very important question

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kicker_f1 Member USA 436 Posts 7/04	Posted - Jul 22 2005 : 10:07PM I had a girlfriend in the past who wouldn't eat or let me cum on her face. If I remenber correctly she would oblige me to kiss her with my cum on her mouth was the only way she would let me cum in her mouth. Therefore, I was hesitant and never got to cum on her face coz well I don't know maybe tasting your own cum wouldn't that bad as of tasting somebody else cum but still cum is cum and that's like crossing the line. What do you guys think? Did I treat her right? because one time during sex I got some cum on my hand and inserted my fingers in her mouth and she all of sudden tried to kiss me and I turned my head, you looked angry at me afterward. [Link]
Hardware All-Star Member Your other left 14594 Posts 3/02	Posted - Jul 22 2005 : 10:19PM There's an old saying - what's good for the goose is good for the gander. You didn't treat her as an equal and, since she's an ex, it seems safe to say there's your proof you didn't treat her right by her lights, which is what matters. [Link]
VincentVanGauge Former Fucking Virgin Paying trib-ute to SinncentVanSage 1412 Posts 12/04	Posted - Jul 22 2005 : 10:56PM If tasting cum, even your own, is crossing the line, then touching a dick, even your own, is also crossing the line. So if you have masturbated at least once in your life you're already as gay as someone who swallows his own cum. So I'd say keep your cum away from her face completely or do what you like and then let her do what she likes. I'd give a lot for a girl who takes it in her mouth for such a low price. (Actually the price is so low that I even pay it just for fun sometimes. ) Okay, when it comes to members, to have is as important as to be. [Link]
CG_Gurl80 Member Sexy Bitches 486 Posts 1/05	Posted - Jul 23 2005 : 1:59AM Don't expect a girl to enjoy your cum if you shy away from it yourself. This one isn't very complicated. Trying to do something that your girl isn't into and then making it seem like you are disgusted by it yourself is not going to win you any points. A lot of girls don't mind a little cum play (myself included ) but there are even more who aren't totally comfortable with tasting or getting it on their face. If a guy wanted to cum on my face or get me to swallow his load, he better be willing to kiss me afterwards and not treat me like a weirdo. The last guy I was with totally loved it when I swallowed for him and made an effort to kiss me and treat me well as a reward for my good deed. As a result, I ended up swallowing a whole lot more cum. [Link]
stroker_tex Member Houston, TX 8 Posts 5/05	Posted - Jul 23 2005 : 2:18AM Well if you won't even swallow your own cum how can you expect someone else to? And who knows, if it turns her on maybe you'd enjoy it too? [Link]

kicker_f1 Member USA 436 Posts 7/04	Posted - Jul 23 2005 : 9:51PM VincentVanGauge, touching your dick is not the same as tasting your own cum. Believe me on that one. I'd like to think of it like some stuff were meant for others and cum by no intention was created for males to taste. Females are females and males are males, we like different things and cum is not one of my likes however if a girl loves me she's gotta at least try to eat some of the fruit of our loins, don't you think? I'm more than willing to kiss her after she has swallow it all and not left over are present on your mouth though. Like I said some things are meant for others. I'll give you another example: boxing is a guys sport and not girls. CG_Gurl80, thanks for sharing the last line on your reply. You're a funny girl :) I love it! Stroker_tex, how in the hell a guy "in his right mind" can even "enjoy" swallowing cum? by the way swallowing and tasting are different actions. [Link]
YogaDame All-Star Member bien dans ma peau 198 Posts 7/05	Posted - Jul 23 2005 : 10:59PM YogaDame scurries off to meditate. "Think calm waters, think calm waters..." [Link]
Joey Starr Senior Member Still wanking after all these years. 8082 Posts 10/00	Posted - Jul 23 2005 : 11:06PM Joey's advice : Let her fuck you in the ass with a strapon then piss in your mouth, and all will be forgiven! [Link]
Joey Starr Senior Member Still wanking after all these years. 8082 Posts 10/00	Posted - Jul 23 2005 : 11:07PM Joey Starr, ADT's favourite agony aunt! Edited by - Joey Starr on 7/23/2005 11:08:09 PM [Link]
Joey Starr Senior Member Still wanking after all these years. 8082 Posts 10/00	Posted - Jul 23 2005 : 11:08PM I wish! [Link]
