I think more or less everybody is looking for that long term, stable situation. Many believe that men are not monogamous by nature, but I disagree. Humans are what has been called "serially monogamous," meaning that the prefer a string of monogamous relationships over one life long relationship or a great number of simultaneous lovers. That said, I think men are more "serial" than women.
Out of curiosity, could you tell us how many girls "in the industry" you have known, and the nature of the relationship?
The Philosopher
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