I would also feel like i'm not giving them enough because they seem like they need alot to be satisfied. Its kinda imtimadating in a way.

I saw Tristan Taormino's flick "Chemistry" the other day and Marie Luv was talking about how hard it was for her to find somebody. I was like, do you really think a man could handle what you do for a living and not feel a little fucked up about it. Marie is an hellava performer, i would feel like i had to do some kind of magic tricks in the bedroom in order to get her off.

How do you please someone that has been with everybody and has done almost everything? They really seem like sex addicts.

Edited by - Stay_Hard on 10/17/2006 12:11:13 PM

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I just chimed in about the very high divorce rate among porn stars, for which there is a ton of anecdotal evidence.

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As far as pleasing someone that has had a lot of sex partners and has done almost everything there shouldn't be a problem if you know how to please a woman in the bedroom PERIOD. What does how many partners a person has had have to do with if someone can please them. Your sex can not be good to a woman that has only been with ten men. Just because I have done a lot of things sexually means that there are many ways to please me. So if I'm a sex addicts, so be it. But Marie Luv is my on screen character and there is a lot more to me than just the sex.

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I've learned enough about human nature to know better than to generalize about anyone's motives just because of their occupation. Though if you're going to be a porn star, it probably helps to have a high sex drive, and if you're going to be a porn star in a relationship, it helps to have a very understanding partner. People work that out in different ways and at different levels of emotional maturity. I don't think porn stars are any more or less fucked up than the rest of the 18-35 year-old demographic. They are, however, far more exposed.

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I'm no shrink (although sometimes I could use one), but I'd think that the key to a successful relationship with such a personality ~ if that's possible ~ would be to draw the relationship away from the sex. Sure, it's essential to any relationship, IMO, but seeing as they've done it for a career, only the true nymphos will want it 24/7 at home as well. You just need to moderate it a little, find something else to occupy one's time during "off duty" hours. Easier said than done, if the person has a fiendishly desire to fuck like a jack rabbit, of course.

Like I said, stick to something you both can enjoy outside the sex, I think that is the healthiest thing. Just because you date a girl who fucks/fucked for a living doesn't mean they (all) want it all day, every day. In talking to so many of the girls, it's ironic & funny to hear some of their interests outside the bedroom/off-set. That's probably why I enjoy BTS so often in my selections.

Edited by - Eric381 on 10/17/2006 8:23:36 PM

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As for the reasons why 40 year olds are still doing porn -
1) it pays the bills,
2) it beats working at McD's, and
3) it's a subculture they're comfortable with.

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Matter fact, i didnt want to offend any of the performers, i just be soo amazed at the amount of sexual energy these people have. Hell, i be worn out with just 1 chick..i couldn't handle 2 or 3 at a time like jslay did in that flick. My ass would be still laid up recovering. I guess thats why i'm not a pornstar!

.......and Marie talking about she wants to team up with Jazmine Cashmere in Black Girks get Nasty too 2, shiiiitttt...my azz would be dead, i swear i wouldn't make it. They would have to have another dude on stand by for me.

Edited by - Stay_Hard on 10/18/2006 1:53:14 AM

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Matter fact, i didnt want to offend any of the performers, i just be soo amazed at the amount of sexual energy these people have. Hell, i be worn out with just 1 chick..i couldn't handle 2 or 3 at a time like jslay did in that flick. My ass would be still laid up recovering. I guess thats why i'm not a pornstar!

.......and Marie talking about she wants to team up with Jazmine Cashmere in Black Girks get Nasty too 2, shiiiitttt...my azz would be dead, i swear i wouldn't make it. They would have to have another dude on stand by for me.

Edited by - Stay_Hard on 10/18/2006 1:53:14 AM

One interesting line from a director was..a guy shows up on set, the girl is laying there as the guy strokes it to try and get it up to start the scene and she tells him.."don't look at me like I'm your girlfriend, just hurry up and fuck me so I can get out of here."

I think that really sums up the attitude of a lot of pornstars. I don't think they are in it for the sex. Obviously they could get more sex, and better sex elsewhere. Sex without 20 people standing around with bright lights and cameras pointed at them, without a director yelling things at them, being told to stop, start, stop, do this...etc.

Really in my opinion that isn't even sex. That is more close to acting. I think just like an actor, they get high off the idea that someone is really into their work. Someone is hanging on their every word, every move, etc. It's that rush of control and power that probably is more of a stimulant than the actual fake sex.

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Nor has your arguements supports "they have to be". If you are right, you got their by the wrong path.

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A good example for me is Courtney Cummz. She always acts over the top and insaitable, but having seen all of her POV anal scenes, I have caught a "script" she often runs.

In these four movies: Tunnel Vision , Perverted Point of View #10 , Drill My Ass POV Style #3 , and Anal P.O.V. #3 -- Courtney gets it up the ass. Now don't get me wrong -- I LOVE seeing this.

But I noticed that in every movie when the camera focuses on her asshole gaping she says the following: "Is it nice and open for you?"

I mean the exact same thing ... in the exact same way. It just goes to show that she in her "performer" mode when this sex is happening. In truth she is probably not into it all. She consideres it a craft or trade.

But like I said, as long as the faking is not completely obvious -- I rarely care. The visual stimulus alone is enough to get me off.

