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| gregs1775 Member  64 Posts 4/05 |  Posted - Jun 21 2010 : 3:36PMSo here is the scenario. I have posted a few times about how my wife and I have (recently) fulfilled one of her most vivid fantasies, specifically allowing a threesome with me and another guy (no gay stuff going on here, just for her) that included DP. The fulfillment came with some rules, no playing alone, etc. Recently though there has been some disturbing changes... Her interest in sex seems to have gone down. She has shown a very intense interest in fitness. While she has always been hot now she is determined to really ratchet up her fitness routine. I found out about a Yahoo e-mail account that she has that was never given to me. This seems to be an indication that I have unleashed a bit of a monster. Has anyone else had this happen to them? Should I be worried that her new found sexuality is going to be a problem?  [Link] |
| Macko69 Senior Member Gone for a walk. 1985 Posts 5/08 | Posted - Jun 21 2010 : 7:08PM If you think she's cheating on you, secretly check her out at the gym. If she's spending a lot more time there lately, that's probably where her boyfriend is (if she has one). If she has a man on the side, it really shouldn't come as that big a shock to you. Any woman who fantasizes about a DP, and then actually fulfills the fantasy, has a sexual appetite that probably can't be satiated by just one man.  [Link] |
HeyNow  Oblivious Gold Star Hey! 5965 Posts 1/03 | Posted - Jun 22 2010 : 1:44AM [Link] |
| TedtheBellhop Member 767 Posts 6/09 | Posted - Jun 22 2010 : 8:30AM I hope that isn't the case! I like Macko69's suggestion on how to deal with it. Please let us know what happens. [Link] |
| NewRomancer Deactivated User under THEIR avatar 738 Posts 7/08 | Posted - Jun 22 2010 : 9:54AM [Link] |
| Kimi Lixx Senior Member 2012 Posts 6/01 | Posted - Jun 22 2010 : 11:15AM Secrecy has no place in a marriage. Privacy is granted from one to another, out of respect. Secrecy is taken. [Link] |
| gregs1775 Member 64 Posts 4/05 | Posted - Jun 22 2010 : 1:25PM Macko69: Good suggestions as well. I have been trying to figure out how to approach this subject with her and to voice my concerns. I plan on talking to her but am not sure how and what strategy I am going to employ yet. I guess that I thought the safeguards would be enough and never had any reason to worry prior to a couple of week ago... [Link] |
| Clam Digger Deactivated User Many a man fails as an original thinker simply because his memory is too good. 2268 Posts 1/05 | Posted - Jun 22 2010 : 6:37PM [Link] |
| TedtheBellhop Member 767 Posts 6/09 | Posted - Jul 8 2010 : 10:08AM [Link] |
| DrBellows Member "I'm not a Doctor, but I play one on TV" 29 Posts 2/09 | Posted - Jul 10 2010 : 11:23AM [Link] |
| Breeze Member One Smokin Hot Chic 532 Posts 11/08 | Posted - Jul 12 2010 : 5:13AM Not that one has to be "secret" but privacy is a good thing. Should you be worried? Open up an offshore bank account that you only have access to and transfer all your funds, then quit worrying. Tell her straight up that if she wants to find somebody better than you to knock herself out. You two have a life together, remind her of that, tell her you don't care if she wants to see other guys but in the end you are always there for her and if that is her take on it tell her you want to see other women too. Open your own yahoo account and take a look at what is out there. She won't find much and neither will you. A ton of players on the man side and a ton of milfs looking for the gravy train. You worry too much. [Link] |
| His Dudeness All Business Shut the fuck up, Donny!! 2793 Posts 4/10 | Posted - Aug 13 2010 : 4:20AM [Link] |
| ocdude Deactivated User 196 Posts 8/10 | Posted - Sep 5 2010 : 7:46PM Usually a woman who works her ass off to get in great shape wants to show off her body and wants MORE sex. I hear all the time women say how when they work out they get REALLLLLLLY horny and sometimes working out can give them an orgasm. If your wife is working out as hard/often as you say she should want MORE sex - and she might be getting it. If not with you............. [Link] |
| ronin3 Member 82 Posts 10/07 | Posted - Sep 9 2010 : 4:35PM [Link] |
| JohnW Senior Member 1351 Posts 6/08 | Posted - Sep 12 2010 : 2:36PM [Link] |
| strokerass Member 8 Posts 9/10 | Posted - Sep 28 2010 : 6:12PM [Link] |
| His Dudeness All Business Shut the fuck up, Donny!! 2793 Posts 4/10 | Posted - Sep 28 2010 : 11:38PM [Link] |
| francios Senior Member 1802 Posts 2/05 | Posted - Oct 5 2010 : 11:50AM If she is looking elsewhere maybe you need to up your game and let her know how much your interested in her. [Link] |
| David Cop-a-feel Deactivated User Trust me, honey, it gets better 323 Posts 10/10 | Posted - Oct 5 2010 : 7:28PM [Link] |
| His Dudeness All Business Shut the fuck up, Donny!! 2793 Posts 4/10 | Posted - May 3 2011 : 11:31PM [Link] |
