more performer info on...

Image of Cassidy Essence

Cassidy Essence

All Forums > Star Crossed > Star Crossed Forum Page 540 > Thinking about doing anal... why my butt?"of fuck"
Page 1 of 2 Last
AuthorPost
cassidy essence
Member


Myspace fucking sucks the deleted me aagain
140 Posts
6/07
Posted - Jul 5 2007 : 7:28PM
iv never done anal in a scene, yeah i haven in my personal life, but its been about 2 years now since iv acted on it. what are the little tricks, the inside scoop on anal? why does anyone wanna watch me get fucked in my exit only hole? well everyone seems to love it. when i tried it i remember it hurt fucking so badi didnt like at the beginning, then once it was in, its was on and cracken. But its been awhile, how do the girls get their asshole so big? Putting a fist in a ass is a load. Oh dp's WOW I wont even go there. That's another topic in its self.
Cassidy Essence
Topic Moved by - hardware on Jul 5 2007
axlsfury
Senior Member

1110 Posts
7/04
Posted - Jul 5 2007 : 8:08PM
Try putting in a butt plug and keeping it in before a scene. I think this would help stretch it out and make it more comfortable. Lots of lube helps as does taking it slow first.
Axl
stinkfist
Senior Member

Subterfuge......
7401 Posts
4/07
Posted - Jul 5 2007 : 8:37PM
Cassidy,look forward to seeing you do an anal scene..the foam is coming out my mouth already.think some of the female pornstars will give you some info regarding anal,if you get a call from your agent saying Shane Diesel wants to work with you then maybe you should request the following on set..a fire extinguisher..a priest..ice pack..lol only teasing but size in this case maybe does matter.good luck miss cASSidy of fuck
threesomebody
Official BlowBang Judge

Would you like my autograph?
2491 Posts
12/04
Posted - Jul 5 2007 : 9:17PM
Cassidy, you are a master at drawing people to your movies.
cassidy essence
Member

Myspace fucking sucks the deleted me aagain
140 Posts
6/07
Posted - Jul 6 2007 : 12:28AM
wow, why do you say that? yay im stoked but I don't see what I did anymore or less then the next
Cassidy Essence
 
Anime Nut
Senior Member

Too cool for Zuul
1925 Posts
6/06
Posted - Jul 6 2007 : 4:13AM
Cassidy, I think I love you.
That said, I hope you really do enjoy anal sex, and that this isn't just an attempt to gain more popularity. If you actually hate it, then I don't wanna watch you suffer on camera.
However, if you ARE into the anal lovin', then I'm genuinely excited and happy. I don't have any helpful advice for this leg of your journey, but I know my peers here will help you get started.
threesomebody
Official BlowBang Judge

Would you like my autograph?
2491 Posts
12/04
Posted - Jul 6 2007 : 9:56AM
Because based on this post, I will check out one of your movies.
It was a compliment.
cvarmecky
Deactivated User

46 Posts
7/07
Posted - Jul 6 2007 : 1:10PM
definitely use an enema beforehand to clean yourself out-you don't wanna go shitting all over the place in your first anal... stop eating at a certain time the night before and if your stomach hurts the day of the scene take some imodium ad... other than that I've no other advice besides good luck... name some movies you are in I think it just became a new fan
cvarmecky
Deactivated User

46 Posts
7/07
Posted - Jul 6 2007 : 1:13PM
and if it's the pain you're worried about pop some painkillers preferably OxyContin-20 mg should do the trick... well I have nothing but admiration and well wishes for you later
cassidy essence
Member

Myspace fucking sucks the deleted me aagain
140 Posts
6/07
Posted - Jul 6 2007 : 7:22PM
well digital sin, fresh out of high school 5 was the fist movie that came out with me in it! i picked it up today. you can go look on my space for all the internet stuff there's more of that out already.cassidyessence/myspace

check it out, it is in my blog, the latest
Cassidy Essence

cobalt60
Knuckle Dragger

2046 Posts
2/03
Posted - Jul 6 2007 : 9:12PM
It shouldn't hurt, hon. Proper stretching involves tongue, fingers, and eventually cock, but never pain. It should hurt me .. I mean, your co-star .. more than you. That shit would squeeze me .. I mean, your co-star .. so tightly that the head sees stars.
But if your clit is paid proper attention to, and the penetration isn't rushed (I think us older guys are a lot more patient), but rather firm, steady pressure, and lots of talk - lots of hot, ass-stuffing talk - will make you want it so bad you'll be pushing against me .. I mean, you know .. pushing back against that hard dick trying to get it in there, stuff it in there, come all over the place with your ass full of throbbing meat. You'd come before I .. whatever.
Whoever hurt you wasn't doing it right, and I'm sorry. I wouldn't ever let you suffer, unless you just wanted to.
Ain't I a gentleman? Yeah, whatever. Do the dick any way you can get it in you. It's the only way to find true happiness.
threesomebody
Official BlowBang Judge

