Hi there 29 single Male here, my last relationship was when I was 15 years old. And the last time I've had any type of sex was 7 years ago. So I've just been masturbating and watching porn. I am not an attractive guy first and foremost its always been a struggle for me to find women who will give me a chance and I know why. I am unattractive guy plus on top of that I was born with a physical disability to go along with being unattractive. For sex years now porn has been an everyday thing for me. I've used dating apps to see if I can find a woman to day or at the very least hook up with me and I haven't had any luck. And I knownit has to be because I have a physical disability and I know women don't want say or hurt my feelings thats the reason why they won't take a chance one me. They always say let's be friends or they say you're not my type. Now I'm so desperate at this point in life I'm just willing to say forget trying with cis women why not try looking into being with transwomen? I know I am not gay myself but alot of transwomen look pretty damn good to me. So what do you all think should someone like myself who really struggles with finding women to date or at the very least hook up with should I just try talking to transwomen to see if I like it or not?
I don't see why talking to a trans would be a problem, but I wouldn't expect a different reaction to you just because they are trans.
As to being an attractive guy, personality can trump physical appearance, so I would suggest you lose the dating app and go where you can actually meet women in a social setting. You may find that if your disability doesn't bother you then it is far less likely to bother other people. Granted, you'll always have to deal with the assholes, but so does everybody else, so don't take it personally.
What do you think is different with transwomen that might make your chances better than with cis women?
Why would transwomen be any less likely than cis women to be turned off by your apparent insecurities?
I would be surprised if a transwoman didn't like your motives for hooking up with them. Why would they find it agreeable to hear you were desperate so you decided to "try" them?
I have a great personality, it's just so great that women seen only want to be friends with me and tell about all their boy problems. I've gotten rid of the dating apps and went to bars and clubs. I got tired of that then I went and tried to go a different route by going to church and meeting different people and turns out that's not for me. And women only saw me a charity case and I hate that! So here I am back in the porn world.
It's not an insecurity it's my life it's something I was born with and that I do an amazing job maintaining and living with not an insecurity I embrace it. It's just women don't accept that I have a desire to have sex and be in an actual relationship. So I was thinking since the disability community isn't really all that accepted why not look at the trans community because they aren't all that accepted either.
In that case, I retract my comment about your apparent insecurity. That said, I will replace it with saying you sound unaware of reality.
On what basis do women not accept you have sexual desires and a wish to be in a relationship? Women you speak to can be perfectly accepting of you wanting those things but that acceptance doesn't mean your sex and relationships have to be with those women. That you want sex or a relationship doesn't mean you're owed either. Your interest in one or ten women is no promise or guarantee it'll be requited by any of them.
I don't read a "great personality" when I read a man's rant tarring women with the same brush. Is it really the case that women see you as a charity case and only have a platonic interest in your or is it only the women you take an interest in?
Unless you have one hell of a poker face, your admission that you're desperate sounds like something that will show through when you're around women you take a liking to. I don't imagine being desperate flatters anyone.
I'm not privy to your specific disability but I personally know men with physical disabilities of their own who are married, are or have been in long term relationships with, for lack of a better term, able-bodied women. I don't think those men's disabilities were fetishized by their partners either so evidently the disability didn't hold them back, nor did they appear to make a broad stroke that women only want to be friends. In pop culture, there's no shortage of Paralympians who are married or are in relationships either.
Have you considered therapy or something that gives you a more introspective look at yourself?
Edited by - AngryPirate on 7/5/2021 3:39:54 AM
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PowerfromHell Deactivated User
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Posted - Aug 6 2021 : 6:46PM
Bro...I would love to get down with TS Ladies...Being Transgressive is fun and it aint even that anymore...Shit it wouldn't be bad avoiding cis broads all together so many misunderstandings its like we speak different languages...You have more in common with an elderly Australian aboriginal than you do a lady your age from up the block..A Transitioning individual will be far more understanding as in She understands testosterone AND estrogen...I have been to several events where the sexiest hottest broad was TS...I lovelovelove them with only ONE complaint that KILLS the whole sex trip...
They still smell like dudes and no amount of slutty body spray or perfume can mask the Pheromones...I've gotten up close to many and its a nonstarter...My dick dies my interest lags I split...
