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| jugernot New Member 4 Posts 2/01 |  Posted - Feb 8 2001 : 2:53AMI am a 19yo (virgin up until 3 days ago) and she is 32yo, we are both college students. We have known each other for a year and a half, but only recently started seeing a lot of each other. Around 2 weeks to be exact. Here is my problem and isn't what you might think! I can't cum or reach a final climax during sex (oral and straight)!! This might not seem like a problem to most guys (maybe even a good thing to most?) but she feels like she isn't getting me aroused and in turn she gets somewhat depressed everytime. She has given me 10 minutes blowjobs and they feel absolutely amazing! Don’t get me wrong, its not that I’m limp (its like a hunk of steel, at least that is what she says), just “Little Joey” (self named ) just don’t want to give it up! The one comment that absolutely BROKE my heart in two was when she said “I haven’t done this in 5 years, maybe I’ve lost it?!?!” HELL NO!!! It has been amazing and I have been telling her so everyday! She says that if she can’t make me cum she shouldn’t either, which drives me crazy! I love to get her off, but she always stops me! What is wrong with me? I feel so bad that something I can control (or thought I could) is making her sad! It’s tearing me apart! Btw: If anyone is going to say that maybe its her fault, she has been married 3 times before and told me that she was very promiscuous years ago. Also, no drugs or aphrodisiacs are involved!  [Link] |
| jugernot New Member 4 Posts 2/01 | Posted - Feb 8 2001 : 3:25AM What are some things I can try? Perhaps foods that are great when served off a belly button? Techniques for licking her body, tip of my tougue? Please any and all advice is welcome! (I don't know if you can tell, but I am wanting to satisfy her more than anything else in the world! She is my soulmate and I am in nirvana when she is happy!) Edited by - jugernot on Feb 8 2001  [Link] |
astroknight  Questionable Moderator Tastes so good... 4187 Posts 11/99 | Posted - Feb 8 2001 : 10:35AM [Link] |
| dumblonde Senior Member 2352 Posts 7/00 | Posted - Feb 8 2001 : 11:09AM Maybe you should consider some. Just kidding, jugernot. First, let me say, welcome! There's nothing wrong with you or her, but the feeling I get is that in your eagerness to please the other, which is good, don't get me wrong, you both have gotten overly sensitive. She thinks it's her fault, you think it's your fault, while nothing is anyone's fault. I think your statements "She says that if she can?t make me cum she shouldn?t either, which drives me crazy! I love to get her off, but she always stops me!" While her intentions may be honorable, I think if she would stop shouldering the responsibility Have you tried masturbating in front of each other? I realize that this is not what someone Good luck, jugernot, tell her to relax, and keep us posted!...........DB [Link] |
| sonic Deactivated User 1178 Posts 12/99 | Posted - Feb 8 2001 : 11:14AM Why don't you practice it? Take a porn that you never seen, slack off..and check how it works? That's an idea. [Link] |
| 2dvd Senior Member Trading DVDs 1447 Posts 12/00 | Posted - Feb 8 2001 : 11:34AM [Link] |
| -lunacy- Senior Member 1081 Posts 4/00 | Posted - Feb 8 2001 : 6:40PM my advice is along the same lines...relax my advice is along the same lines...relax my advice is along the same lines...relax my advice is along the same lines...relax . Take a deep breath and stop being obsessed with orgasms. Making love with someone you are in love with and of itself is an incredible experience, enjoy it. I will venture to guess, your temporary inability to cum is casued by your phyching yourself out. It is wonderful to have someone to concerned about bring you to pleasure, but you both need to try to relax and just enjoy yourselves and if you cum you do, if you don't, maybe you will next time. I know that sounds over simplified, but that's all there is to it. Overall, you both just need to be patient with each other, and most importantly yourselves.
Edited by - -lunacy- on Feb 8 2001 [Link] |
| jugernot New Member 4 Posts 2/01 | Posted - Feb 8 2001 : 11:16PM Hopefully you guys are right and this will eliminate whatever problem I had/have with it. She seemed very thankful (was there ever any doubt? ) I just need to let my tongue rest some, its is swollen and throbbing at the moment. No pain, no gain? Edited by - jugernot on Feb 9 2001 [Link] |
| 2dvd Senior Member Trading DVDs 1447 Posts 12/00 | Posted - Feb 9 2001 : 7:35PM [Link] |
| PrinceO Member 82 Posts 4/01 | Posted - Apr 29 2001 : 11:39PM Is it just with her that you can't cum, or is it not at all? [Link] |
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