So ima guy. 19 years old. It just came to my attention that like 90% of girls or w/e can only truly orgasm through their clit. So despite being severly disappointed, i was wondering what are the best sex positions that my pelvis or my dick would like rub agasint her clit to make her actually orgasm? i know how to warm her up with my hands and mouth down there but im trying to get her to orgasm through her clit while im having sex with her via penetration. Thank you so much for your feedback in advance :). Topic Moved by - killbillvol69 on Jan 11 2013
Thanks, i was really hoping there was some magical position in which i could just thrust and be hands free and my dick wud ust rub agasint it till she climaxed. Is this impossible? xD
It's possible, but not very comfortable for the guy. You can do it in a modified missionary position, where you get the woman to bring her legs together after the penetration, and you have to spread your legs so that her legs will end up between your legs. In this position, your cock will move her pussy-lips with every thrust. And her clitoris will get stimulation too, because her moving pussy-lips will move around her clitoris too. An easier way to stimulate her clitoris would be for her to mount you in the reverse-cowgirl position. Because this way you can easily reach her clitoris with your fingers and stimulate it during your intercourse with her. Porn movies don't often show this kind of techniques and positions, because porn isn't meant to be educational. It's done for entertainment of the viewers, rather than for real sexual pleasure between the actors.
Any position that allows access is good. Someone said reverse cowgirl, that ones nice if she has enough support so she can find a rythm without feeling like she's going to fall. I am not adept with reverse cowgirl. On your sides in a spoon position you can lift her leg over your thigh and open her. You would enter from behind and you would have your hands free for stimulation, breasts, clit, whatever. Doggie is good with a reach around.
This is where it helps if the girl is practiced at getting herself off through masturbation (not all women are). Let her get on top and drive. It may be easier for her to get off from grinding than from thrusting, which means that if she is in control, she can slow things down and do a slow rubbing, possibly circular or side to side motion. Sometimes things take time.
Missionary with the man up on his toes with his legs stiff causes the male pubic mound to rub on the female's clitoris. Some women are able to have an orgasm in that manner.
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Posted - Jan 16 2013 : 6:33PM
I'm surprised I don't hear of this more often but the woman flat on her belly, entered from behind and you reach around and rub her clit at the same time. Works well in my experience and more comfortable than doggy.
both on your sides spooning, enter her and then put her top leg over yours allowing you access from the front or back to stimulate her clit. Also edge of the bed missionary with her legs on your shoulders or legs spread knees back towards her hips so you can stimulate her clit while you thrust, plus great visual site for you.