Would you like my autograph?
2491 Posts
12/04
Posted - Jul 6 2007 : 9:22PM
Have I told you lately that I love you?
Twizted6
Senior Member

Good & Evil is merely a matter of perspective, I perfer to call myself... Determined
1229 Posts
7/05
Posted - Jul 7 2007 : 2:30AM
You two should do some swapping...and have Jake film it.
axlsfury
Senior Member

1110 Posts
7/04
Posted - Jul 7 2007 : 10:54AM
I don't think Oxycontin is a good idea at all. Try Advil instead.
_swede_
Deactivated User

579 Posts
4/05
Posted - Jul 7 2007 : 11:27AM
please try it again.
I guess you didn't warm up enough the last time, remember to use loads and loads of lube
 
john thomas
Deactivated User

1168 Posts
6/06
Posted - Jul 7 2007 : 11:49AM
I just want to disagree with nearly everything cvarmecky suggested.
He has described the standard porn methods for performers new to anal but standard methods are rarely best methods and not always to be recommended. Enemas are essential, of course, but self-starvation and painkillers are lazy shortcuts to becoming an anal performer - shortcuts that, in the end, will take their toll, on you physically and on your career.
Don't starve yourself. The so-called "anal diet" of starving yourself the day before a scene is at least part of the reason why a number of once good-looking porners have turned into little better than walking cadavers. And according to a number of porn veterans like Tricia Devereaux, who know far more about this sort of thing than most, it is completely unnecessary. Eat sensibly. You know best how your body responds to different food stuffs, what you can eat safely and what you should avoid. Seek advice from senior performers like Tricia and Katja who have been able to be anally active without losing their curves.
Avoid painkillers. It is better to practice at home with toys, a partner and lots of lube until you reach a level of comfort with anal sex. If you never reach that level then anal sex is not for you. Pain is a body's warning system; you can deaden the sirens with painkillers but that doesn't mean you are stopping the damage being done. If you cannot do an ordinary anal scene without painkillers then you shouldn't be doing those scenes. Also painkillers, even when they are not chemically addictive, can be habit-forming and that, again, is something you want to avoid.
So I say steer clear of shortcuts. If you want to be an effective porn performer you have to put in the hours and the effort to become skilled in your chosen craft. The delight you expressed about learning how to deep throat suggests to me that you have the right attitude. Take your time, practice any new act until you are confident you are ready to do it on screen and don't let anyone pressure you into doing anything that you don't feel ready for and comfortable with.
I think you have a very bright future in front of you, just so long as it is you setting your own pace.
Edited by - john thomas on 7/7/2007 12:05:31 PM
cassidy essence
Member

Myspace fucking sucks the deleted me aagain
140 Posts
6/07
Posted - Jul 7 2007 : 4:46PM
Oh wow, that maybe the most important piece of advise iv gotten yet, well beside the save your money one. I do take my time, I enjoy listening picking up little tips here n there, I wanna become the best performer I can be, im not trying to be a super porn star, no fame. just the best i can be. it don't make a difference to me if the only people that know my name are the people within the business and the city walls I grew up in.

im very happy, each day I get up, im smiling. Iv gotten so far from what I had, my dad is proud of me. I built so much for my self, I had nothing. Doing anal isn't bad, I like butt sex. Iv practise by myself, ill get there some day, and it will be great.
Cassidy Essence
zorge
Member

278 Posts
8/06
Posted - Jul 7 2007 : 5:07PM
That's so uplifting!
RandomPrecision
Senior Member

Enjoy!
8175 Posts
3/06
Posted - Jul 7 2007 : 5:24PM
Honestly? Now remember. This comes from someone who loves anal and loves to see hot women getting fucked in the ass. I would advise you to wait a few years (at the very least). If porn is still what you want to do and you're still interested in doing anal, go for it.
cobalt60
Knuckle Dragger

