Don't signal the escalation of your defences. When you have to use them, use them, don't just warn about it (one more move and I'll spray you). That just takes away your advantage of suprise and preperation.
If you have to fight, remember that a large part of fighting is attitude. Do it without concern about him - if fighting is justified, that will be too. Too many are afraid of doing real damage to their attacker (crazy, but it happens).
Almost anything solid is a weapon.
It is better to get away than to fight.

Best of luck. Hope you stay safe.

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Funny thing is, I was just re-reading an older thread about an ADTer who saw the lovely Brianna Blaze at a strip club in Ohio and actually was able to hang out with her there (even got a lap dance from her). I've semi-seriously entertained the idea of a road trip to Ohio ever since that thread appeared! To me, it seems like the perfect way to see Brianna "in the flesh". I always assume that making a trip like that would be a total crapsoot. By the time I get there, she may no longer be stripping there. She might not want to spend time with any fans. Maybe she's soured on the whole porn experience. Who knows? How much time I interacted with her would be totally up to her.

Stalking is another thing entirely.

In my misspent youth, I confess to having done some low-level stalking of ex-girlfriends - drive-bys to see if they were home or out - that kind of stupid shit. It always endded up making me feel worse. And it was usually driven by desperation and anger. The object of my love-sickness never even knew about it.

The kind of thing that happened to you is altogether different, and I agree that you should take steps to protect yourself - report it to the police, get pepper spray, etc.. We have a lot of really crazy folks here in the good ol' US of A. And it's better to be safe that sorry.

You seem like a such a sweet and friendly person (in addition to being jaw-droppingly hot! ), and perhaps that gives people ideas about approaching you that they might not otherwise entertain.

I hope this guy keeps his distance. We don't want you to have any negative experiences associated with porn. We ADTers want you to keep making smokin' scenes for a long time!

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Croy wrote: As I said, you should know how far you are willing to go before carrying a gun. If you are willing to use a gun in self defense, I defy a person of whatever size to grab it from you without bleeding. You have bought the arguement of anti-gun people. This is not a matter of strength.
If you are not willing to use a gun, it is better not to have, because in that moment of hesitation another person could wrestle it from you.

To croy, I'm not basing my opinion on what the anti-gun lobby thinks, but on my own experiences. I've been stalked by a man who was emotionally troubled, and I can tell you, I would not have wanted to get into any violent confrontation with him, he was too unpredictable, and bigger than me. Plus, he had threatened other men at work, and was put on probation once for getting into a fistfight with a personnel supervisor.

That being said, if any woman wants to carry a gun or knife, then she's got to be willing to use it without hesitation, and not just to make threats to see if the guy gets the hint and goes away. Frankly, I think a gun is better, if you can get a permit to carry a concealed weapon (I don't know about CA laws). Using a knife means getting within inches of the man, which is way too close in my estimation.

I just thougtht of two other ideas for Christie: tell your agent about this man. The man might be trying to contact you, or get information about you, acting like he's in the porn industry.

The other thing you could do is ask another man (preferably a tall one) to go with you on some of your dog walks. The creepy guy, if he sees you out with a man, might think you are involved with someone, and then get the idea and leave you alone. From my own experience, creepy guys are easily threatened by the presence of another man.

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IMO most new girls and some girls that have been in the biz for a year don't want anyone to know what they do. she could have a boy friend that doesn't know what she does or thinks she does g/g only. or parents/family that think shes a "model". or you get girls that are trying to put themselves through school so they do some movies and hope no one will find out. anyway my point is not all girls are in the biz for fame or recognition or because they love being pounded by big cocks. at the end of the day they probably look at themselves in the mirror and hate what they see therefore they are ashamed...

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LOL If Saw One of You Ladies I'd Probably Freeze Up

Silent Jay - Host of the NON-Televised "Silent Jay Show"

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Edited by - lukemason on 9/25/2004 9:05:21 PM

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The problem is that California is not a 'Shall Issue' state, but 'May Issue' and it is all at the discretion of the local sheriff.

People in rural counties have an easier time getting a permit. Investigate before applying.

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someone following you on a daily basis is probably disturbed enough to justify a moral mulligan. however many victim's laws your state has, if he's either determined or in possession of above-average mental resources, they won't stop him from killing someone.

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When you call people to deal with this problem, report it, or discuss it with others, do not use a cordless phone - he might have gotten the equiptment to listen in. Use your cell.

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I also agree it's pretty unrealistic to expect to stay incognito forever. There are like millions Americans who watch porn, so at some point you will be recognized and confronted. I think it's better to let your ralatives know otherwise it will be much worse if they find out through other sources.

On a personal note, I have re-read your 1st post, Christie, and I am really sorry this happened to you. Morons who scare girls like that, give porn fans bad reputation. I just hope you don't pull pepper spray or knife on everyone now, because there are fans who are actually nice and polite in person, not to mention good-looking.

Edited by - Zoid on 9/26/2004 4:10:53 AM

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All which doesn't sound emotionally healthy, IMO.

I don't like calling myself a fan, since the word fan seems to be more defined in a derogatory way, and by the definition "fan", that doesn't describe me at all.

Anyway, I prefer using the word "admirer". It's a word that's defined as you enjoy someone in a healthy way: "Greatly approve of or respect. To look at with pleasure." That describes how I feel about adult performers.

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I also like the term "aficionado" ( An enthusiastic admirer or follower).

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I am very sorry to hear that guy hassled and frightened you. It is not your fault that he did, so please don't let anyone talk you into blaming yourself or regretting your career.

Please accept my best hope that this man will not bother you again, and that you can once more feel safe and happy in your life.

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christie lee

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Christie talk to some industry women to see what precautions they've taken to prevent something like this happening again. That's so sad.

Some people need to stop being so selfish and find dignity, respect, morals and class.

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ox christie lee

ps. good news i haven't seen him around.

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xoxo
Devinn

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Be safe ladies

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ox christie lee

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Edited by - Zoid on 10/24/2004 3:04:58 PM

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I'm confused...

"Corruptio optimi pessima..."

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Once Again,

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Kami, I'm not saying implying anything about your grandmother... put the whip down.

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