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|  Posted - Aug 22 2007 : 11:01PMIf i was to do a Solo Masturbation Film, would that make me a gay male star? Like only person in the room was director and camerman, and i was think of girls while i jacked off, and it was for a gay film, does that make me gay?  [Link] |
GaySatyr
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| Posted - Aug 22 2007 : 11:23PM
[begin rant] IF you've ever worn a pink shirt, you're gay. If you've ever taken a shower in a communal shower in a locker room while another man was also showering, you're gay. If you've ever allowed a man's hand -- even your own -- to touch your penis, you're gay! Jeez, people! Get over the stupid labels! [end rant]
Gays are BORN gay. They do NOT learn it from a teacher (or even from a sexual predator). And they do NOT catch it -- it's NOT a disease spread by germs or a virus.
Seriously, no single sex act ever "makes" you gay, even if it involves having sex with another male. Now if you try it and decide you like it and then seek out emotional/sexual relationships with men, you did NOT become gay, you discovered that you already were.
~ GaySatyr (ABB) [Link] |
GaySatyr
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| Posted - Aug 23 2007 : 1:16PM
My rant is because this comes up over and over and over again -- mostly brought on by products of american [ir]religious-reich upbringing.
There are really three inter-dependent concepts here: (1) Ones own psyche; (2) the physical act; and, (3) societal interpretation of both.
(1) A person is gay (lesbian) if he (she) is primarily attracted to same gender partners in terms of emotional/sexual relationships, regardless of what sex acts the two partners may or may not have. This, based on all currently available, legitimate, scientific research, appears to be either fully genetic and/or a genetic propensity triggered by environmental factors (meaning chemical and hormonal) PRIOR to birth. The intensity of ones gayness or straightness appears to depend on at least three and possibly as many as eight genetic components. So, while most people are probably truly straight, there are indeed degrees of gayness and bisexuals do exist.
And, regardless of fundamentalist religious assertions, one does not ever catch his gayness from a bacteria or virus nor does he learn it from another, be that person a friend or a molester. However, one DOES -- or, at least, should -- learn to accept his own sexuality and identity.
(I know of one gay couple who have been together over forty years who do not sleep together and have never had sex with each other or with any other man. One confided in me that he knows the other masturbates -- as does he -- but that he would never dream of intruding on his friend's space. Regardless of their totally Platonic relationship, they are as gay as I am. I think it rather sad; however, they seem perfectly happy with the arrangement.)
(2) Homosexual acts -- too numerous to list -- comprise those sex acts involving two (or more) people of the same gender. Jacking off in front of a camera is not overtly homosexual -- it's mono-sexual -- regardless of who's behind the camera. Masturbating another person of the same gender IS a homosexual act, regardless of how that person is dressed or how hot/feminine/masculine he/she looks. The same is true of any more intimate sexual act performed by two people of the same gender, including both oral and anal sex. Sorry, and apologies to O'Henry, but in this case, the clothes do NOT make the woman (or man, as the case may be).
(3) Societal acceptance of homosexuality seems to vary tremendously among cultures with most condemning it to a greater or lesser extent. However, even the definitions as to what comprises a homosexual act change with cultural background.
For example, in some places in the Southeast Asia, it is perfectly acceptable for young men to bond sexually as long as they mature into heterosexual relationships and marry at a later date. In other words, they are only gay if they are never straight.
Within the Hispanic and Latino culture, a man who gets a piece of male ass on the side is mucho macho and scores a few extra points among his peers as long as he is also perceived to be scoring with the ladies at the same time. However, the man performing a blow job on, or getting screwed by, his macho partner is considered a maricón -- a faggot.
Most of the European cultures seem not to care as long as their noses are not rubbed in ones sexual acts. Two men making out on the streets of Rome are castigated and quite likely to get arrested; but, short of the, the natives seem to adopt an attitude of, "Why would they? They're crazy, but who cares..." as they shrug their shoulders and turn their thoughts to other things.
In the US of A, the story is quite different: two men dressed in underwear or wrapped in towels who accidentally brush shoulders in passing in a crowded men's locker room are immediately accused of being homosexual deviants and molesters of little boys unless they immediately prove otherwise by raping the nearest women -- without touching, or glancing at each other, of course. And heaven forbid that in a porn M-F-M scene, cum from one of the male participants might accidentally splatter on the other male participant -- how tres gai is that?
Do you get the idea that men in America are a bit obsessed?
All I can add is, "Why the h-e-double-l does it matter, anyway?" and, "Get over it!"
~ GaySatyr (ABB)
Edited by - GaySatyr on 8/23/2007 2:11:01 PM[Link] |
