I believe Porn is about fantasy, on a different thread I stated an opinion about Curvy being synonymous with fat, and I was attacked, maybe Im wrong, but I suspect girls who are more "mainstream" (thin or well proportioned) are more in demand than "curvy" models, to each his own but Im tired of people looking for excuses. There is a a trend here in the US it seems compared to Europe, more "curvy" and body mods here. i believe the natural beauties are the best. Im tired of people attacking me if I like traditional looking actresses. Its like the SI swimsuit edition with Ashley Graham, so many people that it was awesome, I thought it was gross. I think "curvy" should be a fetish
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Posted - Aug 28 2016 : 6:45PM
Different taste for different people. I like curvy woman because they look more like woman and less like girls.I also like petite and slim girls but curvy woman have a distinct beauty and provide a welcome change. In past centuries and in different cultures curvier woman like Ashley Graham used to be considered the best type of beauty and thin girls were less appreciated. Of course it is also about balance but I believe curvier woman look healthier than some of the top models in the fashion industry who look like they are not allowed to eat and live like a normal and healthy person.They can at times look like walking sticks. But again different taste for different people.And that's absolutely fine.But there is a signiffant line between curvy and fat.Being curvy is about the right balance and looking physically dominant and above average than the usual body types.Fat is a more negative term and should be used when its absolutely accurate and in more extreme cases.It would be the equivalent of me calling some thinner models anorexic and that would be absolutely wrong and inappropriate.Language also needs to be about accuracy and respect otherwise you will struggle to convince anybody. But again everyone has a different taste and preferences and that's absolutely acceptable but that doesnt mean you should look down on a different body-type which can be found to be attractive by many people and is gaining more and more popularity. Plus I find a curvy body-type to be bit more rare.A thin body type is much easier to find.I believe beauty also needs to be about rarity and if otherwise everything is the same then it can become less extraordinary and much more forgettable.The rarity of the curvy body type and the perfect balance you need for it makes it an attractive fantasy.
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Posted - Aug 28 2016 : 6:54PM
Fat implies out of shape, doesn't it? You can get women who work out every day that have thick asses and thighs and they are certainly not what you would call fat. Ashely Graham is fit in the sense she exercises, is strong and healthy... this is just how her body is. Could she go on a fitness competitor diet and go down to 6 percent body fat> yeah, but guess what .. her butt and thighs would still be very big and thick because that is how her body is made, and guys like yourself would likely still call her fat. I think you have to take into account the woman's body type and lifestyle. If she is healthy and exercising and ends up looking a certain way, that is her. If she she is eating fast food and watching TV 7 days a week and is out of shape, maybe you have a point about something being gross. Everyone gets turned on by their own thing. For you to come here and trash other people's interests is really not doing yourself any favors. You like what you like , someone else likes what they like. That is why porn is relatively diverse and women of many different looks can make a living. There is even a group of people who are turned on by women extremely obese (like the 400 pound body type). Someone may call me gross because I crossfit and have muscles. Someone else may call a slim supermodel gross when she merely gains 5 pounds. People just don't need to do that. What is interesting, and I just have my own experience to have this observation.. is most men who attack curvier women are either very young, OR unattractive and out of shape. The internet warriors who body shame all over the place are not likely to be fit athletic happy men. Most happy healthy men these days just don't put any energy into women they don't find appealing.. they certainly do not go out of their way to body shame or call people gross like you are doing in this thread. I think Holly Hendrix is incredible, I think Monica Santhiago is incredible. Both are in shape and healthy, however, completely different body types and someone like you would call Monica fat or something is just off the charts foolish. Edited by - Canadian_Cindy on 8/28/2016 6:59:07 PM
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Posted - Aug 28 2016 : 7:00PM
Curvy is only becoming synonymous with "fat" because fat people and claiming the term for themselves and the media has taken to using it as a polite euphemism for them. Ashley Graham, your example, is indeed fat. I think that she's sexy and beautiful, but she's fat. In porn she'd be a BBW. Meanwhile, do you see many women who look like her on RK's Monster Curves? Edited by - misspornUSA on 8/28/2016 7:00:58 PM
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Posted - Aug 28 2016 : 7:05PM
To be fair, I should say that Ashley Graham was fat at the time of the SI shoot. Even by the time that she was promoting her cover she had lost weight, and although I don't follow her on social media I do see photos/video of her from time to time and she's clearly continued losing pounds since the shoot.
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Posted - Aug 28 2016 : 7:11PM
I believe she intentionally gained weight in preparation for that particular shoot. However, she can work out hard as anyone, she will always be thick.
Where do you live guys? Curvy Land? Bc of this are you tired of curves? So because the American industry shoots with skinny girls, now are curvy girls fat? We see curvy girls on Monster Curves bc the site's name is MONSTER CURVES. Why don't we see anyone calling skinny girls Monster Curves? Bc they don't have curves. I pay for curvy, booty and big booties. And you pay for your type of girl. Many people like curvy girls: soccer players, rappers , NBA players... Go to Brazil. You will see the real women. Edited by - samueljr on 8/28/2016 7:46:45 PM
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Posted - Aug 28 2016 : 7:53PM
Surprised you are putting down women like this especially when I believe Proxy Paige is one of your favorites and she has plenty of "benign" body fat. Edited by - Canadian_Cindy on 8/28/2016 7:53:48 PM
