FWIW, I heard tell of a couple performers on various occasions in such predicaments from inside sources. However, I'm not here to make either party look like a douche-bag, so I'll refrain from posting any names.

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I love authenticity in a fuck scene. In real life, girls get a choice...why not porn girls also?

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This is the strangest thread I have ever read at ADT. Ever.

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Edited by - Bornyo on 11/12/2006 9:20:52 PM

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"the director and male stud are stunned when she tells the guy not to fuck her so hard, or to switch to the position she likes, or not to cum on her face, or not to pull her hair, etc... At the same time, when she is actually enjoying herself, "

Perhaps the director and the stud may realise they aren't fucking an automaton. Or isn't this the kind of realism that porn viewers are wanting to see?

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I do like porn to be as realistic as possible but that's a little TOO realistic. Porn is supposed to be fantasy. An escape from harsh realities.

Look at it this way. (I'm going to generalize a bit here just to make a point). Men like porn. Women are more partial to things like soap operas.

What do these two things have in common? They're both fantasy. In real life, most average men will never have the kind of sex that's the norm in a gonzo flick. On the flip side of the coin, most women will never find the man of their dreams. The men in soaps are completely unrealistic. They're all very handsome, have really good jobs, are perfect lovers and on and on. You watch a soap, you don't see Joe Sixpack sitting on the couch drinking beer and scratching his balls. That's more realistic male behavior. You don't often see it on TV or the movies unless it's a comedy or something but that's the reality of it. Women don't want to see that because they can see it anytime. They want to see "prince charming".

Same applies to men and porn. We can have women tell us "NO" all day long every day. It isn't at all unusual and most men don't enjoy being rejected. It's when they say "yes" and allow us to fulfill our fantasies that is a special occasion. There are those women who love the freak and the kink a lot of us desire. Those are the women of our dreams. They look nice. They dress well. They look like the often mentioned "girl next door". They're attractive and take care of themselves. And they love kinky, freaky, nasty hardcore sex. They aren't all that common but you'd think there would be more of them in the porn business than there actually are.

I personally have no problem with women who don't like cum, domineering men, or who don't want a ten inch dick in their ass. I just don't want to see them in hardcore porn. It's like choosing to play full contact football and expecting not to get tackled. There's always softcore for those girls.

I do prefer that women in porn always enjoy themselves. That's why I think a lot of these women need to be more selective in who they work with. People should enjoy their jobs or do something else.

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On the other hand, I think it's great if the girl directs some of the action, demanding what she likes. I just watched Mia Rose do that to Manuel Ferrara in a scene. It was awesome.

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Edited by - clam digger on 11/14/2006 12:04:52 PM

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:: faints ::

The Art of Pleasure

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The Art of Pleasure

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