Hardware All-Star Member Your other left 14594 Posts 3/02	Posted - Jul 24 2005 : 12:15AM kicker_f1 wrote: I'd like to think of it like some stuff were meant for others and cum by no intention was created for males to taste. Females are females and males are males, we like different things and cum is not one of my likes however if a girl loves me she's gotta at least try to eat some of the fruit of our loins, don't you think? I'm more than willing to kiss her after she has swallow it all and not left over are present on your mouth though. Like I said some things are meant for others. I'll give you another example: boxing is a guys sport and not girls. Click to expand An adherent of Patriarchal religion, are you? Otherwise, I'm not sure what belief system dictates that some 'stuff were (sic) meant for others.' As I've mentioned before, evolution just doesn't give a damn. More on topic, if you won't give her what she wants then don't expect to get everything you want - expect to settle for a compromise. Seems rather simple, really. Regarding your example, you might want to go a few rounds with Laila Ali, the professional boxer, before you decide whether boxing is just a guys sport. Yeah, you've heard the name before - Mohammad Ali's her father. Pretty much the only work that's "women only" is having babies, and I, for one, am damn glad to let them do it. [Link]
stroker_tex Member Houston, TX 8 Posts 5/05	Posted - Jul 24 2005 : 2:56AM Well technically women weren't "meant" to taste/swallow/gargle cum either. The fluid's purpose is not sustanance, you know. Anyway, I agree with hardware...looks like you should settle in for a compromise should something like this arise again. [Link]
croy Platinum Member Discovry 4574 Posts 3/04	Posted - Jul 24 2005 : 4:20AM kicker_f1, if you are going to act like sperm is a deadly neurotoxin, should you expect your girlfriend to act different? [Link]
VincentVanGauge Former Fucking Virgin Paying trib-ute to SinncentVanSage 1412 Posts 12/04	Posted - Jul 24 2005 : 10:55AM kicker_f1 wrote: VincentVanGauge, touching your dick is not the same as tasting your own cum. Believe me on that one. Click to expand I know it's not the same, that's why we call one action "touching your dick" and the other "tasting your own cum". What I meant is that these actions have the same gayness factor. Doing these things and nothing more doesn't make you worthy of GaySatyr's harem, believe me on that one. My favourite thong-wearing citizen said it best, I'd say: Loraine said: “Why are deeply het men so afraid and of what? If you're so certain and comfortable with the limits of your own sexuality, surely you have nothing to fear by witnessing any show of affection between men or ‘bi-activity.’ What's the worst thing that can happen?” Click to expand The same goes for swallowing cum. It doesn't make you gay. I can understand if you just don't like the taste of it. If that is the problem then please remember that your girlfriend's taste buds are made of the same material as yours. Like I said some things are meant for others. I'll give you another example: boxing is a guys sport and not girls. Click to expand And sex is meant to be desired by guys only while girls just get off on the fact that they are sexually desirable, I know that. Though I don't believe in evolution I'm not very fond of most things that are "meant to be". If our heads were meant to be beaten up by glove-wearing braggadocians we would have been born with gumshields in our mouths. If men were really meant to piss while standing nature would have given them marksmanship. And if only meant-to-be-smokers smoked there would be no tobacco industry since the chimney-wearing population is still considered a marginal group. Or in other words: I'm not gay. Unless sarcasm is meant to be for gay men only. Hardware wrote: As I've mentioned before, evolution just doesn't give a damn. Click to expand That's why most people don't believe in evolution and in hell. I should stop calling well-meaning people provincial. [Link]
cv Member My reviews[/url] 594 Posts 7/03	Posted - Jul 24 2005 : 10:58AM VincentVanGauge wrote: The same goes for swallowing cum. It doesn't make you gay. Click to expand What? This is news to me. LOL, I love this bboard. [Link]

VincentVanGauge Former Fucking Virgin Paying trib-ute to SinncentVanSage 1412 Posts 12/04	Posted - Jul 24 2005 : 11:24AM Oh well, I was too lazy to add "your own" everytime I said "cum". And I love this board, too. I should stop calling well-meaning people provincial. [Link]
lindi Senior Member 12345 3205 Posts 9/02	Posted - Jul 24 2005 : 11:41AM If men were really meant to piss while standing nature would have given them marksmanship. And if only meant-to-be-smokers smoked there would be no tobacco industry since the chimney-wearing population is still considered a marginal group. Or in other words: I'm not gay. Click to expand Walter, Walter, where are you? I need to see this in a quote poll! [Link]
VincentVanGauge Former Fucking Virgin Paying trib-ute to SinncentVanSage 1412 Posts 12/04	Posted - Jul 25 2005 : 9:09PM lindi wrote: Walter, Walter, where are you? I need to see this in a quote poll! Click to expand Unfortunately, Walter doesn't read Sex Talk. Guess he thinks it's a booby trap. I'm such a booby! I should have posted that elsewhere but I guess I boobed again. Shy little me who wouldn't say boobies to a goose. I should stop calling well-meaning people provincial. [Link]
