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yc03
Member

6 Posts
11/06
Posted - Nov 16 2006 : 7:24PM
Hello everyone this is my first post, although I've been lurking for a while now. I'm a guy in my 20s with limited sexual experience. I've recently had an encounter that was a bit awkward. The girl started things off with a blowjob, which felt really great. But when we started having intercourse, with her getting on top of me, I couldn't really feel anything. When she starting bouncing up and down, the friction did start to feel okay, but the feeling wasn't as "tight" as I have experienced before with other women.

After a while, her knees started getting tired, so I got on top of her. I don't know if my rhythm was off or what, but I started with some slow pumping and I couldn't feel much of that pleasurable pressure I was hoping for. During this whole time, she wasn't that responsive. Not getting any feeling from her vagina made my penis go softer, so I just gave up and went down on her. She said that she liked how my tongue felt, so I kept going. Eventually, she finished me off with a blowjob but it was frustrating not being able to get off in her pussy.

My question is if I couldn't feel anything, does that mean that she didn't feel anything either? My guess is my dick is too small and it's not compatible with her body. And when I say small, I mean in terms of girth not just length. Is there anyway the situation could be improved? I feel like it was my fault that the sex was bad, since she seemed very experienced giving the blowjob. I mean she was great. So it's not her lack of experience, it must be mine.

ma meeshka
Iconoclastic Member

3939 Posts
4/06
Posted - Nov 16 2006 : 8:12PM
chemistry is a big part of it. you should have a rapport with the girl and be comfortable together. it will enhance the situation, and the lack of feeling will be made up in some other way. maybe she'll talk dirty to you.
katsirk
Member

Crush on Greg....mmm
812 Posts
7/06
Posted - Nov 17 2006 : 2:29AM
She may be "loose".
Joey Starr
Senior Member

Still wanking after all these years.
8082 Posts
10/00
Posted - Nov 17 2006 : 3:39AM
He may be "tiny".
Joey Starr
Senior Member

Still wanking after all these years.
8082 Posts
10/00
Posted - Nov 17 2006 : 3:41AM
Seriously, in my experience, the "woman on top" position is not the best to start with. I don't have a routine, but I like to start on top then switch to doggy and when I'm ready for the finish, after 25 minutes or so, I get to the "woman on top" position.
 
ma meeshka
Iconoclastic Member

3939 Posts
4/06
Posted - Nov 17 2006 : 4:57AM
in future, just do anal.
Pagoda
Senior Member

Thread Killer
1747 Posts
10/05
Posted - Nov 17 2006 : 5:28AM
There are other positions that make for a tighter fit. Anything with her knees together is good. It compresses everything. If you really like her and think you'll have a long term relationship with her, there are things you can do to improve your compatibility. But right now, it sounds like you two just don't "fit" well.

And I must say, when sex doesn't work out perfectly, particularly the first time between new partners, it's nobody's "fault." Don't worry about it. Doing so will only make the sex get worse. Just enjoy what you can, and if you two end up sticking together, you can work together as a team to improve this "tightness" situation in a mutually supportive way.

Edited by - Pagoda on 11/17/2006 5:30:12 AM

ma meeshka
Iconoclastic Member

3939 Posts
4/06
Posted - Nov 17 2006 : 7:28AM
fuck her ass, dude.
ma meeshka
Iconoclastic Member

3939 Posts
4/06
Posted - Nov 17 2006 : 7:30AM
fuck her ass, dude.
ma meeshka
Iconoclastic Member

3939 Posts
4/06
Posted - Nov 17 2006 : 7:31AM
it's such a good idea, the board decided to post it twice! it's like a chorus.
ziniaraya
Member

London
194 Posts
4/03
Posted - Nov 17 2006 : 1:39PM
lol, ur bragging right ? After 25 minutes from the off, I'm(a) asleep; (b) making coffee; or (c) doin' sumthin' else.

Z.

Joey Starr
Senior Member

Still wanking after all these years.
8082 Posts
10/00
Posted - Nov 17 2006 : 4:34PM
No I'm not, with me it's either "gone in sixty seconds" or 30 minutes.
yc03
Member

6 Posts
11/06
Posted - Nov 17 2006 : 5:17PM
Thanks to everyone for their replies, especially Pagoda. Next time I will ask her to talk dirty a bit and I will try the compression thing. Either way, I think we will still end up being friends since we do have compatible personalities.
cross
Senior Member

I Love Beef Curtains!
1072 Posts
6/05
Posted - Nov 18 2006 : 10:52PM
Fuck her ass - Lala la la la lala la la
katsirk
Member

Crush on Greg....mmm
812 Posts
7/06
Posted - Nov 19 2006 : 4:52AM
Tell her to squeeze!!
 
Joey Starr
Senior Member

Still wanking after all these years.
8082 Posts
10/00
Posted - Nov 19 2006 : 4:58AM
Not that hard!
katsirk
Member

Crush on Greg....mmm
812 Posts
7/06
Posted - Nov 19 2006 : 5:14AM
Why not? Flex that muscle!
Joey Starr
Senior Member

Still wanking after all these years.
8082 Posts
10/00
Posted - Nov 19 2006 : 3:56PM
Because I came too soon!



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