2046 Posts
2/03
Posted - Jul 7 2007 : 7:59PM
Cassidy - always listen to john thomas. He may be a dick, but he knows what he's talking about. Most of the time. Some of the time.
3sb - that's so sweet. I love you, too.
He may be a dick. "john thomas". Ha ha. They just write themselves, folks. Just write. Themselves.
CLiCKA
Deactivated User

6 Posts
7/07
Posted - Jul 8 2007 : 12:47AM
you gotta get used to it...
nowadays most of guys like givin it up in the ass
incluidin me... but idk a good reason 4 it
could be the tight feeling?
or just the simple taboo?
well as i said...
you gotta get used to it til you like it :)
good luck
----------------------
help me finding this girl's id: http://img43.imagevenue.com/img.php?image=35115_stock01_123_653lo.JPG
Edited by - CLiCKA on 7/8/2007 12:48:15 AM
matchmaker
Senior Member

24910 Posts
4/05
Posted - Jul 8 2007 : 3:26AM
That was beautiful, man. A tear came to my eye when I read it.
Anime Nut
Senior Member

Too cool for Zuul
1925 Posts
6/06
Posted - Jul 8 2007 : 12:37PM
Quite possibly the single greatest paragraph ever written on the ADT boards.
Cassidy, I'm officially in love with you. Just so ya know.
Leslie
Member

Goleta,CA
279 Posts
1/01
Posted - Jul 9 2007 : 12:39PM
First...ass holes comes in every size...just like mouth and pussy.Julia Roberts,Elle MaCpherson,Jamie Lynn can easily fill their mouth with a big apple that you won't be able to even bite.There's girls that can stick 2 cocks and one dildo(or a baseball bat or a soda can)up their ass but that's not for everybody.It depends what you got as original equipement.
Second,imagine I try to force something in your mouth while you forcing your mouth shut.It's gonn'a hurt...right?It's the same for an ass hole except that an ass hole normal stance is to be shut tight.So the idea is...to open it...how?
Well...everyday(I presume)you open it when you poop and...it doesn't hurt so...that opening is automatic.To duplicate it,you just have to push out just like when you want to poop and it will relax,ready to open.It's recommended to have poop a little time prior and to adopt a position where your stomach is lower than the exit(avoiding any unwanted spill).The girl on top is certainly the worst scenario.Doggie,with your stomach right down on the bed,floor...whatever,is best.If you eat meat,you shouldn't have any problem.Vegetarians are more tricky about spilling but these positions should take care of it.
So push out,have a slow entry with a well lube(spit is just fine)dick and you're in for a different experience.Unless you're very large,it usually take 3 task before it really start to feel enjoyable.
cassidy essence
Member

Myspace fucking sucks the deleted me aagain
140 Posts
6/07
Posted - Aug 24 2007 : 11:37PM
today i did a ggggg shoot with toys, the girls got fucked in the ass, not me. maybe ill start with toys it looked fun
.:*:.Cassidy Essence.:*:.
 
MrFuckinSunshine
Member

I read your blog you magnificent bastard!
274 Posts
12/05
Posted - Aug 25 2007 : 12:06AM
Cassidy what happened to your MySpace page? I'm guessing someone reported you for violating ToS but haven't heard anything officially from you.
cassidy essence
Member

Myspace fucking sucks the deleted me aagain
140 Posts
6/07
Posted - Aug 25 2007 : 8:43AM
MrFuckinSunshine
Member

I read your blog you magnificent bastard!
274 Posts
12/05
Posted - Aug 25 2007 : 11:12AM
Yeah I had a feeling someone like this this d-bag got you. He takes a lot of pride in busting pornstars.
Porn Scout
Deactivated User

3735 Posts
10/02
Posted - Aug 25 2007 : 7:33PM
It says he's from Mill Creek, Washington. That's about ten minutes away.
MrFuckinSunshine
Member

I read your blog you magnificent bastard!
274 Posts
12/05
Posted - Aug 25 2007 : 9:35PM
Could have been him, could have been someone else like him but as long as you don't violate the ToS in any way, they can't do that to you Cassidy. For example, don't use bulletins to advertise that you're going to be on whatever adult site because that goes out to everyone on your friends list including the people who aren't really friends or fans. They just asked to be on your friends list so they could report you as soon as you slip up and violate the ToS. Dana DeArmond has been on MySpace longer than anyone I can think of and she might have some good advice about this subject.
BTW "Rob" boasts that he has personally busted 14 "pedophiles" and had their profiles deleted. I'm not going to defend pedophiles but from what I hear, there was never enough evidence against any of those people to bring charges against even one of them. If you look at how broad his definition of pedophile is, you can see why.
Anyway, sorry to derail the thread. Please continue to discuss Cassidy's butt of fuck.
MrFuckinSunshine
Member