| seedfeeder Member My balls are full, who's hungry? 716 Posts 4/09 | Posted - May 4 2011 : 2:16AM And yes, married people can have private accounts or secrets as long as they don't violate trust. I have separate accounts, and my wife doesn't know my passwords, but we trust each other, so she never asks. Anytime I talk to a woman, I fill her in completely-that way if the issue ever came up, she finds that I was 100% honest about what was going on, what was said, etc. Likewise I trust her and while she's given me passwords (due to me fixing something for her, etc. at some point), I've forgotten most of them as I never use them, I don't check up on her. I've been in lots of relationships that lack trust and this is so much nicer when it's solid trust both ways-so much less time wasted. Anyway, hope that the 3some didn't really cause this dude's problems but frankly... you can't blame the 3some, whatever was there, was latent in the first place. And I agree, if she's bending all over the place and working out yet not having sex-it ain't for him that she's primping, it's for someone else. Poor bastard, many of us have been there, it's no fun. And the most hilarious comment of the thread award goes to .... thedude for his "she's probably getting DPed right now". lol do you have to use so many swear words dude???? [Link] |
| jtrott Deactivated User 5 Posts 4/11 | Posted - May 4 2011 : 6:26AM And one more thing i dont think he is going to post here again if he will catch her. :p [Link] |
| His Dudeness All Business Shut the fuck up, Donny!! 2793 Posts 4/10 | Posted - May 4 2011 : 2:20PM [Link] |
| His Dudeness All Business Shut the fuck up, Donny!! 2793 Posts 4/10 | Posted - May 4 2011 : 2:22PM [Link] |
| gregs1775 Member 64 Posts 4/05 | Posted - May 4 2011 : 3:16PM Anyway if anyone wants an update I will give it. She obviously paid attention to the edict that one never admits wrongdoing. Even if caught red handed (which she was not). She would not admit to playing alone or fucking anyone else. Hoping for some revelation was not going to happen. She did however go on the offensive about the e-mail account. Pretty much told me it was none of my business. I never wanted the password and was not planning on monitoring the account I just thought it was strange that a secret account I was not told about or knew about was opened at the same time as the other events. Long and short of it is that I reminded her that we started this because we loved and trusted each other and that we agreed upon rules. I told her if something was going on outside of the rules it needed to stop. If something was going on I was not going to play detective so if it was not going to stop that we needed to make a clean break. I travel a ton so she has all the opportunity to do whatever she wants. I am pretty sure she was fucking like a bunny and feeling a little guilty about it, hence the behaviour changes. Anyway, things are better but not good. We are still together. For how long I am unsure but at least I don't have to pay for two houses yet. [Link] |
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| seedfeeder Member My balls are full, who's hungry? 716 Posts 4/09 | Posted - May 4 2011 : 6:50PM We all have a right to dignity, I wouldn't think twice about snooping in your shoes. I've also found that anyone that disagrees with this logic has a cheater streak.... [Link] |
| His Dudeness All Business Shut the fuck up, Donny!! 2793 Posts 4/10 | Posted - May 4 2011 : 6:52PM Edited by - thedude008 on 5/4/2011 6:58:16 PM [Link] |
| His Dudeness All Business Shut the fuck up, Donny!! 2793 Posts 4/10 | Posted - May 4 2011 : 6:54PM And Blossom I'm sorry again. I swear I won't joke with you no more! ;-) [Link] |
| seedfeeder Member My balls are full, who's hungry? 716 Posts 4/09 | Posted - May 4 2011 : 7:27PM *takes advantage of Dude's fuckup and tries to get points with blossom* Anytime I see a good question thread, I always look to see what blossom wrote, so there! [Link] |
| seedfeeder Member My balls are full, who's hungry? 716 Posts 4/09 | Posted - May 4 2011 : 7:28PM I think mine would be "Hey watch it man! Hey there's a beverage here!!" You ever seen the 2 minute version? You might like it: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EXT0gOk1Ogw Edited by - seedfeeder on 5/4/2011 7:30:21 PM [Link] |
| His Dudeness All Business Shut the fuck up, Donny!! 2793 Posts 4/10 | Posted - May 4 2011 : 7:41PM selfish yes...but I never said I wasn't.  Edited by - thedude008 on 5/4/2011 7:44:15 PM [Link] |
| Breeze Member One Smokin Hot Chic 532 Posts 11/08 | Posted - May 4 2011 : 10:22PM We never got together, and I don't feel bad about it, I actually feel good that I made her realize she had a good guy who was understanding to a point. [Link] |
| TedtheBellhop Member 767 Posts 6/09 | Posted - May 17 2011 : 7:59PM [Link] |
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