stars as well as I wish I could and can't imagine myself in their situations. Keep me posted if you think of something else or have any comments on this!
