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Endorphin
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Posted - May 5 2004 : 2:35AM
I have been spending some time on sites devoted to teasing and denial. Sometimes it really turns me on. Other times it just flat out scares me. I REALLY like the idea of a woman that could tie me up and tease me and hour or two without letting me release no matter how hard I try. I also like like the notion of being forced to masturbate to the brink of orgasm over and over again. However, many of these people are into long-term orgasm denial and male chastity devices. Some go the extreme of considering the male orgasm to be offensive and fantasize about it be punishable by law. If they are into it and it is voluntary choice, so be it. But not my thing. Anybody else here have teasing and denial fantsies? To what degree have you made it a reality? I'd especially like to hear from the lovely, sexy, extraordinary women of ADT. And somehow I think Jewel De'Nyle has some experience in the matter if not an outright love of it.

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--from Call My Name by Prince
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lindi
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Posted - May 5 2004 : 11:21AM
Devinn Lane would be good, too.


Edited by - lindi on 5/5/2004 5:28:28 PM

Endorphin
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Posted - Mar 10 2006 : 6:32PM
Blatant bump.

And, Yes! Devinn Lane would be awesome.

Molon Labe...Oh! And! FREE THE WEED!!!

Twizted6
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Posted - Mar 10 2006 : 6:52PM
+1 Teasing

-1 Denial

+1 De'Nyle [:P)]

Pagoda
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Posted - Mar 10 2006 : 7:07PM
-1.

I'm a very impatient person, especially when it comes to sex. I'm really straight-forward and not into any kind of game-playing, although playful foreplay is certainly nice. I just don't think I'd enjoy this at all. I want my man to feel good, and often. I've no desire to make him suffer. A more organic, tantric type thing might be cool to try, but not what you're talking about, Endorphin. My $0.02.

 
astroknight All-Star Supporter
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Tastes so good...
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Posted - Mar 11 2006 : 12:02PM
Done right it can be great, done wrong, bad. Tall Goddess has several cocktease movies, if you're looking for a DVD to check out. Cocktease Photographers with Tiana Lynn and Britney Skye being excellent! I second the thought at how good Devinn Lane would be at it, and I hear a third from down below...

"Vegetarianism for me is about saying ‘yes’ to things - even meat." - Coupling

Endorphin
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Posted - Mar 14 2006 : 12:46AM
Taylor St. Claire's lovely BOOBIES! also offer T&D videos. (Actually, I think the rest of her has something to do with it). She does post on orgasmdenial.com. I get tempted, but they are so short. I am lured by the potential naughty tease talking, but at the same time I think that most sex scenes are that long and the men don't beg. I'd like to see a full hour long, merciless session that I hear about.

Molon Labe...Oh! And! FREE THE WEED!!!

melpster
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Posted - Mar 16 2006 : 11:28AM
Probably the longest I kept my partner in denial was this one time, as a challenge, I vowed to give him a blowjob while he watched the movie Cleopatra (the full-length Elizabeth Taylor version) on television. I just licked his cock teasingly for almost the first hour alone, then sucking it in an alternating rhythm soft, then hard, then backing off and using my hands. Sometimes even just blowing lightly on the tip. The poor guy was already prepared to explode by the time Cleopatra made her ostentatious entrance for Cesar but he begged me to keep going. I actually don't even remember if we made it all the way to the very end, but at one point he was pulling my hair so hard and wailing for release that I felt almost sorry for him and finally finished him off with a flourish.

Needless to say I had an ice pack pressed to my jaw for about two days. Whoosh, never again.


Melissa P.

piercedpixie1
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Posted - Mar 23 2006 : 1:56PM
+1!!!!
LOVE IT!!
i love a guy that teases my puss till its fit to burst, and dripping wet. There is the oily fun of rubbing each other all over all slick and slippery and wet but not cumming for as long as possible.....makes it sooo much better when eventually, sometimes after a few days i am finally allowed to cum...as soon as i am touched! :)
like eating chocolate after weeks of giving it up
or a lovely shower after days of unwashed music festival madness...
Endorphin
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Posted - Jan 23 2007 : 3:15AM
Why did I never respond to the new posts? Why am I responding now? (Well, I guess you can figure out what my dominant kink is at the moment).

melpster, your boyfriend is one lucky man. Though, had I grabbed your hair and demanded release I surely would have deserved being tied up while watching the longest sexies porno imaginable while being given the tongue treatment, only to cum at your whim, despite my desires...And I would be required to buy and hold the ice to your jaw afterwards..AND...spend twice as much time using my tongue to make sure that you cum over and over and over again.

astro, Celebrity Photographers looks really hot and true to the fetish (the trailer has a quote similar to "I get to cum as much as I want, but you don't get to cum at all".). Around the time I originally posted that type of action seemed only to be found by forking over over $30. The only thing I found was which seemed an attempt to draw in the T&D crowd while barely delivering on that fetish. I see now that there is more out there on DVD and I think I will try at least one out. Venus Girls seems to be the place to go to find what titles to look for. The difficulty is finding them for less than $35. Celebrity Photographers, which looked like the hottest of them all, was not in the price search.

Molon Labe...Oh! And! FREE THE WEED!!!

RandomPrecision
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Posted - Jan 24 2007 : 2:50PM
Well, I like some "tease" type stuff. Sometimes, the thought and anticipation of what's about to happen can be better than what actually ends up happening. But in a weird way, that can make the rest of the sex better because your anticipation and anxiety has grown to the point to where when you finally get the sex, you just devour it.

Tease is an art, however because it can be taken too far to the point to where it's just not sexy and gets boring. At some point, the teased is just going to sit back and say "OK...you done teasing me?"

