It seems like anal sex is becoming mandatory in porn these days. This would be great and all, except that it seems that most of the time the women are either A) Simply tolerating the anal sex but not ejoying it, or B) In horrific pain.
If the female in the scene enjoys anal sex, and wants to do it, then great! But otherwise, I think they should just stick to straight vaginal sex. Do you agree?
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Many people will agree with you about this. Many others won't. As for me, I enjoy anal sex, but I would much rather see women who are enjoying themselves--if they're into anal sex then great, otherwise even just the pressure of having to do it can bring down an entire scene.
Speelie (another poster and reviewer here) is VERY like minded in this regard and can recommend a great many titles where anal sex plays a very small role, and the women give better performances for that very reason. I'm sure he will see this thread and respond accordingly. From what I've seen personally, the Killer Pussy series from New Sensations by Nacho Vidal is an outstanding example of this mentality. Read Speelie's reviews of the movies in this series and see what you think. He will also lead you in other directions to other directors with similar visions like Toni Ribas, and Franco Roccaforte.
Like I said, I really enjoy anal sex, but I'll gladly do without it in most cases if I feel they are doing it out of obligation rather than because they enjoy it.
First let me say I LOVE ANAL SEX. I prefer it to vaginal, and wish more vids had "straight to the A" as an option. However it would seem that many directors prefer that the girl not enjoy herself, that real pain is good, that anal is only good if it is taboo, and it can't be taboo if you enjoy it to much. I am waiting to be proven wrong but I have been prolific about my preference for anal sex. I have at least fingers shoved up my ass even when the scene doesn't call for it and I have trained my ass to handle the big boys in porn, who would tear my pussy from stem to stern. Yet I have yet to be penetrated by Evil Angel, Anabolic, Rosebud or Celestial Productions. Hell, I haven't even been in a continued line dedicated to anal. What is wrong with this picture? I am sick of everyone thinking that I am not hardcore. Sick of waiting to do my first double anal (hear that Skeeter, my first!!!!). My fantasies include a DP gangbang, using women with strap-ons to help fill in for the guys in the biz that can't get that close to another man. I have done my year or so of amature, I have gotten my feet wet in some features, now I want to get known, so damn it if you are a prolific producer of anal or preferably DPs my ass is yours. Kelly Steele www.KellySteele.com
MikeL summarized my views quite well. To add to what he wrote, I think Buttman was right a couple of years ago when he explained that, "pussies are bullshit." He meant this in the sense that actresses can easily fake pleasure in scenes when it is a matter of being vaginally penetrated. However, when something is in their ass, the reactions are more genuine, even if that reaction doesn't always involve pleasure.
For me, the answer to this is not to go the route of all anal, all the time (though this is fine in specifically anal themed movies), but instead to bring much better pussy fucking to the screen. The trouble is that this isn't easy to do, it requires men who can fuck well and turn on the actresses, actresses willing to put some energy into their performances, and directors to properly oversee these things. Essentially, it is easier to simply poke a girl in rear and watch her squirm.
Nacho Vidal, Toni Ribas, and some of their associates are able to arrouse their female partners, and this usually results in good scenes with girls who are having fun. And if those girls are in the mood for anal, the guys are happy to go there. For me, the final results in the Killer Pussy and related lines are a nice balance of orifice filling.
Seriously though, I'm not narrow-minded and can watch vaginal if it's hard and fast (Rocco or Lex do it well).
But what I don't like is to be disappointed by directors, who made their name from anal themed productions, filming too much vaginal only scenes.
Christophe Clark is a perfect director because even in his non-anal themed productions like 'Big Natural Tits' he still films a lot of anal but this footage is mainly used as extra footage on dvd for fans who wish to see it.
Speelie said: "...bring much better pussy fucking to the screen. The trouble is that this isn't easy to do, it requires men who can fuck well and turn on the actresses, actresses willing to put some energy into their performances, and directors to properly oversee these things." ------------------------------------------------------
You probably don't want to see good pussy-fucking. It would involve pubic contact and grinding, and wouldn't leave 4" of dick exposed to the camera at all times. Honestly, it isn't like there's only a rare man in a thousand that can fuck well!
Actually Lindi I am not a big fan of the penetration shots so that wouldn't bother me at all. I prefer the long shots that let me see if the woman is enjoying herself or not. So yes I would like to see some "real fucking".
Welcome to the forum. I agree with you, but porn seems to have gotten away from what's pleasurable for the female.
