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duefuss
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Posted - May 4 2009 : 2:53PM

Do women really find blowjobs arousing, or are they simply pleased to do it because it arouses us so much? I hope I'm making a clear enough distinction. I know there is a thin line between the enjoyment getting pleaure and the enjoyment of giving it.
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Posted - May 4 2009 : 3:19PM
I had a girlfriend that loved giving head. I had another that did it, but she wasn't as into it. Not that I had any complaints, mind you.
duefuss
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Posted - May 4 2009 : 4:20PM
^^
I guess you didn't.
BTW, may I ask if the girl who liked it ever said why she did?
WardqueenJanine
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Posted - May 4 2009 : 5:46PM
Well let me reverse the question. Do you guys get turned on eating a pussy? From my experience that question would be a resounding, "Yes". For the same reason I enjoy and indeed get turned on giving head. I love the fact that there is tangible evidence of my partners arousal for which I am responsible. That in itself is a huge mental aphrodisiac. Another thing that can't be discounted is the tease factor. A lot of women like to use teasing as part of their sexual play and the reward is in itself.
Let's face it, by the time your girlfriend, wife or sex partner is pumping her head on you cock there was probably a good amount of teasing and turning on going on. I know I don't think Iv'e not gone down when my pussy wasn't already pretty wet.
Please don't misunderstand me, as much as sucking cock turns me on, and it does, I can't get off by doing it, nor do I think any other women can. You can get us, "Right there" but to take us over the edge there is only one thing that does it!
duefuss
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Posted - May 4 2009 : 7:39PM
Thanks for the answer. I was never sure.
As for whether guys enjoy the reverse, I speak only for myself but Oh Boy do I ever! I believe I like giving more even than getting oral sex. Regrettably, I've never been able to do the really extensive research that would be required to definitively answer this question.
 
HotMandy
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Posted - May 5 2009 : 7:07AM
While the act of giving a blow job does not turn me on as such (as in having something in my mouth!) i LOVE giving head. Sucking cock can get me just as wet as getting my pussy licked can in fact. Its about the reaction from the guy that does it. For example, sucking on a dildo on my own wouldn't do anything for me, however hearing a guy moan, groan and tremble in front of you all because of what you are doing is so hot. It's such a turn on for me. I actually went on a quest a while ago to try and make sure i was giving the very best head around! http://hotmandy.wordpress.com/2009/03/27/thats-the-way-to-do-it/ After extensive research i found that the best blow-jobs are given by the enthusiastic girl, which i definitely am when giving head. If people want to share more tips here though that would be amazing as I am always looking out for new tricks to spice things up and make my guys eyes roll in his head (and as a result make my pussy wetter than a tropical storm!) xxx
Edited by - hotmandy on 5/6/2009 7:39:31 AM
katsirk
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Posted - May 5 2009 : 7:12AM
My husband left for work an hour ago, but not before I gave him amazing head and enjoyed every last drop!
HotMandy
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Posted - May 5 2009 : 7:17AM
Good girl! :-) x
ma meeshka
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Posted - May 5 2009 : 7:34AM
no. all women hate blowjobs because they are the same and they hate men too because all men are the same.
katsirk
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Crush on Greg....mmm
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Posted - May 5 2009 : 7:48AM
So not true. Yum. We will celebrate our 11th year of marriage and cock sucking is fabulous!
duefuss
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Posted - May 5 2009 : 8:23AM
The way some of we men behave sometimes, what you say ought to be the truth. I am thankful that it is not. Any man who has the affection of a woman has far better than he deserves.
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Posted - May 5 2009 : 10:52AM
Gross!
Pagoda
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Posted - May 5 2009 : 1:10PM
^^
ma meeshka
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Posted - May 5 2009 : 10:49PM
my sarcasm seems to have gone over some heads. i was criticising the wording of the OP.
duefuss
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Posted - May 6 2009 : 7:17AM
If OP means original post what about its wording calls forth your sarcasm? I don't think it's a dumb question but, if it is, so what? Do we get graded?
BTW when sarcasm goes over some heads, its usually yhe sarcasm, not the heads that's the problem.
Edited by - duefuss on 5/6/2009 7:19:42 AM
 
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Posted - May 6 2009 : 10:07AM
I certainly don't mind a good blow job here and there, and do enjoy going down on my partner and driving her crazy. But to wonder a tad off topic, I find watching a guy getting one in a porno to be boring and usually hit the FF. I am however very disappointed when there is no cunnilingus in the scene.
I can understand how the ladies might like them though.
ma meeshka
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Posted - May 7 2009 : 7:27AM
that's about as far as i got.
'women'? what does that mean? humans of the female gender? if you have trouble realising that every woman is different then i think you're the one with the problem.
duefuss
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Posted - May 7 2009 : 9:03AM
^
'Women'? what does that mean? humans of the female gender? Uhh, Gee, yeah, I think so. That's about as far as you got? So from one word 'women' you derive the absolute certainty that I think all women are the same. BTW, the same what?
I'm sure lucky none of the other respondents seem aware that the use of the word 'women', regardless of context, exposes the user as an emotionally troubled misogynist and female belittling chauvinist of the worst sort. After all, we're all familiar with those famous misogynists of yore, such as Louisa May Alcott and her perfidious attack on femininity, "Little Women."
I'm especially fortunate that the respondents are not semantic geniuses, else they, too, would not have bothered to read the question and not have provided such thoughtful, entertaining answers.

Beavis69
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Posted - May 11 2009 : 9:49AM
Mandy,
loved ur post and quite agree w/all the things u said in it..as past gf's of mine have said basically the same things. What I'm curious about ..and always have been , is how do you or would u feel about watching or even participating w/a double bj or watching another girl suck a guys cock (whether it be a bf or just some ordinary guy)..would that turn you on as much or would u feel or get jealous w/the other girl there ? this has always and til my death will be a fantasy of mine, so I'm very interested in all females perspective on this :) ...lookin' forward to yours (and other adt fems ) response to this ..thanks.....James



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