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| brich0014 Member  70 Posts 8/06 |  Posted - Mar 21 2009 : 1:58AMmy wife and i have been having problems with things getting dull in the bedroom lately and we talked about it extensively and I told her that I would like her to try putting a finger in my ass when she is giving me a blowjob. she was opposed to it at first but she could see how much pleasure it gave me and how much quicker it made me cum and she started to prefer it herself. she gathered up enough courage to give me a rim job a couple of weeks ago and said she liked that. We went to our local sex shop today and picked up some anal toys for her, andcuffs, a whip, all sorts of things, but as we were walking out the door something else caught her eye.................... a vibrating strap on. we left, had dinner and discussed it and she told me that ever since we watched the movie Young People Fucking and she has been inserting a finger she has wanted to do that to me. I told her that I was willing to try anything and we ended up going back to get it. I do like a digit up there but am not sure of the whole strap on thing. I bought a doc johnson pleasure wand a while back and that feels good, but i am curious about having a dildo being thrusted into my ass. she really wants to do it and I am curious so I am willing to try but I was wondering if there was anyone who can give us some pointers before we try it out Saturday night. It is a Venus Bumble Bee which stimulates her clit while she is doing me. the dildo is 5" long 1 1/2" wide and about 5 1/2" in girth. we usually use ID Glide waterbased lube and we plan on using a condom on it if for nothing else easier cleanup. anyone out there ever do this? how long does it take to get used to it? thank you in advance and please dont reply just to tell me Im gay. Edited by - brich0014 on Mar 29 2009 Edited by - brich0014 on Mar 30 2009 [Link] |
| Pagoda Senior Member Thread Killer 1747 Posts 10/05 | Posted - Mar 21 2009 : 6:51AM [Link] |
| Loraine Senior Member 1559 Posts 3/04 | Posted - Mar 21 2009 : 8:20AM Edited by - Loraine on 3/21/2009 8:26:01 AM [Link] |
| brich0014 Member 70 Posts 8/06 | Posted - Mar 21 2009 : 8:24AM [Link] |
| Loraine Senior Member 1559 Posts 3/04 | Posted - Mar 21 2009 : 8:29AM [Link] |
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| Joey Starr Senior Member Still wanking after all these years. 8082 Posts 10/00 | Posted - Mar 21 2009 : 10:07AM I'd try smaller anal toys first, getting to bigger ones progressively, just for initial "training". Edited by - Joey Starr on 3/21/2009 10:08:15 AM [Link] |
| lindi Senior Member 12345 3205 Posts 9/02 | Posted - Mar 21 2009 : 1:36PM [Link] |
| lindi Senior Member 12345 3205 Posts 9/02 | Posted - Mar 21 2009 : 1:41PM The first scene:Edited by - lindi on 3/21/2009 1:42:29 PM [Link] |
jayo  All-Star Member 2117 Posts 7/04 | Posted - Mar 21 2009 : 1:43PM +1 with Joey's comments. [Link] |
| brich0014 Member 70 Posts 8/06 | Posted - Mar 21 2009 : 1:53PM Edited by - brich0014 on 3/21/2009 1:55:44 PM [Link] |
| Cryogenix Member 84 Posts 3/06 | Posted - Mar 21 2009 : 3:54PM 2 - My girl and I only use UR3, Ultraskin and Cyberskin dildos for assplay. Silicone/rubber dildos (not buttplugs because those just sit inside of you) are VERY abrasive to the inner lining of the ass and they don't coat well with water-based lubricant at all, and will dry out fast during the pumping/fucking action. UR3 kind of "absorbs" the lubricant and keeps it in place rather than pushing it away. 3 - I'd suggest you hit the shower and give yourself a good anal cleansing. Lacking a kit and the right tool for the job, if you have a showerhead with a hose on it, just disconnect the head, set the rubber washer aside, crimp the hose so the water won't come out, put the open end of the hose to your asshole, then slowly allow water to come out and go up your butt. Once your sphincter is a bit used to being invaded, insert the hose about an inch, tighten your sphinceter and let the water fill up inside you. Then pull out the hose and let the water come out. Repeat as often as you like. This will make things much cleaner and less smellier while you and the wife go crazy. Having pieces of shit falling all over the bed, rug or wherever is never fun and is a mood-killer for us. 4 - I would suggest you insert the dildo yourself to start with. But if your wife wants the thrill of popping your cherry, then as she is SLOWLY inserting with LOTS of lubricant, have her stop every few millimeters during the entry process, so your sphincter muscles (both sets) can get used to being probed. It also helps if you try to take a shit while she's inserting (nothing will come out because you've already cleaned out) as this pushes out and opens up the muscles to allow for easier insertion. Don't push out like a madman, but just a little until the tip of the dildo has passed by the second ring of muscles. 