Anal, anal, anal, that's all you hear about anymore. Some threads are started by guys who are 'bored by vaginal sex' and can't enjoy anything unless it's anal. Personally, that would frighten me and I would take that as a sign that maybe it's time to cut back on the porn, but whatever. I can't help but wonder what's going to happen when they become bored with anal too.
I've been ranting about this for some time now. Not that I'd like to see anal banned or anything like that, but it seems to have overtaken everything about porn, and I can't relate to it. I mean, I know how pleasurable my pussy feels, but seeing anal just makes me feel like I have to go to the bathroom.
This is also starting to have an effect in real life. I've just had another relationship flushed down the toilet because of this very issue. Porn has made guys obsessed about anal sex, and it's no longer about female pleasure. It's all about Slot A or B.
I think good pussy fucking could work very well in the context of a well-produced couple's movie done from a woman's perspective. This is the kind of movie made by Candida Royalle (excuse the possible misspelling of her name).
In response to the original inquiry, I'm ambivalent about it. On the one hand, I really prefer that the women genuinely enjoy anal sex (I say "prefer" not "require"), but on the other hand, I cringe at the thought of all of the anal scenes I've enjoyed that never would have been shot if women genuinely enjoying anal sex was a prerequisite of the producers and directors.
I truly appreciate it when a female porn star who dislikes (or even hates) anal, will nonetheless agree to do just one anal scene for the benefit of her fans who really want to see her do anal. If that one anal scene is well-shot and edited, it can be priceless. There have been a great many porn queens who've done this (sadly, one of my all-time favorites, April Flowers, has not).
Pontus
Edited by - Pontus Maximus on 12/29/2002 4:37:24 PM
Dumblonde raises the interesting issue of what will happen when anal becomes boring to these guys.
I've been meaning to start a thread on Sex Talk about the narrowing of erotic response, the limiting of oneself to a very small range of things that one finds arousing.
It would seem to be in one's best interest to expand one's sexual interests by exploring, enjoying and being turned-on by a wider variety of things. ---------------------------------------------------------- edited after resposes by Hardware and rjk13, to clarify - dumblonde was refering to guys who are "bored by vaginal sex," and that was who I meant, as well. ----------------------------------------------------------
Welcome LuanaLani! I would suggest that women in porn can be classified as either performers or actresses. The performers are incapable of emoting for the camera and should not be asked to do what they don't enjoy. Unfortunately money, desire for recognition and peer pressure can all make them try something that really isn't for them. I don't know how you can prevent that. Actresses, on the other hand, are paid to emote. That doesn't equate to a requirement to perform anal sex, but, given that they are willing and that the physical aspects of the act are taken care of, they should be able to give a convincing performance.
DB & Lindi, I've been watching porn for over a decade and I'm not bored with watching anal sex yet. But then, I'm interested in the woman, not just the sex act. Despite the fact that I enjoy watching anal sex I don't find it particularly exciting in real life. Not saying I won't do it, but if she wants to go beyond anal foreplay she's going to have to ask for it.
I bring up these points to show, yet again, that it's very risky trying to generalize about sexual behavior.
I've been watching anal sex for 30 years and I'm not bored with it either. Never had an urge to do it in real life. Never could understand why a woman would want to do it. But the fantasy is sure powerful.
I think guys are always in general going to prefer nasty sex. But my porn store is still full of romantic type sex movies. Watched Sunset Stripped last night, mostly to see Ginger Lynn, that had some romantic scenes. Must admit it bored the heck out of me. My mind kept drifting off to the latest Ashley Blue scene.
But I still enjoy watching vaginal sex as well. A girl in mish in full view with the guy pounding her, and she getting off on it, still turns me on. And I love the girl on top, in cowgirl, with a beautiful bubble butt, inviting butthole in full view.
Or in reverse cowgirl, with the girl riding at top speed. Even best for me is the cowgirl squat, they never do that enough.
I wish!! Ok, perhaps I'm wired differently than most women but the only thing I really want poked in my pussy is a tounge. Except when I'm in the middle of a DP, then any cock will do.Anal sex for me is more pleasureable. My bathroom urges are followed by the battering of my bladder by the long dicks in porn. So when I think about it, I really only want a log dipped in my beaver to make it wet, so I can feel the wood damming up my rear. I know I'm different, but I can't be the only woman who really gets off on anal.Honey, sexual compatibility is very important in a relationship. If anal sex is something you don't want to experience, than why try to be with a guy obsessed with it. If on the other hand he is a kinky Mr. Perfect, you might want to relax a little about the issue, anal orgasms are completely different and much more intense that vag ones, so it can still be about female pleasure if you let it.
