I just had a look at the trailer for Eon McKai's Kill Girl, Kill . I'm always envious of people who have a strong sense of visual style. I don't, and constantly struggle to make up for it in other ways.
Eon's trailer had sex and smeared mascara and smashed televisions and other edgy imagery clearly calculated to shock, upset, titillate – sort of a low rent Marilyn Mason video with the hardcore sex that Mr. Manson can only hint at. It's an aethetic that's about a million times more suited to the relaties of porn budgets than the lame attempts at glamour seen in most features, and it blends well with the presumption that showing live action hardcore sex is wrong.
But it makes me wonder, is it always transgressive to show people having sex? Is seeing sex/showing sex the fundimental taboo, and Eon's smashed TV's and punk(ish) hairstyles are mere stylish accessories?
Whether or not it is a fundamental taboo would depend on what your fundament is. If your fundament is the Victorian marriage ideal then I'd say yes. We really shouldn't blame Queen Victoria, though. She didn't dream up the ideal, she just personified it.
Central Asia, Mesapotamia, as a matter of fact. Temples of Ishtar were the place to be if you were into that sorta thing. Ironic that the same place is now home to such conservative cultures.
"In art, Innana is usually represented as a warrior-goddess, often winged, armed to the hilt, or else surrounded by a nimbus of stars. Even in this aspect she may betray - by her posture and state of dress - her role as goddess of sex and prostitutes. In Neo-Assyrian and Neo-Babylonian art, a female, shown full frontal and nude, or nude from the waist down, who has wings and wears the horned cap of divinity, probably depicts Ishtar more specifically in her sexual aspect. "Ishtar's beast was a lion. Her usual symbol was the star or star disc. She may also have been symbolized for a time by the rosette." - Black and Green, Gods, Demons and Symbols of Ancient Mesopotamia
Ishtar "was a very complex deity. She was the goddess of fertility and sexual activity, the goddess of war, and in her astral manifestation, she was the Venus star in the sky." - Magnus Magnusson, BC - The Archaeology of the Bible Lands
"Ishtar is clothed with pleasure and love, She is laden with vitality, charm and voluptuousness. In lips she is sweet, life is in her mouth. At her appearance rejoicing becomes full. She is glorious; veils are thrown over her head. Her figure is beautiful; her eyes are brilliant. The goddess - with her there is counsel. The fate of everything she holds in her hand. At her glance there is created joy, Power, magnificence, the protecting deity and guardian spirit..." - Hymn of Ishtar
"On Middle Assyrian lead figurines depicting intercourse, the man stands and the woman always rests upon a high structure, usually interpreted as an altar. These figurines may very likely represent ritual intercourse, although definitely not the earlier Sacred Marriage, which involved a bed, and not an altar. Instead they are probably in some way associated with the cult of Ishtar as goddess of physical love and prostitution, and were, in fact, found in her temple at Assur." - Black and Green, Gods, Demons and Symbols of Ancient Mesopotamia
"...At the temple of Aphrodite (Ishtar) in Cyprus it was the custom for women to prostitute themselves to strangers prior to their becoming married. Frazer tells us in The Golden Bough that in Babylon, regardless of their social status, women were obliged to submit themselves to strangers at the temple of Mylitta (Ishtar), and money received for these services was donated to the goddess." - David Wood, Genisis
"The jeweled maidens on the cushioned seats, Now babbling hailed the King, and each entreats For sacred service, silver or of gold, And to him, all, their sweetest charms unfold." - The Epic of Ishtar and Izdubar, Tablet IV, Column III
"Herodotus, writing about Babylon in the fifth century BC, state that every woman once in her life had to go to the temple of 'Aphrodite', i.e. Ishtar, and sit there waiting until a stranger cast a coin in her lap as the price of her favors. Then she was obliged to go with him outside the temple and have intercourse, to render her duty to the goddess. The story is probably highly imaginative. However, the second-century AD writer Lucian describes, apparently from personal knowledge, a very similar custom in the temple of 'Aphrodite' (probably Astarte) at Byblos in Lebanon." - Black and Green, Gods, Demons and Symbols of Ancient Mesopotamia
"In the sanctuary of the great Phoenician goddess Astarte at Byblos at the annual mourning for the dead Adonis, the women had to shave their heads, and such of them as refused to do so were bound to prostitute themselves to strangers and to sacrifice to the goddess with the wages of their shame. Though Lucian, who mentions the custom, does not say so, there are some grounds for thinking that the women in question were generally maidens, of whom this act of devotion was required as a preliminary to marriage." - Sir James George Frazer, The Illustrated Golden Bough
"The servers included religious prostitution, both women and boys. Such a practice was common form in Phoenician sanctuaries, at least in the east. Herodotus records it in Cyprus, and the early fathers have much to way of it in Phoenicia. It also existed in the west, for representations of 'temple boys' occur more than once on Carthage stelae. - Donald Harden, The Phoenicians
Classical Greek Culture. In the time of Aristotle, it was perfectly acceptable to get a blowjob from a slave during a fashionable dinner party. Now we can't even smoke at denny's... that is solid proof that we are devolving rapidly.