But Ill be first in line when medical science transitions pheromones...also
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PowerfromHell Deactivated User
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Posted - Aug 6 2021 : 7:29PM
You might be better off going for a Trans man as many are quite smooth and boyish while retaining PUSSY and that nice smell...YmmV
Bro...I am an ugly tore back 50 as in five oh fifty out of shape a childman...So the flood has turned into a trickle...Now what I am about is bettering myself to the upmost be my most datable self...but that is hardly necessary
I have GREAT NEWS! I have been to the promised lands and I return with GREAT NEWS!!!
The problems you may be having with women sex relationships all of it DOES NOT EXIST in certain other Cuntries...In Bolivia Peru Columbia Brazil ladies have no problem flirting and starting conversations with YOU! In Cuba EVERY single woman you encounter will call you her heart her heaven her love her life without even knowing you as their foreplay starts on sight...Ethiopia never knew I had JungleFever but they are ridiculously hot 6 footers with huge rack great ass and skinny with huge eyes and you know what even better? Its downright ASTOUNDING they are authentic and trueselfrevealed imagine a nation full of open honest genuine pretty women...
Aint saying shit about Arabia but my neck is still jacked from rubbernecking all of the stunning broads EVERYWHERE...
Greece & Lisboa strong powerfull feminist autonomous girls who beg for it rough when alone...
Barcelo women yell and scream "Vamos a Follar" "We are going to fuck" happened a few times once in front of GUCCI...
Travel alone and pussy is un avoidable.
No hyperbole no exaggeration NO CAP
Thats NOT to say you cant start dating TS ladies in all of these exotic places ALSO
I like porn and the Golden Age of Porn 1947 Posts 9/21
Posted - Oct 19 2021 : 9:18AM
Not trying to be harsh here but maybe you need to talk to a counselor. I think you have a lot of hang-ups about your disability that you need to work through. Also, Dating a transwoman doesn't make you gay. Anyway, as someone who has a physical disability. I can say you're physical disability and looks aren't the reason why you have a hard time dating or finding a date. I'm on my second marriage, I have a kid, I'm into kink, I'm in an open relationship and also did swinging. My physical disability never was the problem on why I couldn't find someone. Half the time I wouldn't even notice if a woman was hitting on me or liked me. Maybe also think about the type of woman you're going after. Nobody saying you should date women you're not attracted to but don't just go after 10 and 9s. Find someone you vibe with and don't act desperate
I hope you'll forgive me, but you sound like a man who lacks confidence in himself. That's not going to inspire confidence in others. So, let's get the horse in front of the cart, and stop trying to get laid. Just. Don't.
Rather, enter a social arena that you might enjoy. As you've discovered, church isn't the best idea, because you spend most of your time not talking to each other. That's not getting you anywhere. Bars can be good places to socialize, but you need to get drunk like you need another hole in the head. In the same vein, you don't want to go very far into a relationship with somebody who is drunk and stupid. That road is paved with regrets. Lots of 'em.
So, if you do meet somebody in a bar, you need to find some other common activity you can share where booze isn't going to throw a spanner in the works. Just make sure it is somewhere you are confident in what you are doing. You'll be amazed at how much more attractive you are when you display confidence, and competence, in what you are doing.
Make friends; stay confident, and eventually the lightning will strike. It is amazing how much easier it becomes when you ignore it.
Yes I know I lack confidence. I've struggled with my confidence my whole life. Growing up with a single mother who had 6 children and me being the only one with a disability life has always been challenging. I was always made to feel different like I wasn't worth anything.
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Posted - Oct 26 2021 : 12:33PM
If I may ask, what kind of disability do you have?
Also you make seem like transwoman would be a sure thing as compared to a normal woman, but that's not really the case.
Also you make seem like transwoman would be a sure thing as compared to a normal woman, but that's not really the case.
The disability I have is called spina bifida. You can look it up. But I can tell you that I am not a wheelchair user I can drive walk, run I live independently on my own.
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MarkFLm Deactivated User
Have fun 2 Posts 11/21
Posted - Nov 19 2021 : 2:34AM
Why not try it, but don't forget about condoms, you have to try different sensations
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