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Beavis69
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278 Posts
9/04
Posted - Jun 19 2007 : 10:16PM
I love the titty bar and I used to frequent them a lot when I was younger and spent my share of $$$ there. But I also wondered when I was there how this affected marriages and relationships between couples . I wondered (still do) if most men have permission to go to these clubs and if so, do they have a spending limit or if the wife/gf asks 1 of his buddies to go along to keep him out of trouble.Also, in some ways(and I've heard this from both men and women)does this enhance or "spice up" your sex life ? I would think it would benefit both male and female to share the experience in some kind of "hot talk" about the dancers at the club, etc. Of course I'm sure there are some negatives to this but I've also known women who wanted to go to these clubs w/their man and even get a dance for themselves.Anyway, just curious as to everyones experience(s)..either positive or negative with this . Thanks.
James
threesomebody
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2491 Posts
12/04
Posted - Jun 21 2007 : 1:04PM
I try to get my husband to go with me, but he won't.
ma meeshka
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3939 Posts
4/06
Posted - Jun 21 2007 : 9:32PM
i could go if i wanted to. w/ partner or without. i choose not to because they don't interest me at all. i've never been. she has.
conquistador
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Hellhamster.
2947 Posts
10/03
Posted - Jun 21 2007 : 9:40PM
Never been to one. I don't see the appeal.
croy
Platinum Member

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4574 Posts
3/04
Posted - Jun 21 2007 : 10:27PM
Naked women.
 
zipbags
Member

42 Posts
4/05
Posted - Jun 22 2007 : 12:50PM
While I do enjoy going and looking at a titty bar. I am not a huge fan. Its like going to a bakery and being on a diet. While its nice to look you end up wanted more..Which you can't have. ;)
LubeNLuv
Senior Member

1854 Posts
3/06
Posted - Jun 23 2007 : 7:33AM
Since marriage, I've only been to one maybe 3 times total. The wife knew I was going. There is zero appeal in titty bars to me now....I've got way, way better back home and I don't have to treat her like a coin-operated whore either.
conquistador
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Hellhamster.
2947 Posts
10/03
Posted - Jun 23 2007 : 5:33PM
croy: most of the chances I had to go to titty bars with friends (I could always go to one alone) also involved seeing girls I knew working.
It felt awkward. For example the local place in PA.
A girl I sat next to in math classes in high school worked there. We got along fine, I didn't want to see her naked.
My room mates little sister worked there, also a girl I knew from high school. I still talk on the phone with their father once in a while.
My friend's wife. I had no problem stray-painting her stripper boots sparkling silver but I felt weird about seeing her naked.
I guess I would prefer to go to one of these places and actually be anonymous.
I wanted not to be able to accurately picture them naked because that is all I would do when talking face to face with any of these women from that point on.
I like naked women, I just prefer them to be strangers.
Clam Digger
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2268 Posts
1/05
Posted - Jun 23 2007 : 6:13PM
I guess you are married.
conquistador
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Hellhamster.
2947 Posts
10/03
Posted - Jun 23 2007 : 6:40PM
No.
I have a very long term girlfriend.
I just feel odd about seeing friends naked. They may feel fine with it, but it makes me awkward.
girlstrapon
Member

13 Posts
8/07
Posted - Aug 7 2007 : 2:14PM
I've never been into them. When I was younger, I liked seeing the naked women, but the constant pressure to spend more and more money ruined the experience for me.
Now that I'm older (40), simple nudity doesn't do much for me anymore. I can see tons of naked women for free at dungeon parties, and occasionally go to swinger parties, too (my gf and I will soft-swing, but not have sex with others).
The women at these places WANT to be naked, get turned on by it, don't expect any money, and want to be watched. If you know them, you can do a lot of touching, too. I have seen most of my female friends naked, and have watched a good number of them have sex. You can watch them orgasm and have sex for free - why pay to watch a surgery queen dance badly with a bored look on her face?
RandomPrecision
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8175 Posts
3/06
Posted - Aug 7 2007 : 2:41PM
Yeah. That's pretty much why I stopped going too. I didn't mind spending money there. It was just that you could never spend enough. They wouldn't leave you alone and let you decide what to spend your money on.
Sorry but - "Oh, you look lonely. Could you buy me a $6 Coke?" is a bit pushy.
mindee
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717 Posts
10/06
Posted - Aug 7 2007 : 5:44PM
It's like going to a huge buffet restaurant and being told you can only sit down, but you can't eat anything. What's the point?
DuaneC60
Member

7 Posts
6/07
Posted - Aug 8 2007 : 9:54PM
I agree that just a plain 'ol titty bar doesn't do much for me. However, a full contact, hands on, strip club can be pretty hot. My wife and I are monogamous so a hands on place is the closest I get. I don't spend more than $100.
My wife knows I go but I'm not sure she knows about the hands on lap dances..
Beavis69
Member

278 Posts
9/04
Posted - Aug 8 2007 : 10:23PM
I've never heard of a hands on titty bar ..where can u find those or places where the girls let u "play" with 'em so to speak ?
by the way , Three...if your husband wont go, do u go by yourself or w/girlfriends ?
 
DuaneC60
Member

7 Posts
6/07
Posted - Aug 9 2007 : 4:53PM
I've been to such places in Iowa, Kansas, and Missouri.



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