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dreg
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10 Posts
12/06
Posted - Apr 13 2007 : 2:13PM
My girfriend sometimes blurts this out druing sex and makes me stop. Is she really about to pee or is it a squirt, or something else?

This normally happens in one of two positions:
She is lying on her back with her legs raised and I am kneeling infront of her. I lift her lower body up by "hugging" her thighs
She is lying on a table/raised surface and I am standing infornt of her, here again raising her lower body by "hugging" her legs

Thanks

Pagoda
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Posted - Apr 13 2007 : 7:12PM
Hmm. She thinks she's going to pee, but she could be nearing ejaculation. Either way, she's not comfortable with the sensation, so stop you should.
Redish All-Star Supporter
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12/03
Posted - Apr 13 2007 : 7:45PM
Who are you, Yogoda?

Edited by - redish on 4/13/2007 7:46:57 PM

Joey Starr
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Still wanking after all these years.
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10/00
Posted - Apr 13 2007 : 7:56PM
Ooops, sorry Babe, I couldn't stop...
Joey Starr
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Still wanking after all these years.
8082 Posts
10/00
Posted - Apr 13 2007 : 8:00PM
She's got Star Wars connections...
Edited by - Joey Starr on 4/13/2007 8:01:37 PM
 
dreg
Member

10 Posts
12/06
Posted - Apr 14 2007 : 7:45AM
Thanks Pagoda, needless to say I never push tihngs when she asks me to stop, and her discomfort stems form that fact that she might pee on me, rather than the actual sensation.
If you don't mind my asking, are you a woman? If so, are there positions that make you want to pee? Is it nautrual to feel you want to pee during sex? Have you squirted before? What do you thinking is actually happening here?

Thanks

threesomebody
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2491 Posts
12/04
Posted - Apr 14 2007 : 8:12AM
Yes, she's about to squirt pee on you. Tell her to go for it! It feels damn near orgasmic to pee during sex. Many women think they have ejaculated or something!
dreg
Member

10 Posts
12/06
Posted - Apr 14 2007 : 8:25AM
Jesus, you coud not have given me a more confusing answer even if you'd tried! I thought squirting or peeing was an "or" situation, are you now telling me it's an "and" situation?

Any idea why this is only happening in the described position? Is it puts a lot more pressure on the upper wall/g-spot area?

Thanks though

threesomebody
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12/04
Posted - Apr 14 2007 : 8:39AM
I am one of many that believes squirting is peeing. There are plenty of debates about that on this board, and I am not starting another here.

Perhaps the position puts unusual pressure on the bladder?

georgi
Member

16 Posts
3/07
Posted - Apr 14 2007 : 11:16AM
hell yah, stop for her! Not only does "stop mean STOP" from her perspective, but, then you get to start over from the beginning! That is REAL fun! That can turn a 30-45 minute encounter into hours!
Another question, do you typically have sex when drunk?
remember, you do not drink beer! you rent it!
dreg
Member

10 Posts
12/06
Posted - Apr 14 2007 : 7:00PM
Thanks threesome, makes things all the more clear for those on my side of the gender gap

georgi, nah not so much drunk fucking goes on with us, and we're more into mixers than tequila's so bladder pressure is rather low. You do know that with Japanese girls stop often means continue, and "I'm going" means "I'm cumming"? Adn when they scream they sound like children, (and when they want to cum they think they're gonna pee) and, and, and! oh what a confusing mess!

LubeNLuv
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1854 Posts
3/06
Posted - Apr 15 2007 : 1:06PM
Here's an alternative I've used successfully with my wife for years now....use a "safe" word other than "Stop!"

Mutually agree upon a word that both of you know that really, REALLy means "STOP!" Sometimes, it's helpful to have 2 words...one that means "I'm uncomfortable, but not ready to stop just yet...maybe slow down," and another that means "ENOUGH! STOP!"

This is fairly common in D/s relationships and helps to determine and set boundaries while still enjoying the sensation of pushing the envelope.

Your girlfriend MAY be wanting to experience the feeling of peeing (or nearing a G-spot orgasm) and you are preventing her from enjoying it due to her own embarrassment about it. Talk about it, deepen the intimacy and then give her a safe word. That way she can yell "STOP" all she wants, which is a very natural vocabulary word, and not really want you to stop doing it. The safe words, however, need to be well established, difficult to utter during the throes of "normal" ecstasy and truly sacred...uttering them means to follow them without pause or question.

Freddy and Eddy
Member

37 Posts
3/07
Posted - Apr 17 2007 : 12:56PM
First, have her go pee BEFORE you engage in sex. Then, she'll be comfortable that her bladder is empty and that whatever comes out, it won't be a lot. You can also put a towel or Liberator Fascinator (a lined blanket that prevents moisture from getting through) down to ease her mind that she'll mess up the sheets or couch fabric. Then, tell her to let 'er rip!
Clam Digger
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Posted - Apr 19 2007 : 9:58AM
Sometimes the simplest solutions are the best...we all tend to "over think" somethings....
dreg
Member

10 Posts
12/06
Posted - Apr 23 2007 : 8:24AM
Sorry about not replying to this, her and I split up soon after I was back in Japan
 
Clam Digger
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2268 Posts
1/05
Posted - Apr 23 2007 : 9:27AM
....did she get pissed off?
loz
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UK
134 Posts
1/05
Posted - May 13 2007 : 7:13PM
Seems to me that - as long as you don't mind getting pee'd on - the only way to find out is to let her know it's OK to keep 'going with the flow' so to speak...who knows, once she gets over the embaressment perhaps she'll enjoy squirting pee on you?
Pagoda
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1747 Posts
10/05
Posted - May 13 2007 : 7:21PM
By the way, the sensation just before a G-Spot orgasm feels like you have to pee. Tell her to go with it. She likely won't urinate, but rather experience a relaxing release of pressure. If she squirts, no problem. Sheets can always be laundered.
Schmse
Senior Member

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2571 Posts
6/04
Posted - Jun 13 2007 : 3:06PM
Man, I gotta try this positions with my girlfriend...
sultan1
New Member

3 Posts
7/07
Posted - Jul 19 2007 : 7:18AM
When the day arrives I see a Woman squirt from a Clitoral orgasm then I'll believe it to be an ejaculation and not "Pee" as a result of tickling the Prostate. Until then the Jury is out!!
Coloss
Member

12 Posts
7/07
Posted - Jul 23 2007 : 3:53PM
"When the day arrives I see a Woman squirt from a Clitoral orgasm then I'll believe it to be an ejaculation and not "Pee" as a result of tickling the Prostate. Until then the Jury is out!!"
@sultan: I think i've exactly got a scene, as you described. It's a scene where Carli Banks squirts after masturbating herself. And with squirt, I mean ejaculating and not Peeing.
But watch yourself:
Link removed
P.S.: Sorry for my bad English

Edited by - lindi on 7/23/2007 10:26:25 PM

jnkns
Member

14 Posts
5/07
Posted - Jul 23 2007 : 4:42PM
coloss.....last i knew, women don't have a prostate.
if you've been tickling your girl's prostate, i think you need to stay out of the gay bars.
Edited by - jnkns on 7/23/2007 4:44:11 PM
LubeNLuv
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1854 Posts
3/06
Posted - Jul 23 2007 : 7:04PM
Your bad English is excused, but posting a link to copyrighted materials is NOT.
Edited by - lindi on 7/23/2007 10:27:02 PM



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