The Gemologist Member Isn't she cute? 217 Posts 2/05	Posted - Jul 28 2005 : 12:26AM I prefer for a girl to swallow my cum and not have to taste my own. I chow down on vagina and those juices are in my mouth and on my chin beard. It's all fair. It is not equal when a man and women swallow cum. There are different perceptions and gender role expectations for each person. LeChayim! [Link]
pussyluvme Deactivated User I love conquistador & wana fuck him in his ass 70 Posts 12/07	Posted - Dec 14 2007 : 11:08PM i think cumming on girls face's should be left to the porn stars i wish they would remove that part out of porn making a mess of those beautiful face's but what wood i no i'm not a scientist [Link]
Loraine Senior Member 1559 Posts 3/04	Posted - Dec 15 2007 : 8:27PM I miss at least half of the people in this thread. [Link]
Joey Starr Senior Member Still wanking after all these years. 8082 Posts 10/00	Posted - Dec 16 2007 : 4:53AM Do you miss me too? [Link]
kataboom master blaster ad astra per aspera 995 Posts 6/03	Posted - Dec 17 2007 : 11:02AM kicker_f1 wrote: I had a girlfriend in the past who wouldn't eat or let me cum on her face. If I remenber correctly she would oblige me to kiss her with my cum on her mouth was the only way she would let me cum in her mouth. Therefore, I was hesitant and never got to cum on her face coz well I don't know maybe tasting your own cum wouldn't that bad as of tasting somebody else cum but still cum is cum and that's like crossing the line. Click to expand you should test the boundaries better like a full cum shot right down the gullet. or rent the series cum dodgers for her & drop em off one day. i dont know, maybe it depends how much you are into her. if not so much, then end it immediately. [Link]
Redelrops Member 9 Posts 1/08	Posted - Jan 31 2008 : 2:36AM If a girl is willing to give you a blowjob then she should be willing to either swallow or let you cum on her face. I didn't even know there were still women out there afraid of cum. Who knew? [Link]
melpster Member 582 Posts 5/05	Posted - Jan 31 2008 : 7:58AM And apparently there are still some men out there who are afraid of it too. To each his own, I suppose. I prefer to have sex with a man who isn't going to pick up his skirts and run screaming from the room at the idea of kissing me with my mouth full of his very own body. [Link]

BigBobxxx Senior Member 2681 Posts 5/04	Posted - Jan 31 2008 : 8:26AM Cum on her face and kiss away. It's no big deal... It doesn't taste bad... It's yours... My prediction: The "forbidden" nature of it all will give you a stiffie the first few times you and your girlfriend tangle cum coated tongues. [Link]
threesomebody Official BlowBang Judge Would you like my autograph? 2491 Posts 12/04	Posted - Jan 31 2008 : 8:36AM Joey Starr wrote: Do you miss me too? Click to expand I do. [Link]
Gentleman Jon All-Star Member 1881 Posts 6/05	Posted - Jan 31 2008 : 10:10AM Joey Starr wrote: Do you miss me too? Click to expand Not especially. It was too funny to pass up. [Link]
Captain Cock Member NL 172 Posts 2/05	Posted - Jan 31 2008 : 11:02PM The Gemologist wrote: I prefer for a girl to swallow my cum and not have to taste my own. I chow down on vagina and those juices are in my mouth and on my chin beard. It's all fair. It is not equal when a man and women swallow cum. There are different perceptions and gender role expectations for each person. LeChayim! Click to expand Have to aggree with this one. I like going down on a woman, and in order to get it right, I often end up having my face covered in her juices. Why should she shy away from it? As Dutch comedian Hans Teeuwen would have said: 'ik bef met voorbedachte rade' ('I go down on her with ulterior motives', but I dont think it translates well :( ). [Link]
redhead Member Not so redhead these days... 718 Posts 1/08	Posted - Feb 11 2008 : 8:18PM CG_Gurl80 wrote: Don't expect a girl to enjoy your cum if you shy away from it yourself. Click to expand Exactly! [Link]
BustdownGal Member 539 Posts 7/06	Posted - Mar 15 2008 : 10:15PM kicker, I encourage you to print out this thread and let every woman you're involved with read it right before you first have sex. That way you won't have the same problem as with your last girlfriend! [Link]
ma meeshka Iconoclastic Member 3939 Posts 4/06	Posted - Mar 16 2008 : 7:00AM Joey Starr wrote: Joey's advice : Let her fuck you in the ass with a strapon then piss in your mouth, and all will be forgiven! Click to expand this is the best advice in this thread. [Link]
Joey Starr Senior Member Still wanking after all these years. 8082 Posts 10/00	Posted - Mar 16 2008 : 7:32AM Thank you. [Link]