Whats the best way to have sex with my girlfriend to give her a great orgasm.Also are there any ways of making my dick bigger without pumps or pills. im 8 inches but want a bit bigger
Be happy with your eight inches. There's no need to be any bigger. If you want a harder erection (which will make you feel bigger to her), use a cock ring. As far as how to please your girlfriend, you have to ask her. If she doesn't know herself, you have to experiment together. Every woman is different, and what works for one won't necessarily work for another.
First of all, eight inches, in my opinion is a perfect size. Too large can be painful! You can try using a cock ring to sustain the full size. I wouldn't recommend pills and pumps. There's always side effects with that. Be happy with what you naturally have. Every woman is different, but here are a few things you could try with her: Fuck her pussy while you... finger her ass, use a vibrator on her clit, use a dildo in her ass, use a dildo in her pussy too, talk dirty and look intensely into her eyes, deeply kiss her, push your cock in deep while stimulating her clit, try using ice...anywhere, choke her when she comes (please ask if she likes it before you try)...or any combination of the above. You can also have fun with toys and tongues - like a vibrator (such as the amazing rabbit) to simulate her pussy and clit while you lick her ass...the possibilities are endless. Also, encourage her to understand her body better. I recommend taking belly dance classes. After learning belly dancing, I realized that I could shimmy cum, that is, I could quickly move my hips back and forth until I came. It's all about harnessing your muscle control and energy momentum. Cheers and good luck! Mina
I donno. It might be, but I've also know men concerned with size that are 8 inches. A lot of guys in porn exceed that length, so if one compares themselves to that.... It's like girls with C tits complaining that their tits are too small.
^^^ Guys come to the shop all the time to buy penis pumps, then complain that the chamber looks too small for them to fit. Mina makes excellent points. All those things should result in your girlfriend having bigger, harder, more intense orgasms. You didn't mention your ages or how long you've been together, or give us much indication of the state of your relationship. The more information you can give us, the more we might be able to help.
+1 to both. Dudes don't always want to hear this but to really give yer girl a great orgasm you have to go stinkfinger or bring in the vibrator and toys. Alternate going slow and then slamming works over here.
Eight is more than fine! Learn how to use it. I've experienced great orgasms with a lot less, believe me. As far as what will do it for her I think Mina has some good advice but don't try them all instead use her list more like a menu and see what works. Experimentation is what successful sex is all about! Personally I find the toys, used in conjunction with fucking, great but the ice is a turn off. I would not have know either unless I tried.
I wouldn't promote a cock ring or a penis pump. I would talk a guy out of them if I had the oppurtunity. The safety of a cock ring has been disputed. Here is a link to one persons opinion. Here is an interesting read on penis enlargement Anything that can cause permanent physical damage to my dick, I stay away from.
^^ Funny you should say that, because I do discourage men from purchasing pumps. I only recommend them to men who've had damage and/or surgery to the prostate, and to men who are paralyzed. A pump can create a temporary erection, if a man so desires one.
And if a cock ring is worn to long it can cause permanent damage to penis. How long is too long? I have NO intention of finding out. I do not know if you work on commission or not Pagoda but a suggestive sale of the Ladybug is a great experimenters dream, works best in doggy style to my tested knowledge, it provides great clitoral stimulation with the penetrating action of the male. Of course there are other similar gadgets like the venus butterfly but the LadyBug works for both male and female in the doggy style position. For the lady it offers clitoral stimulation, for the male it offers a slight deep prostate massage when he is fully inserted.