Denial .....ehhhh. Not so keen on that. I often masturbate to the brink, pull back and go again and again and build to a shattering climax but I wouldn't want someone else controlling that. That would just turn me off and (probably) piss me off.

Fergus
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Posted - Jan 25 2007 : 12:15PM
It wasn't a major fantasy for me, but I did make it come true. Several years ago I decided to visit a professional domnatrix - a Mistress. Not for heavy domination, humiliation or pain, just for the curiosity of being at someone's mercy sexually, and it being someone who really knew what they were doing. I knew it wouldn't be the same in a relationship which had started out 'normal', and that a professional domme would know the ropes, so to speak.

Anyway, the basic idea was for her to tease me, tie me up, keep teasing and eventually make me cum. Denial on the way there, but no doubt that I'd cum (as long as I was capable, I guess). I was nude and she was in some very sexy fetishwear, with long black boots since I'd mentioned I find them sexy too. She started by telling me to get on my hands and knees, then put a dog collar on me and then a blindfold. That vulnerability obviously helps the sense of powerlessness. Then she started running her hands over me, especially my dick and balls, and lightly tapping me with a riding crop.

Umm, next she got me to stand up and she tied me to a huge framed leather canvas against the wall, both hands high, with leg-spreaders as well. For about fifteen minutes she teased me with various parts of her body (including her very silky long blonde hair) and a few pieces of equipment. She'd touch me all over, and at first she'd only just brush my dick, slowly making that contact harder as she went along. During all this I had about the hardest hard-on I'd had in years. The increased sensitivity was incredible - I could feel each individual hair as she drew it across my dick. I was ready to cum straight away, but of course she stopped anything the moment I looked like cumming.

Then she freed my right hand and told me to wank. I'd start to stroke myself, and she'd say "Enough" and I'd stop, then she'd toy with my balls for a few minutes or pinch my nipples and tell me to wank again, and I'd want to jerk off to completion, so she'd stop me again and so on. That was tough - but in a good way.

Next she untied me from the canvas and took me over to a sort of rack, where she bound me so I couldn't move my feet or shoulders, and my arms were tied to my sides, but my hips were fairly free. This had all been with the blindfold so far. More tease, but I was starting to get a bit tired and my hard-on wasn't so hard. I guess after a while your brain just clicks into "This isn't going to happen". So she took the blindfold off and started using more stimuli - showing me her breasts, squatting over my head, and rubbing her crotch and ass against my face.

That worked and I was hard again, so she oiled up my cock and balls and started working them harder, generally wanking my dick, rubbing the head and massaging my balls. She'd take me towards orgasm, then back off, then closer again, then back off etc. After a little while she put a vibrating cock ring around the whole lot, behind the scrotum, and then kept going. She gauged it very well, so several times I started to think that maybe *this time* she'd keep going until I came, but she didn't. As far as I can tell, her idea, and this is what I was hoping for, was to keep me close to cumming as long as possible, and keep the expectancy of cumming in my mind. Every so often she'd pay attention to other parts of my body, which gave my dick a rest and sort of expanded the feeling of arousal.

After about fifteen more minutes of all this I would have happily fucked a knot in a tree and I was was just saying "Fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck" through gritted teeth. Every time she put her hands on my dick I'd start to buck my hips to fuck her hands, but of course she wouldn't let me. Then, when I really didn't expect it, she kept going and let me keep going. She said "Now give me your cum" and I just thrashed against the ropes and fucked her hands like a madman, and I spurted like I've never spurted. The buildup of muscle tension must have been extreme, and when I was finished I felt like I'd run a marathon.

Most mind-blowing physical orgasm I've experienced. It was over an hour from start to cumming. I don't know how much I'd like doing it within a relationship - the feelings of vulnerability and impatience and so on were very intense, and if my partner didn't figure out or already know how to do it right it might not be much fun. But it was well worth it. We chatted comfortably afterwards for fifteen minutes, BTW - she was a smart and friendly woman, interested in how I'd experienced it.

Fergus

melpster
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Posted - Jan 26 2007 : 1:12AM

Fergus. That was astonishing. I was practically pressing my face to the monitor while gripping the side of the table reading along to the part of your amazingly descriptive orgasm. Beautifully told, my friend. Just beautiful.

And now I need to go post in the "most recent orgasm" thread. And then wring out my fucking underwear.

Sweet Jesus.

Edited by - melpster on 1/26/2007 1:12:39 AM

Bob All-Star Supporter
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Posted - Jan 26 2007 : 1:37AM
"Teasing and Denial" . . . sounds like "marriage" to me.
Fergus
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Posted - Jan 26 2007 : 12:01PM
Thank you. You're very welcome - it's always a pleasure to please

Fergus

 
Bob All-Star Supporter
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Posted - Jan 26 2007 : 5:17PM
Fergus --

That was a great piece of writing -- I enjoyed it thoroughly.

* * *

Er . . . you don't still happen to have that dominatrix's number, do you?

Fergus
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Posted - Jan 27 2007 : 9:02AM
I'm glad you enjoyed it, Bob. I see the smiley at the end there, but I'll answer seriously by giving the link to Salon Kittys. I found this dominatrix through them. Basically, the Mistresses there work on a sort of sub-contracting basis. You contact the establishment in the first instance, but once you've sorted out who you want to see that Mistress negotiates things independently with you. They use the establishment's facilities and so a proportion of the fee goes to the establishment, but they're effectively free agents. The Mistress I saw is no longer working there, but they were so helpful overall that I'm happy to give them a little international free advertising.

Fergus




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