5 - Best position for starters (though it could vary from person to person) is to be kneeling on the ground, and drape yourself face-down onto the bed or an ottoman or something (or straddle a vaulting horse). This allows the legs mucles, butt muscles and everything to be totally loose and relaxed. 6 - Perform a thorough anal cleansing sometime after the act, to rinse out all the lubricant. Your farts will probably smell pretty bad for a few days after. 7 - After sex (maybe while taking a shower) practice squeezing your sphincter muscles together VERY VERY VERY tight and HOLDING for 10 seconds, then release, relax for five seconds and repeat for a total of ten reps. This is something I started doing years ago because of my belief that if the rings of muscles get too used to being enlarged, they might stay like that and not be as water-tight as a frog's ass. I don't want stuff seeping out when I least expect it. It's really a tough exercise, but I feel it's absolutely needed to ensure a long life of healthy shit retention. Oh yeah...be careful with vibrating your anus for too long at high speeds. I've heard doing so isn't good and can make the sphincter muscles lose their "memory" and ability to properly tighten. Once again, trust me...you don't need vibrations to have great anal sex. Have fun, but be safe and smart and DO read up on the internet about the dangers of anal sex and the possibilities of TEARS happening that can cause major problems. Also, after any kind of regular anal fucking, you might start to notice it's more difficult to shit and takes more strain to get your crap to come out. There's a technique to getting it to come out, and it involves deep breathing and hard exhaling while sitting up very erect and tucking in your stomach to push in your lower abdomen. Don't just push with great force from the bottom your asshole, but from within your lower intestine near the base of your spine. If you push from the asshole you'll only blow a gasket and your sphincter rings will try to push outward too much (and you'll get a headache). Try to make the rings of muscles stay IN/UP your ass as you breath out and feel the rectum push your stuff down/out. Don't hold your breath, but breathe through it, like you're giving birth. Seriously. If you strain, you'll do more damage to yourself and could end up with hemmoroids. Have fun! You're in a for a treat. It may be VERY painful the first time (and you might say "fuck this!") but it will get much easier after a few minutes, and later on you'll look forward to the initial penetration (which won't be painful) and you'll probably become addicted to anal sex and want bigger, longer toys. When you can take the entire John Holmes UR3 cock, you'll know you've arrived. :) Edited by - Cryogenix on 3/21/2009 4:51:08 PM [Link] |
| Ivory Sex Object by Proxy "We all want our time in Hell." 647 Posts 8/04 | Posted - Mar 21 2009 : 10:15PM I'd take the advice to read the books that were recommended. It's best to learn how to do anal pain-free. In fact, it's my firm belief that the receiver should always be the one to initiate and to stop the activity. I've never pegged my husband because he's never asked me to. If he asked me to, I would. [Link] |
| Bob All-Star Member 5516 Posts 3/03 | Posted - Mar 22 2009 : 6:56PM Lucky hubby. I've asked me wife to, but she won't. Bummer. [Link] |
| Bob All-Star Member 5516 Posts 3/03 | Posted - Mar 22 2009 : 6:58PM Hmmm. Makes me sound like a butt-pirate. [Link] |
| Cryogenix Member 84 Posts 3/06 | Posted - Mar 22 2009 : 11:24PM Edited by - Cryogenix on 3/22/2009 11:27:39 PM [Link] |
| Joey Starr Senior Member Still wanking after all these years. 8082 Posts 10/00 | Posted - Mar 23 2009 : 2:10AM Edited by - Joey Starr on 3/23/2009 2:10:43 AM [Link] |
| ma meeshka Iconoclastic Member 3939 Posts 4/06 | Posted - Mar 23 2009 : 5:29AM same thing? [Link] |
| Bob All-Star Member 5516 Posts 3/03 | Posted - Mar 23 2009 : 3:52PM [Link] |
| Bob All-Star Member 5516 Posts 3/03 | Posted - Mar 23 2009 : 3:53PM [Link] |
| ma meeshka Iconoclastic Member 3939 Posts 4/06 | Posted - Mar 23 2009 : 6:47PM [Link] |
| Breeze Member One Smokin Hot Chic 532 Posts 11/08 | Posted - Mar 24 2009 : 4:17AM [Link] |
| brich0014 Member 70 Posts 8/06 | Posted - Mar 28 2009 : 11:13AM [Link] |
| Pagoda Senior Member Thread Killer 1747 Posts 10/05 | Posted - Mar 28 2009 : 1:44PM [Link] |
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