But, to be honest, it's always at least somewhat dangerous to rely on that sort of response as a safeword- it's just nowhere as clear as it ought to be. So there's always some inherent risk, although they do try to minimize it.
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| StillHope Deactivated User "You didn't say Car Ram Rod" 149 Posts 2/06 |  Posted - Jul 7 2009 : 12:34PMOk, dumb question, but in rough porn or BDSM porn when the girl has a gag in her mouth and/or her arms and legs are tied up, how does she communicate it is getting too rough for her? [Link] |
| cand86 Member 164 Posts 8/08 | Posted - Jul 7 2009 : 1:07PM But, to be honest, it's always at least somewhat dangerous to rely on that sort of response as a safeword- it's just nowhere as clear as it ought to be. So there's always some inherent risk, although they do try to minimize it. [Link] |
| StillHope Deactivated User "You didn't say Car Ram Rod" 149 Posts 2/06 | Posted - Jul 7 2009 : 1:14PM [Link] |
| Ramsey Senior Member Trina Michaels fan 10332 Posts 10/02 | Posted - Jul 7 2009 : 1:31PM [Link] |
| StillHope Deactivated User "You didn't say Car Ram Rod" 149 Posts 2/06 | Posted - Jul 7 2009 : 1:32PM [Link] |
| NewRomancer Deactivated User under THEIR avatar 738 Posts 7/08 | Posted - Jul 7 2009 : 2:10PM [Link] |
| StillHope Deactivated User "You didn't say Car Ram Rod" 149 Posts 2/06 | Posted - Jul 7 2009 : 2:12PM Kink.com seems pretty professionally run, though I am not a member. I am sure they are some low rent, low budget sites out there that go too far. [Link] |
| JohnHenry Member 165 Posts 3/09 | Posted - Jul 7 2009 : 2:28PM It's a particularly complicated issue. 'Bad' things can happen during any BDSM session. There's no evidence that Mr. Lords was killed because of the scene. It could have just as easily happened while he was driving to work in the morning (with the added chance of causing a car wreck, killing more people.) Had it happened in his sleep, that would have been the end of the story. Because he was involved in a BDSM session, Ms Asher was put in a lose-lose situation: dispose of the body (and hope she doesn't get caught), or call the cops, with a dead man strapped to the rack, and hope she isn't prosecuted. Until societal views of BDSM change dramatically (say, to on par with the risks we take playing professional sports) this sort of situation is a risk for everyone who picks up a flogger. Anyway, kink.com's method of safewording is great for shoots. The sort of BDSM play you typically see in a shoot is generally a little tame, compared to what many people practice in their personal lives. Charlotte and I don't specifically use safe words, rather I can usually tell when she's in a good place, and when she's in distress. Whenever a bottom is deprived of the capacity to speak, we generally don't push her hard enough to where safewording becomes necessary, and frequent 'check ins' are necessary. It only takes a moment to lean in and say "are you doing ok?" watch for the head to bob and a muffled "mmmhmmm" (yes) or a shake of the head with an "MMMMMmmmmmMMMmmmm" (no!) For film purposes, that's quickly and easily edited out. John [Link] |
| StillHope Deactivated User "You didn't say Car Ram Rod" 149 Posts 2/06 | Posted - Jul 7 2009 : 2:37PM [Link] |
| LubeNLuv Senior Member 1854 Posts 3/06 | Posted - Jul 7 2009 : 6:11PM Just remember your safe word kids...."Don't!" and "Stop!" can quickly turn into "Don't Stop!" Edited by - LubenLuv on 7/7/2009 6:31:29 PM [Link] |
| realtip Deactivated User 2301 Posts 6/04 | Posted - Jul 7 2009 : 6:33PM The sound is a little off. But you get the point. [Link] |
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