I'm with you on that realisation, where you're often watching (or being shown) a very large penis in action. It's an odd one when that shouldn't excite a heterosexual male and yet it's by and large the majority of porn as well as the loud (majority) who want even more (BBG, multi-B blowjob-facials, gang bangs, anal, anal gang bangs). Don't get me wrong, I understand it's all voyeurism and that watching certain acts is titillating, but I got utterly tired of a cock-first approach frequently shown.
I also find that there is more of what I'm looking for in GG (well, there has been in the past), which is sensuality, extended eroticism, and connection between screen partners.

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