I read your blog you magnificent bastard!
274 Posts
12/05
Posted - Sep 17 2007 : 10:07PM
I went to check my MySpace today and saw Cassidy missing from my friends list. I'm guessing they deleted her again.
Gabriela Rossi
Member

29 Posts
9/07
Posted - Sep 18 2007 : 3:27AM
Hi baby girl
As far as anal is concerned, just get a toy and have fun with it the night before as well as the morning of and a bit before the scene. Use PLENTY of lube! Please don't starve either . . . Nobody wants a performer getting lightheaded because she hasn't eaten in 12 hours!Try not to use cold, tap water for enemas. Use warm, sterile water instead. Some people find saline solution too aggressive.
Take a few minutes before the shoot to explain to the other performer(s)what turns you on. Every male performer I've worked with so far has been extremely understanding and cooperative. Relax, have fun with it and when you realize it, the scene is over and you'll be asking for more ;-)
Anime Nut
Senior Member

Too cool for Zuul
1925 Posts
6/06
Posted - Sep 18 2007 : 5:27AM
Just wanted to check in and see how Cassidy's journey towards XXX Anal-topia is comin' along.
Cassidy: In that ggggg shoot you mentioned, were you on the giving end of the toy anal pounding, by any chance? If so, I hope it gave you a little insight into how gloriously wonderful it'll be for that first guy who gets to take your ass on camera.
BTW, I was pleasantly surprised to see you pop up as one of my Flickr contacts, of all things. I hope you're planning to attend AEE in January, 'cause I'd love to get a few photos of you in my photostream.
rockee
Member

love the tease
18 Posts
9/07
Posted - Sep 18 2007 : 11:36PM
Personally i dont like fucking in the ass.Not even to watch.
i have did it before, a few times ,with two different women
only because they wanted to try it. I still prefer pussy.
Doing and watching. It looks like it is painful unless your
asshole is as big as your pussy.I would rather stick my dick in the biggest pussy out there .BY the way i happen to like
those big pussys. I dont know what the turn on is.Its certainy
not mine.Actually i see a good looking chick on the box and
see that the main feature is anal I tend to set it down.I
look for particular positions cowgirl,reverse cowgirl.doggy
style,69 or dildo play,finger fuck, a little soft bondage
or spanking. I dont know why the big interest in anal,seems
like every movie has it tho. If you like it fine with me i
may be in the minority here. I am not bisexual so no ones
screwing me in the butt not even do i allow females using their fingers there. My privalege.
Porn Scout
Deactivated User

3735 Posts
10/02
Posted - Sep 19 2007 : 2:34AM
I'm looking forward to Cassidy's first anal, whenever that happens (if it happens).
 
cassidy essence
Member

Myspace fucking sucks the deleted me aagain
140 Posts
6/07
Posted - Sep 19 2007 : 11:13AM
good news!!! iv agreed to do my first anal!! Ivan from anabolic will shoot it! hes a good friend, and were going to put together a little special surprise, i sure know how you all like surprise!
.:*:.Cassidy Essence.:*:.
Anime Nut
Senior Member

Too cool for Zuul
1925 Posts
6/06
Posted - Sep 19 2007 : 9:24PM
claps in approval

Way to go, champ! You done us proud.
*sniff* I love America.
cassidy essence
Member

Myspace fucking sucks the deleted me aagain
140 Posts
6/07
Posted - Sep 19 2007 : 11:46PM
yeah isn't now the bad news!!! MYSPACE HATES ME they deleted me AGAIN rrrrrr well my new myspace is myspace.com/cassidyessence
i think ill keep this one!
.:*:.Cassidy Essence.:*:.
Anime Nut
Senior Member

Too cool for Zuul
1925 Posts
6/06
Posted - Sep 20 2007 : 11:56AM
Punk bastards.
on the plus side, LOVE your new motto, Cassidy.
men3ya
Member

