I can offer three suggestions:

1) Switch positions fairly frequently (stops him building up momentum too quickly).

2) If he’s about to come he can squeeze the tip of his penis and that stops it for a while.

3) If you are really desperate you can have a copy of that song ‘I want Candy’ sung by that little kid Aaron somebody nearby. It’s a near instant turn off for every guy I know! Should take him a little while to recover from that.

P.S. The first two are serious.

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Anyway, Meridian had a couple of good suggestions. Another would be to have him jerk off before you have sex but you already said that when you have sex shortly after he cums he still doesn't last before cumming again. How old is he? And was he a virgin or did he have very little experience before you? Because the same thing happened to me the first several times I had sex when i was 16-17 years old. Maybe he just needs to get more used to it. You've only had sex a few times, give the guy a chance to get familiar with it and get some experience. Be patient, he'll be alright.

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I'm a 19yr old male, and I actually lost my virginity on New Year's Day. I used to cum quickly (5 minutes on average). Now I average about 20 minutes. If your boyfriend was a virgin before he met you thrn I would have to agree with what caneboy said and just give him some more time. He'll most likely get used to it and will find a way to control his excitement, thus lasting longer. Good luck

Lord forgive me I'm ballin' out of control/Got the spirit of a hustla pourin' out of my soul!
Jay-Z - "Honey"

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Sorry, didn't mean to hi-jack the thread, just rambled a bit too much.

As far as your man is concerned. Does he jack-off? He should, as much as possible. If he can already last a longtime from said masturbation, then he needs to jack-off with you until he can last. It's more of a mental thing, in my opinion, he's focusing on that and only that. He probably sticks his dick in a says to himself, "Ahhhh, that feels soooooooooo good." Therefore, mentally locking himself into a mode of how good his dick feels. I used to have fun with one of my girlfriends where she would undress me, and stay fully clothed. This would only make me hornier, I don't know why. Then she would get between my legs, and try to jack me off as quick as possible. I, on the other hand would try and stop her. Needless to say, she always won. Another thing we would do is. She would jack me off and everytime I came close to coming I would let her know, she would stop, letting me relax. She would continue after I told her it was ok. The fun part about this was that she would never let me know when it was she was going to get me off. I would just let her know when it was going to happen, and she would decide when it was that I could come. This last alternative would probably work great for you, cause you could make it a game. You'll be improving his stamina, and he'll think your the best thing since sliced bread. Your approach could be as easy as, "Hey baby, I want to play a game with you. I want to see how many times I can get you close to coming, all you have to do is tell me when you're getting close." Get him naked, and keep him naked, the more he's naked the more he'll get relaxed and comfortable, and the less his nerves will come into play.

Edited by - DigitalDave on Jan 28 2002

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During my studies in Tai Chi, I've been able to 'control' pain through controlled breathing and focusing thought.
Pleasure can be controlled in much the same way.

The danger comes from the loss of distinction between the physical and the emotional.

The guy with the pre-mature ejaculation problem is clearly in an heightened emotional state (which is normal early on in a sexual relationship), but with time sex will become more of a physical act and he will last longer.

I was recently flirting with a girl at work and she asked why guys cheat on their partners.
I guess it's the emotional buzz we crave, more than the physical act of sex.
(any guy who has ever cheated on their partner will tell you that he reached orgasm a lot quicker than he does at home).

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What positions have you tried? Mix it up a bit, and try the woman on top if you haven't already. That way, he isn't in control and you can slow things down a bit or even pause if you sense he's getting close.

Hope this helps!
Draken

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