As far as KGK goes, I was in that movie, and the bruises, bandages, smashed TV sets, etc. were hardly just set dressing calculated to shock and titilate. Eon put together an amazing cast, and that is pretty much how they look and live whether they are fucking on camera or just living their lives off the set. Pretty much the whole crew behind the scenes looked like the naked people in front of the camera. Me and Zoe walked in off the street (literally, the set was in the middle of an appropriately fucked-up neighbourhood) and we shot the scene wearing our own everyday clothing.
KGK is gonna be THE 21st century porn... either your perspective is gonna be fresh enough that you feel what they were doing (in which case you will be sitting in a puddle of your own cum for about a week), or your head is still stuck in the 20th century. In which case there are still thousands of total crap videos released every month where you can continue getting off on the same old same old.
The descendants of the Phoenicians (and Phoenician influence) and their traditions were already mentioned.
Slavic tribes had something which would pass as swinger-orgies nowadays, mostly set at the transition of one season to another AFAIK. Of course this was more kind of "carneval"/"ritual".
It was reported that in Norse/Germanic tribes it was quite usual for a newly married couple to have sex in front of the other villagers.
Norse gods and goddesses were much more "open" to lust compared to the Greek pantheon. Simplified some Greek gods played Hugh Hefner, but the goddesses were against "free love" - ever jealous Hera, Artemis who would haunt you if you dared to seduce her, e.g. Only Aphrodite was really open to lust. In the norse pantheon almost all goddesses were open to promiscuity and lust.
Sadly the christians did their best in rewriting the history and the legends and myths of Norse/Germanic people and in a lesser extent Slavic culture and civilisation, i.e. they stole and destroyed the heritage of these cultures. Especially Norse/Germanic texts and lores - maybe with the exception of a few lines of the Merseburger Spells, even the Elder Edda was discovered by an icelandic bishop and even if the Elder Edda wasn't "reedited" it already shows christian influence - survived only in the heavily "remastered" christian "re-editions".
Who knows what Norse/Germanic (and Slavic) people were really up to, if you can only extrapolate from the christianised texts and some facts.
I've been to many dinner parties where both smoking and blowjobs were both very much in vogue. I don't know that either your example or mine can be equated with public sex being the norm of human sexual behavior, either now or in the time of Aristotle
Authenticity and calculation are not mutually exclusive.
The stylish accessories that have a punk feel seem to reinforce or seek to reinforce the notion of sex as act of anarchy. I always thought real punks seemed too angry to actually ever have sex.
I've struggled to think of an example in which the filming and viewing of people having sex wouldn't be regarded in some way transgressive by someone. So yes -- pretty much always. Which makes me think of many questions when I ought to be finishing reviews...
Are there present day societies that wholeheartedly embrace and promote sex captured by the moving image other than ADT and the porn industry itself? Would a lack of a sense of transgression alter the viewer's perception or pleasure? Is there such a thing as permission to transgress? If a couple metaphorically speaking invite me into their bedroom does it lessen the sense of transgression or just make me a colluder in that transgression? Does it matter if I don't subscribe to any of the rules that are being transgressed? Should I have my brain stapled ?...