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DenverDon
Benevolent

Firmly Embedded in Depravity
5914 Posts
7/02
Posted - Dec 10 2005 : 5:52AM
Obviously you didn't read the Forum Etiquette very well.

You can use webmaster@adultdvdtalk.com to appeal.

donut*king*lives
Deactivated User

1 Posts
12/05
Posted - Dec 10 2005 : 6:04AM
Wasn't trying to make it about race, someone in the position of moderator should have the basic wherewithal to discern between a straight forward analogy(perfectly relevant to the initial topic) and a deliberate hijack of the thread.

As for banning me well just wanted to make that point you can ban this one as well as this will be my last post here, not angry i just find it strange that you can blanketly label people racist or homophobes here but you get banned for using an analogy to point out the hypocrisy of such things.

Anyway enjoy your power trip, mod of a porn forum your mother must be proud you made such a big difference in the world. :)

anal aficionado
Deactivated User

Goodbye Friends
293 Posts
3/05
Posted - Dec 10 2005 : 6:07AM
Nice Donut King
scipio
Senior Member

1901 Posts
2/00
Posted - Dec 10 2005 : 10:04AM
The point is that the racism in porn topic has been done to death here, and always leads to much name-calling and flamewaring and the thread being shut down as people can't agree (or even agree to disagree on the topic). Whether you intended to derail the topic isn't relevent.

realtip, next time you see a post that makes you want to reply in a similar way, don't bother. it's been done a million times and never ends well, as you can see...

Bitching out the mods as being Nazis when you haven't really got an idea of what's gone on before in the forum isn't really a smart move either. A useful hint is when the mod says "leave it alone", you might want to leave it alone.

 
realtip
Deactivated User

2301 Posts
6/04
Posted - Dec 10 2005 : 4:18PM
By reading what has occurred on this thread since my previous post to it, it appears as though the moderators' attempts to prevent the derailment of the topic has been futile as it has unfortunately already happened, and, if I may so, the moderator(s) are not exactly blameless in this happening. I think certain comments were just blown way out of proportion.

scipio wrote

Since I was specifically addressed in this post, I will reply to it.

Although you may not be able to tell, the issue of racism is not something that I particularly enjoy talking about. To the contrary, it rather disappoints me that such issues still need to be focused on in the first place. Personally, I had hoped that we would be at a point where, if we did discuss such things, we could do so honestly and intelligently without fear of the discourse being offensive or insensitive to anyone, but that is not the reality of the world in which we live. Plus, I do not come to this forum to either start or engage in controversy, but mainly for porn. Even so, the porno world, though only a small fringe of the larger society, still has aspects of it that are a reflection of that larger society. Thus, it ought not be surprising that certain societal issues, such as race, which are somewhat reflected through porn will sporadically arise as topics of discussion on this forum.

Moreover, as far as the suggestion for me to "don't bother" responding to similar comments, I find it strange that a moderator would ask any poster to censor his posts in such a way, especially if such posts are in response to a statement or question posed by another poster and if such posts are not in any way in violation of forum etiquette. Although I can't speak for anyone else, there is nothing that anyone can say on this forum that would offend me. Likewise, my aim is not to offend anyone else. Whenever I respond to any post, I am responding to the post and not the poster himself/herself. These discussions ought not be taken personally, and I feel sorry for anyone who does take them as such.

And as for "the thread being shut down as people can't agree (or even agree to disagree on the topic)," well, that's just human beings. Human beings can hardly agree on anything. I'd be a fool to think that everyone is going to agree with anything I or anyone else has to say. However, even if we disagree, it is possible to do so cordially and respectfully, which is what I always try to do, without childishly attacking anyone personally. And as for not bothering to respond, if I am reading a post and I come across a comment or statement that is incorrect, and no other poster has addressed it, then I WILL respond to it, again, as tactfully and respectfully as I can. And I can see no reason why any moderator would feel the need to be so touchy on the issue especially when certain moderators have been known to contribute to such discussions themselves.

But anyway, that is all I will say in response to that. Since everyone, including myself, seems to want to stop seeing this matter made into the humongous deal that it isn't, I will get back to the topic by answering the question (which actually relates to the topic) that donut*king posed to me which I have not yet had the opportunity to answer (even though he has already said that he is never coming back here again).

No, it doesn't make him a homophobe. It just makes him straight.
AztecGold11
Member

514 Posts
8/05
Posted - Dec 10 2005 : 4:44PM
When I suggested that men who don't want to touch another man's penis in the same orifice could be questionably homophobic--I should have used the word squeamish .


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