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My girfriend sometimes blurts this out druing sex and makes me stop. Is she really about to pee or is it a squirt, or something else?
This normally happens in one of two positions: She is lying on her back with her legs raised and I am kneeling infront of her. I lift her lower body up by "hugging" her thighs She is lying on a table/raised surface and I am standing infornt of her, here again raising her lower body by "hugging" her legs
Thanks Pagoda, needless to say I never push tihngs when she asks me to stop, and her discomfort stems form that fact that she might pee on me, rather than the actual sensation. If you don't mind my asking, are you a woman? If so, are there positions that make you want to pee? Is it nautrual to feel you want to pee during sex? Have you squirted before? What do you thinking is actually happening here?
Yes, she's about to squirt pee on you. Tell her to go for it! It feels damn near orgasmic to pee during sex. Many women think they have ejaculated or something!
Jesus, you coud not have given me a more confusing answer even if you'd tried! I thought squirting or peeing was an "or" situation, are you now telling me it's an "and" situation?
Any idea why this is only happening in the described position? Is it puts a lot more pressure on the upper wall/g-spot area?
hell yah, stop for her! Not only does "stop mean STOP" from her perspective, but, then you get to start over from the beginning! That is REAL fun! That can turn a 30-45 minute encounter into hours! Another question, do you typically have sex when drunk? remember, you do not drink beer! you rent it!
Thanks threesome, makes things all the more clear for those on my side of the gender gap
georgi, nah not so much drunk fucking goes on with us, and we're more into mixers than tequila's so bladder pressure is rather low. You do know that with Japanese girls stop often means continue, and "I'm going" means "I'm cumming"? Adn when they scream they sound like children, (and when they want to cum they think they're gonna pee) and, and, and! oh what a confusing mess!
Here's an alternative I've used successfully with my wife for years now....use a "safe" word other than "Stop!"
Mutually agree upon a word that both of you know that really, REALLy means "STOP!" Sometimes, it's helpful to have 2 words...one that means "I'm uncomfortable, but not ready to stop just yet...maybe slow down," and another that means "ENOUGH! STOP!"
This is fairly common in D/s relationships and helps to determine and set boundaries while still enjoying the sensation of pushing the envelope.
Your girlfriend MAY be wanting to experience the feeling of peeing (or nearing a G-spot orgasm) and you are preventing her from enjoying it due to her own embarrassment about it. Talk about it, deepen the intimacy and then give her a safe word. That way she can yell "STOP" all she wants, which is a very natural vocabulary word, and not really want you to stop doing it. The safe words, however, need to be well established, difficult to utter during the throes of "normal" ecstasy and truly sacred...uttering them means to follow them without pause or question.
First, have her go pee BEFORE you engage in sex. Then, she'll be comfortable that her bladder is empty and that whatever comes out, it won't be a lot. You can also put a towel or Liberator Fascinator (a lined blanket that prevents moisture from getting through) down to ease her mind that she'll mess up the sheets or couch fabric. Then, tell her to let 'er rip!
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Posted - Apr 19 2007 : 9:58AM
Sometimes the simplest solutions are the best...we all tend to "over think" somethings....
Seems to me that - as long as you don't mind getting pee'd on - the only way to find out is to let her know it's OK to keep 'going with the flow' so to speak...who knows, once she gets over the embaressment perhaps she'll enjoy squirting pee on you?
By the way, the sensation just before a G-Spot orgasm feels like you have to pee. Tell her to go with it. She likely won't urinate, but rather experience a relaxing release of pressure. If she squirts, no problem. Sheets can always be laundered.
When the day arrives I see a Woman squirt from a Clitoral orgasm then I'll believe it to be an ejaculation and not "Pee" as a result of tickling the Prostate. Until then the Jury is out!!
"When the day arrives I see a Woman squirt from a Clitoral orgasm then I'll believe it to be an ejaculation and not "Pee" as a result of tickling the Prostate. Until then the Jury is out!!" @sultan: I think i've exactly got a scene, as you described. It's a scene where Carli Banks squirts after masturbating herself. And with squirt, I mean ejaculating and not Peeing. But watch yourself: Link removed P.S.: Sorry for my bad English
coloss.....last i knew, women don't have a prostate. if you've been tickling your girl's prostate, i think you need to stay out of the gay bars. Edited by - jnkns on 7/23/2007 4:44:11 PM