Just tonight I had sex for the first time in a month or so.... Once again i was unable to climax by just regular having sex... I think it has something to do with the fact that when i masturbate its normally pretty fast and intense, and when having actual sex, its not that speed at all, and then I also have a condom on. When i first started having sex the sensation felt much different than i expected, and didnt feel as good as when i masturbate. When i masturbate its at a pretty fast speed, and i do it an unconventional way with the top of my hand actually going over the top of my penis, instead of under the bottom like most.

Under normal circumstances id assume that it has something to do with the prozac im on... but when masturbating i can climax in less than a minute if i want to. Even before going on prozac i was able to climax in basically the same time i do now when masturbating. Anyone know any way to solve this problem possibly? maybe if i tried masturbating at a slower rate my body would eventually get used to that speed? Hmm.... Getting a blowjob actually feels good, and i think id be able to climax to that if she kept it up at a fast and continuous pace, but with actual sex, it didnt feel as good, it just felt warm.

I know i dont have a problem with ejaculating in general, but in actual sex itj ust doesnt feel as good, or like i read in another thread, it feels unfamiliar, although good. Please everyone who knows anything about this situation, or who knows someone who had it, what they did, or ways to help it, plz give your input.

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