Lately... I have been asked the same question and really dont know the answer... Mia, why do you do porn? well, the obvious answer would be, "I love sex"... that sentence leaves the lips of almost every porn star ever asked the question. And it was my only answer for a long time to be honest. But I have come up with this, and honestly believe it to be true in my own opinion.
I love pleasure. I love to pleasure myself. I love to give pleasure to my partner, I love to share pleasure with my viewers. I have actually noticed that I ALWAYS leave my windows and blinds open when I fuck, and ever since I caught my neighbor watching me, I tend to angle myself so he and his wife have a better view. I love to know, that people get off watching me get off... I got an email from a women saying " I love watching you because your so passionate, and when you explode, I have to! And I find myself competeing with you, and my boyfriend competes with the guy you are with, its the best game I have ever played. you saved our relationship. Thank you."
So, my definition of porn. Is to share pleasure. No matter how you personally are pleasured, just sharing it and receiving it. To show passion.
MY idea of pornography is a substantial work of art that is mainly concerned with sex that, ideally, explores pleasure and sexuality. i've never seen this in any one place, i just find snippets here and there. some porn flicks get the sex part right, but the art is missing. the places that come the closest are novels.
my definition of the porn that exists out there: a fuck for a buck. with the exception of the people like you, mia, it has very little to offer the world in the way of art or exploration of pleasure and sexuality. it depicts it, visually and aurally, but you don't explore with only your eyes and your ears, you explore with you mind and your heart.
My definition of porn is anything that sexually stimulates another person and has been documented for viewing pleasure...I guess that's why there are so many different types of "porn". As for me, the only porn I do is the type that sexually stimulates me...because if I am not enjoying it...most likely the male talent is not and even worst and more importantly the viewer is not enjoying it...my cheap 2 cents...XOXO
I get pleasure imagining you having pleasure as you give pleasure to partner while giving pleasure to the viewers ... or something like that.
Seriously though, I agree with what you said, Mia. Porn should be about the performers not only getting him/herself off, but getting the other person (or people, depending on the scene ) off. It's mutually beneficial if both performers enjoy themselves and if they are enjoying it, the viewers would enjoy it that much more.
Mia that's a really great story to hear. Knowing that your all about spreading the pleasure around makes it all the better for everyone involved. I can't tell you how disappointing it is to see a gorgeous young girl on film who doesn't really seem like she has her head in the game.
I can't recall her name, but I remember seeing a super hot Brazilian blond in a Vince Voyeur movie that could not have been older than eighteen. It might have been her first scene. She just never really opened up and let it out like most girls who seem like they're loving the sex. It was a real shame too because she could not have been any hotter.
Anyway my idea of porn is good looking people, having sex that most folks don't encounter on a regular basis.
I believe that's the most intriguing factor for me anyway. Seeing beautiful women that express them self's in way's that only I can imagine my self wanting another person to behave when we get intimate with one another. Most women are not as open to the idea of having sex in way's other than what they're used too. That maybe the major coo to having a stead relationship with someone I guess. I wouldn't know......
I've had sex with with my fair share of girls that stand up to the hottest of starlet's, and there's honestly been times that the sex is so dull that I can remember thinking that I would rather just not have gone out, stayed home, and jerked off to a movie. And that's the mother fucking truth.
Outside of fuck buddies, or booty calls that come around every couple of weeks, which are really only about the no small talk, guilt free sex. It's always the women that can fuck my brains out that can't seem to bring anything else to the table. And just sex is no way to built on a lasting relationship IMO. I've tried and all got me was a negative balance at Neimans.
I guess what porn means to me is beautiful girls performing hotter sex than what the take home chick from the club offers most nights, which is more interesting than boring sex sometimes......
Actually, I use the word (mostly because nobody has a damn clue what you're talking about if you don't just say "porn") but I don't really like it.
The words "porn" and "pornography" have taken on a kind of shady quality (thanks in no small part to the mainstream media).
I think porn is an art form. There are many who would love to classify it as something other than that but it takes talent to make good porn. Anyone who thinks it's easy should pick up a camcorder and have at it. See how easy it is to make something that's actually watchable....let alone sexually stimulating.
I know that's probably not what you were looking for but that's all that comes to mind, presently.
I think of porn as an art form in which the primary goal is to physically arouse the viewer. Erotica goes one step further, also aiming to spark the viewer/reader's imagination.
Sydnee Steele, Savanna Samson or None. 275 Posts 12/05
Posted - Dec 2 2006 : 8:48AM
By this definition everyone from chefs to mainstream actors, rock stars, opera singers and bartenders to drug dealers etc... are pornographers.
Look even supreme court justices can't come up with a reasonable definition of pornography. So I won't attempt one and trying to inflate porn to an art form only raises a further question of what your definition of art is?
My definition of porn is basically, any consensual act captured on film that turns me on. I believe that every person's definition of what turns them on is different, based on their upbringing, psychosexual history, and god knows what else. Fetishes, for example, seem to be to be a complex interaction of visual, aural, tactile and sexual cues. So porn, then, is probably different for each person, at least on the edges. Surely there's plenty of overlap, but it's a big tent - which is why we have everything from "couple's porn" to "Gag Factor" and Max Hardcore. (And then there's even more extreme stuff, which I won't mention because I just finished breakfast!)
Pornography is a male state of mind where the reality of sex is diminished as much as possible and the fantasy of sex is magnified as much as is possible.
Pornographic movies are filmed with - shock! - real people and thus there is always a strong element of reality present in porn but fundamentally, the perception created by a porn movie is that of a male sexual fantasy.
This I think is the basic attitude of pornography. When film makers change this template then it is not pornography, it is something else - erotica, alt-porn or whatever label people come up with. A movie that concentrates on the guy and girl equally is not IMHO pornography, it is a "couples" sex film. Pornography is all about the girl.
Women who respond to "pornography" are those that understand its male-focused fantasy dynamics and are happy to play along with this scenario because of the pleasure it brings to viewers. This seems to me to be where Mia Rose is coming from - God bless her!