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Bojangalz
Member


"The BookSmart DeviL"
414 Posts
9/07
Posted - Jan 7 2012 : 1:34AM
not sure if it's just bc of my latest lady friend, but I'm begining to doubt my sexual prowess...
as noted in a previous thread I was taught how to fuk by a gorgeous goddess, Gave me confidence, showed me a few tricks, Im forever indebted to her for that..
but now after a few subpar outings with my lady friend, I think I need some improvement
Last time I was in a situation like this I saw Jack Lawrence's how to on eating pussy and got a lot of positive feedback..
are there any videos any1 would reccomend?
Rod
Member

908 Posts
8/10
Posted - Jan 10 2012 : 9:25AM
Are you thinking you're subpar or your lady thinks you're subpar?
astroknight All-Star Supporter
Questionable Moderator

Tastes so good...
4187 Posts
11/99
Posted - Jan 10 2012 : 3:41PM
No video can teach you what pleases your partner as well as simple communication...
"I do not as a rule seek advice about food from thin people..." - Jeffrey Steingarten
SexShopGrl
Member

F is for Forty and Fabulous!
940 Posts
5/11
Posted - Jan 10 2012 : 6:57PM
Ya know....it could be the chemistry. I've had awesome mind blowing sex with past partners I would have never expected it from and mediocre sex with guys I thought would be mind blowing. It all came down to chemistry.
Edited by - sexshopgrl on 1/10/2012 6:58:11 PM
Bojangalz
Member

"The BookSmart DeviL"
414 Posts
9/07
Posted - Jan 11 2012 : 8:32AM
ditto
she's a friend with benefits, the sex is ok
maybe it's ego, but I want it to be off the charts every time...
might be ego...
 
Rod
Member

908 Posts
8/10
Posted - Jan 11 2012 : 9:18AM
I suggest that's not reasonable or desirable. For it to be off the charts requires a chart. I think you want those few off the chart moments. The up and down. I think it's the good sex that makes the off the chart sex notable.
But, if the sex is always just ok and the off the chart sex is really just good sex, then I think there's an issue. Chemistry is always important, but after filming lots of amateur sex, it's apparent some are just better at it than others.
Some NFL quarterbacks are better at football than others too. They all may be good, but only a few are great. The good ones can get better, but they'll probably never be great. You could practice and get better at being an NFL quarterback too, but I'm guessing you'll never be great, probably never even be good.
Sex is the same way. If you've worked at getting comfortable and explored things and it's still not what you're looking for, time to change quarterbacks. You can work at it more, but you need to recognize there's a limit to how much she'll change.
It doesn't mean there's anything wrong with her, she's just not what you're looking for in a partner. The chemistry may be there between you (compatibility in other areas), but there's a disconnect in bed. Move on.
SexShopGrl
Member

F is for Forty and Fabulous!
940 Posts
5/11
Posted - Jan 12 2012 : 1:12AM
^Not just that but also off the charts is just flat out unrealistic. No one has off the chart sex every time they have sex. It's like the OP is setting himself(and his partner) up for failure.
dogzcatcher All-Star Supporter
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Fat bottomed girls make the rockin' world go round!
1551 Posts
5/09
Posted - Jan 13 2012 : 4:47AM
For me, sex is not a destination to arrive at or some imaginary goal to achieve, it is enjoying the nice-slow-ride getting there.
amadeo
Member

63 Posts
7/11
Posted - Jan 13 2012 : 6:13AM
Don't be shy about having a variety of lubes available... she might think 'you do this often' but deep inside, she'll appreciate it.
:)
Rod
Member

908 Posts
8/10
Posted - Jan 13 2012 : 7:15AM
I'm not sure if this pun was intended or not. 'Deep inside'.....????



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