This really seems to drive my girlfriend crazy! 5 minutes of very gentle stroking and some licking on the inner thigh (not pussy)and she's begging to be fucked and will cum with in minutes! I'm just curious to know if this works for most women? Edited by - bobcat on Mar 17 2009
It's different for everybody. If I gently rub my girls underside of her arm in slow circular motions for a few minutes...it's on like donkey kong. "You should've never trusted hollywood..."
It used to be my wife needed breast/nipple play. Since she lost her breasts, we've discovered a whole new set of things that drive her wild. The list is big, but some of her more sensitive spots now include the backs of her knees, her hips, small of her back, tops of buttocks, ass cleavage, achilles tendons and pretty much anywhere near her neck, collarbone or ears. I guess moral of story is this: for many women, you don't have to be anywhere NEAR her pussy to turn her on. Just spend some time exploring during an erotic massage and I think you'll be surprised how many "g-spots" the female form has for playful nibbling, biting, kissing and fondling.
So as to avoid the "female sexuality as mystery" cliche (not to mention the "men are all the same" cliche...), this discussion is applicable to men too, no?
I like to be kissed on my inner thigh too, makes me definatly going. Also I love being kissed on the neck. If you come up behind me, kiss me neck while you touch the rest of my body gently with your hands...well, you'd see this gal go crazy ;)