Tera Patrick

I'm sorry, this goes on and on. To summarize, even if this is against forum rules, Grow Up! . They are people with their own lives who owe you little, if anything.

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Regardless who made the decision for her to stop fucking other guys, you should respect her decision. She's a grownup; she has to handle the consequences of her actions. If she's happy with the decision, well you should be happy that she's happy.

Edited by - cv on 10/13/2004 11:26:59 PM

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Edited by - Whoremonger on 10/13/2004 11:42:11 PM

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Your concept of a pornstar is very, very narrow.

Let's face it, maybe she has no interest in fucking other guys now that she's married. Maybe that's her decision, not his. After all, if she wanted to continue her porn career, she could have easily told him, "Just hang tight a couple of years, I want to make a few more films."

She was obviously ready for a change, and whether or not it's convenient for you is irrelevant.

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I am happy for Tera Patrick, and I actually watched the same show you were watching, and you missed what both Tera and Evan said. Tera said they BOTH agreed that she would only have sex with Evan.

I agree that yes usually when a woman gets married that their career in porn is pretty much over; however, you wouldn't want these women to grow old doing porn and being alone for the rest of their life.

Look at Savannah. She was young, stunning, famous, a pornstar, and alone. She dated rock stars that treated her like crap; she had Slash give him a BJ in public, talk about humiliating. Savannah took her life because she was lonely, would you want Tera to be strung up on drugs and thinking about suicide everyday? I wouldn't. Besides, if you're bent out of shape because of Tera Patrick maybe not doing porn anymore, than you have a lot of time on your hands not to mention a life (no offence to hardcore porn fans).

I do understand that Tera isn't going to be as marketable to directors who may want her, but don't want him. However, I'm not a director, and I certantly doubt you're a director; therefore, why give a crap? There's always going to be someone to replace Tera anyway. She sold out? I don't think so.

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Tera had sex with her husband in commercially distributed porn. Doesn't that make him a lot more of a porn star than you?

See my previous statement in bold print.

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Hesh no compute.

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Janine has made a pretty good career out of fucking girls. Thanks for playing.

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Sell out/not sell out. If you don't like something don't rent or buy it. As sales diminish so will the pornstar

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If she makes one movie a year with hubby, but her feature dance schedule is booked solid, she'll make a lot more dough that way.

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I'm saying that Tera is a sell out by not being the pornstar that she claims to be. "I love porn" yeah right, the only reason why she was doing porn was because didn't have the intelligence to be anything else. Nuff said, and if she wants to come on here and comment about it, fine. I think schomburg2002 said it best, Tera Patrick is a dime a dozen, she will be replaced and forgotten.

I knew a lot of you guys would defend her, because she's a popular pornstar, but she's nothing but a hypocrite. She's not as strong as she claims to be, because she would make decisions for herself rather than have her husband make them for her.

Tera, you're a pornstar, your job is to have sex with men and women. What is so funny is her husband can get a blow-job from other women, but god forbid if Tera would give another man a blow-job. Give me a break, Tera Patrick is a sell out. I'm not saying a sell out because she got married, she sold out because she is a hypocrite and didn't stick to her beliefs, instead she was just like any other woman who finds "love", she gets controlled, caught up with fear, and has no say-so with her own life.

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The average female pornstar's "beliefs" are mostly get in, get fucked, and get out, hopefully with some money left over. The smart ones end up feature dancing, or at least using some of the proceeds to buy real estate, maybe start a business, etc.

I personally have no interest in defending Tera's actions. Unlike you, I'm not one of her fans. She just doesn't do it for me.

There's no hypocrisy here, just a lack of understanding on your part.

Unless you learn something here, you will probably become enamored with another pornstar at some point, and get massively disappointed when she retires as well. To put it very crassly, it's your problem, not ours.

I wish you the best of luck; you will need it.

Edited by - cv on 10/14/2004 12:56:46 AM

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The fact of the matter is, cv is right, a female porn star's career is very short. They go in around 18 and leave around 28, maybe even shorter. It's usually the men that have the long careers; Peter North, Randy West, and T.T. Boy have been around for a long time and still are, because it's rare to find a good man in porn that can keep an erection for a couple of hours and shoot a load when asked to.

I don't your argument is quite clear, godhra, you tend to flip from one side to the other; however, from what I have gotten I can see your point on who "wears the pants" in that particular family. However, if you're concern with a woman's decision, or her man's decision for that matter, on what to do in porn, then you have a lot of time on your hands.

A lot of people were upset when Jenna Jameson left porn, or Jill Kelly, or Sylvia Saint, but look at it this way, if you seen them have sex once you've seen it a million times. Watching Tera Patrick have sex with Peter North is like watching her have sex with Evan.

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Sales and responsibility are two different things. Neither do you know if the husband will give up the band if they both decide it is better. Her career and personal decisions don't need to please her fans, but herself.

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Hope you understand my point.

Love Bobbi Eden

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And I don't believe Janine's female-only decision had anything to do with Ricky Rachman (spelling?)...she was doing so before dating him and she actually gave perhaps the most well-thought out and cohesive reasoning for doing so in an interview with Esquire magazine.

"Corruptio optimi pessima..."

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Right now, her only professional responsibility is to fulfill the terms of her contract with Vivid.

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ok..

I'm pro-hockey. I "love" hockey. I don't play hockey anymore. Does that make me a Hyprocrite?

As it happens, I'm pretty much indifferent to Tera these days, I liked her stills on suze.net 4-6 years ago but now I just don't care much. I'm not especially fond of what I know about Even Seinfeld either. But it's their lives, so why do you care what they do?

scipio

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I gurantee if Ms. Patrick was here and read this she would give you one hell of a tongue lashing, and I don't mean fellatio either.

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Real simply, the concept of selling out means that you compromise who you originally are to make more money. What did Tera Patrick do to sell out? Seems like she is staying more TRUE to who she is by being with someone she likes and compromises what YOU want for her, rather than what she wants for herself. So, you want her to sell out for you. We (porn fan) don't own porn stars, plain and simple. If you don't like her new work, don't buy it. I don't like 95% of her work; it kinda creeps me out when I hear 'porn fan' talk about 'porn star' like they own them. Makes me hesitant to post about porn when I see how self-involved people get in the personal lives of those that are in the industry. Watch the films you like, buy the titles of the girls you enjoy, but for christs sake, get a life when it comes to opinions' on how porn people live there own.

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and now back to the pknuckle cave....

Edited by - P-Knuckle on 10/14/2004 6:43:04 PM

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Other people do not exist to meet your needs until you tire of them. This falls on deaf ears, but it is a lesson you need to learn.

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Aren't you expressing a wish to control Tera's life? Why does this make you better, or at least different? A freaky controlling fan is better than a man who has an actual personal relationship with Tera?

If a person read your words, would they believe your statement that you wish the best for Tera?

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Your concept of why people go into porn seems misplaced. Your understanding of relationships and sexuality needs expansion.

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- Saki

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