The simple fact is, I don't like to think about realities like this when I watch. The good performers pull you into the fantasy and make you beleive whether it is true or not. As long as I am getting off -- I rarely care about the actual feelings involved. This is another reason why I don't read interviews with porn stars often. I don't want it confirmed that my favorite hot star is just a good actress. I'd rather live in ignorance and have my fantasy intact.

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If you are an athlete (sexual or otherwise) doing it just for the paycheck, that is not enough motivation to be a star performer. The shallowness of the commitment will be reflected in the performance.

I look for those performers who have a higher sense of commitment, who love what they do, who have a drive to be the best and give it all up. When you pair them off with other performers who have the same attitude..that is when things get hot!

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Amy Ried was guilty of this during her short stint with "Get that pussy". There are some movies I would have to use my toes in order to count how many times she used that particular phrase as a request for her partner to fuck her.

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Alot of the performers say that they don't even have sex that much in their personal lives because they get all they need at work. They are always complaining about how hard is it for them to get laid outside of work, always saying that they haven't had sex in such and such time. I don't know if they be lying or what. Marie said that she always loved sex...thats why she started doing porn. Its hard for me to believe that this is just a paycheck for her. I know that she is performing or whatever but she is still fucking...simple as that. Marie i believe the paycheck is just the icing on the cake for you. You are that good. When i think about Jada Fire...i don't sense that she truly enjoys the sex that much...i can tell she be acting in alot of her scenes. She even said that she perfers females over males. That kinda turned me off and ruined by fantasy because i know that she just does this for the green. Ice La Fox is sexy as hell but, she does the samething in all her scenes...never done anal at all. She turned me off when i saw her attitude in a BTS. She seemed more worried about how she was looking than her performance. All that time, i though she truly enjoyed this shit. I guess i'm too guilable.

I think that sometimes the stars are acting and sometimes they are not. I think it depends on who they are working with. When i watch a Justin Slayer or Belladonna movie...the performers actually look like they are truly enjoying the sex. Doesn't seem to be acting at all. I'm just confused. What about these scenes where 2 male performers(supposly hetrosexual) end up doing homosexual stuff..you know when a chick is sucking them off and she rubs their heads together and they just sit there and don't do nothing...like they're enjoying it. That shit is not performing to me at all, them fools are loving that shit.

....How come lesbians get in the industry and fuck men when they don't even like cock? Couldn't they find a normal 9-5 job? I know the money mit be good and all but i just don't get it. It makes for bad scenes. Also is it true that all of the male performers are either gay or bisexual?

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You really think a good looking black girl like Lacey Duvalle is a lesbian? Think about it.

On the flip side of that, if a male performer with a nice, cut body claims he is really gay -- I could beleive that.

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But to answer your question, a better thing to do would be to say nothing all!! Just be low key and that could actually work. It does for Taylor Rain. She has a way being sexy without saying a damn word. Just her moans and facial expressions can do the job.

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I'm really on the fence about this subeject though. When the chick is talking too much..i get annoyed. Expecially if she is not believable. Its geting to the point where i have to watch alot of scenes on mute. Some chicks be saying the same crap in every scene and i hate that with a passion. The black Cherokee is soo boring in her scenes...all she does is repeat "o shit" the whole time. She better be glad she got that phat ass or else she would be useless in porn. I hate when the chick acts the same way in every scene. This is why i never got into Janet Jacme. Yall said that these people are performers so therefore some of them need to start acting like one.

Don't get me started on Lexi Cruz!! Jazmine Cashmere is her best friend, you would think she would have learned something from her by now.

I'm just all over the place with this thread, LOL.

Edited by - Stay_Hard on 10/19/2006 5:04:38 PM

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As for doing anal on-screen, of the lack thereof, there are performers out there who DO have s/o's at home, and this is the one thing they save for their partner. The old "gotta save something for my personal life" is very valid, IMO.

Where in the hell did you ever hear that all male performers are gay or bisexual? Did your best friend tell you this? I'm invoking your earlier self-imposed comment of "gullible" as very factual...ASAP. I'm sure that most of the male performers would like to hear your reasons as to "why they are gay", but then again...probably would take it the same grain of salt that I do. Your sheer uneducation on the matter shows that you know absolutely nothing about camera angles -v- lighting.

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Why don't you believe it?

I hate quiet sex. I would much rather her "fake" it and say she is cumming than her not to say it at all. Cause if she doesn't say it..well she definitely didn't cum. If she doesn't even contract, and say stop..hold on...or allude to it..then it definitely never happened.

So I don't get what your point is. I say do it all the time and let people determine if she really came or not or if she really meant what she said or not.

Better to do it..even if fake, than not to do it at all.

Orgasm > Fake Orgasm > No Orgasm

The reality is, and I hate to burst your bubble, most of it is probably all fake cause it's acting. It's probably in the script. If the girl doesn't orgasm..it's probably not in the script! ha

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In a case of a gape, she may very well not understand why someone wants to see that (I have this in common with her). I think if someone does not understand the why the thing they are doing is sexy they are going to be much more likely to say something either cliched or by rote.

In any case, I think often the hunt is for someone who will say the particular things that you want to hear. I want someone to say "fuck me," among other things. I am less likely to hear this as acting because it is what I want to hear.

All this is not to say she was not acting, as I have no idea who she is. I am just saying that the repitition of one line is probably more either a failure of imagination on her part (which absolutely everyone is guilty of) or just her attempt to say something appropriate and or hot.

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