22 Posts
8/07
Posted - Sep 20 2007 : 8:12PM
Cassidy,
I agree with Cobalt60, do it with the right person, who knows how to do it properly, and you will only get pleasure out of it, rather than an awful painful experience. You don't need any painkillers, or dieting to have anal fun. It also requires patience and takes time especially the first time around, so practice is essential but practice it with a partner rather than with butt-plugs etc. Finally, you need to want it, and a good partner can make you want it badly, so don't be scared, just think about the pleasure that you will get :-)
Roxy DeVille
Member

up your nose with a rubber hose!
307 Posts
8/06
Posted - Sep 21 2007 : 12:20AM
There's a chapter in Nina Hartley's book "guide to total sex" on anal sex. both the cleaning and the warming up, positions, best lubes, etc. I'm not an experienced anal player, but I feel like I know a lot more than I did before. Drink fiber the evening before and you should have a good sized movement in the morning, then you just have to clean out the little bit that's left inside and you're all gravy!! Marie Luv and Sasha Grey gave me that advice and it's worked for me so far!!
good luck my dear, and just remember that once you do anal, that's a majority of what you'll be booked for.
xoxoxo
Roxy DeVille
Member

up your nose with a rubber hose!
307 Posts
8/06
Posted - Sep 21 2007 : 12:21AM
There's a chapter in Nina Hartley's book "guide to total sex" on anal sex. both the cleaning and the warming up, positions, best lubes, etc. I'm not an experienced anal player, but I feel like I know a lot more than I did before. Drink fiber the evening before and you should have a good sized movement in the morning, then you just have to clean out the little bit that's left inside and you're all gravy!! Marie Luv and Sasha Grey gave me that advice and it's worked for me so far!!
good luck my dear, and just remember that once you do anal, that's a majority of what you'll be booked for.
xoxoxo
Porn Scout
Deactivated User

3735 Posts
10/02
Posted - Sep 21 2007 : 12:30AM
Is there no justice in this world?
Roxy DeVille
Member

up your nose with a rubber hose!
307 Posts
8/06
Posted - Sep 21 2007 : 9:58AM
dude, Annette Schwartz is butt fucking me today for Belladonna. How thrilled/terrified am I right now?!?!?!?!?
xoxoxoxo
cassidy essence
Member

Myspace fucking sucks the deleted me aagain
140 Posts
6/07
Posted - Sep 21 2007 : 10:03AM
i should go to take note, and a free show. lucky lol
.:*:.Cassidy Essence.:*:.
MrFuckinSunshine
Member

I read your blog you magnificent bastard!
274 Posts
12/05
Posted - Sep 21 2007 : 11:00AM
There is a must see.
4theheart
Senior Member

pornologist
3102 Posts
8/01
Posted - Sep 21 2007 : 10:10PM
How was the scene btw roxy hopefully good? Have you done any b/g anal or g/g exclusively (oh and to keep on topic, can't wait to see your new anal as well cassidey!)
Roxy DeVille
Member

up your nose with a rubber hose!
307 Posts
8/06
Posted - Sep 21 2007 : 10:13PM
whoa. I just got home from humping Annette. She is truly unbelievable. We had a great time. we did some buttfucking, some enemas, smothering and little gentle kisses. She's easily the best girl hump ever.
4theheart
Senior Member

pornologist
3102 Posts
8/01
Posted - Sep 21 2007 : 10:16PM
Wow, thanks for the quick reply heh, glad it went well, do you want to stick with g/g for the anal, or is b/g also a possibility. I guess it can be good to stick with what works (and I've realized I've said the word "stick" too many times here for my liking...)
Roxy DeVille
Member

up your nose with a rubber hose!
307 Posts
8/06
Posted - Sep 22 2007 : 12:03AM
to be very honest, I think g/g/a is all you're going to be seeing for QUITE a while (I would say never, but that seems to get people into a lot of trouble...)
The fact of the matter is, I'm just not that into having cock in my ass. I do it at home occasionally, but I'd rather just play with a toy or have a butt plug in my ass. I just don't love it enough to do it on camera with strangers...I do love sex with girls and I enjoy anal sex with girls, so hopefully I'll be getting booked more for that in the future.
xoxoxo
cassidy essence
Member

Myspace fucking sucks the deleted me aagain
140 Posts
6/07
Posted - Sep 22 2007 : 11:45AM
anal has been on my mind every day all day... its my new little mind set. oddly enough im no longer scared of it at all. im getting very excited
All Forums > Star Crossed > Star Crossed Forum Page 540Thinking about doing anal... why my butt?"of fuck"

Previous topic: My Top 3 ATF . Which 1 Does Not Belong?
Next topic: Carmen Mccarthy
Page 1 of 2 Last



Jump To: