What is your health like and how often have you been fucking? It could simply be that you are too tired physically and sexually.
Still, the better shape you are in the better you can be sexually. Exercise and good diet.
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| bacteriums New Member 3 Posts 6/05 |  Posted - Jun 5 2005 : 4:07AMHello. I'm having a kind of embarassing problem. [Link] |
| croy Platinum Member Discovry 4574 Posts 3/04 | Posted - Jun 5 2005 : 4:11AM What is your health like and how often have you been fucking? It could simply be that you are too tired physically and sexually. Still, the better shape you are in the better you can be sexually. Exercise and good diet. [Link] |
| bacteriums New Member 3 Posts 6/05 | Posted - Jun 5 2005 : 4:14AM I consider myself pretty healthy. I would definitely say I am in good shape. I'm not too tired. I WANT to have sex with her. [Link] |
| lindi Senior Member 12345 3205 Posts 9/02 | Posted - Jun 5 2005 : 12:38PM That leaves a couple of possibilities that I can think of. The first is shyness or performance anxiety. Basically, you are worried. If both of you find the situation a-okay, and you just go for the handjob and oral, there's not much problem. It's hard to be worried when you are both saying, "Yay, blowjob!" But it has to be both of you. When it's truly acceptable to both of you then the worry goes away, and so does the problem, (but who cares anymore, because it's no longer much of a problem anyhow). Just a personal quirk. A second possiblity that occurs to me is that you need some love with your lust, and it's not enough for her to love you, she has to love your dick. If you have any thoughts that sex is wrong or unwholesome, or violates her, you might need her loving attention to your dick to feel fully welcomed. Or maybe I'm on crack. Actually, now I'm a little more worried about these 'bacteriums' that you mentioned. [Link] |
| bacteriums New Member 3 Posts 6/05 | Posted - Jun 5 2005 : 12:42PM Well like I said, we don't JUST go for handjob oral, I need that to get hard, then we have sex. [Link] |
| BigBobxxx Senior Member 2681 Posts 5/04 | Posted - Jun 5 2005 : 7:04PM And this is a problem? If you didn't get hard, you might have something to worry about. As far as I can see, most guys would envy your situation! Why not see if you can get her to suck you until you cum (i.e. no fucking) for a little variety. And Croy was right... DON'T worry about this (sounds real normal to me). You don't have a problem... don't overthink yourself into one. [Link] |
| Ejac Deactivated User 851 Posts 9/04 | Posted - Jun 5 2005 : 7:21PM Do you still get hard looking at other girls? Sometimes a different menu will cure things up. [Link] |
| threesomebody Official BlowBang Judge Would you like my autograph? 2491 Posts 12/04 | Posted - Jun 5 2005 : 7:35PM [Link] |
| Ejac Deactivated User 851 Posts 9/04 | Posted - Jun 5 2005 : 8:14PM [Link] |
| debbie_007 Member Canada 18 Posts 5/05 | Posted - Jun 5 2005 : 9:05PM I think the 'problem' might simply be that you've gotten used to having sex, and have grow accustomed to it. Like BigBobxxx said, you should just try some variety in your adult playtime. [Link] |
| Ivory Sex Object by Proxy "We all want our time in Hell." 647 Posts 8/04 | Posted - Jun 5 2005 : 9:25PM By the way, what do you do to your girlfriend before intercourse? Do you return the favors? [Link] |
| Ejac Deactivated User 851 Posts 9/04 | Posted - Jun 5 2005 : 9:32PM Could it be, even remotely possible, that because she was your first that you're hanging on for the sole reason to get laid? If the physical attraction is there, and so are the feelings, the two of you need to sit down and talk about it - no one on this board can help. Otherwise, if one or the other [attraction] is missing, it might be time to face it and move on. I never implied for you to "fool around" on her. But if the both of you are mature enough to handle it, you might be better served to explore other options, if even temporary. You owe it to yourself and each other. I'm fortunate to be in an open relationship. We both agree on this lifestyle and always know what the other is up to. [Link] |
| Cock Choke Me Member 378 Posts 9/04 | Posted - Jun 5 2005 : 11:51PM xoxo ~ Well behaved women never make history. ~ [Link] |
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