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Ordell
Deactivated User

1042 Posts
6/05
Posted - Jan 30 2006 : 9:26PM
Damn, that's rough.

But 18 years of abuse? Would anyone stick around that long?

Edited by - ordell on Jan 30 2006

Eric381
Deactivated User

What are you looking at? It
2452 Posts
3/05
Posted - Jan 30 2006 : 10:23PM
That's a shame...suicide is one hell of a way to depart man.

Wasn't there something to the effect of her absence from AEE / AVN because her husband's medical problems? Were they seperated (not really any of our business, granted)? Could the former have been a reason for his untimely death?

~E

croy
Platinum Member

Discovry
4574 Posts
3/04
Posted - Jan 30 2006 : 10:37PM
There are books and articles on this. Some can no doubt be Googled.
Any reasonably complete answer would be at least the length of an article.

Suffice it to say that abuse has an emotional component on both sides and there is a certain amount of dependancy.

Mike Quasar
Zero Tolerance

Reluctant pornographer
1765 Posts
7/01
Posted - Jan 30 2006 : 11:47PM
Not to be callous or disrespectful, but from all that I've read and from my general impression of the man having met him on every occasion that I had the pleasure to shoot Vicki (he was never more than 2 feet away from her) I feel that he more than met the standard criteria for being a stereotypical abusive and controlling suitcase pimp.
myadultgroups
Deactivated User

Los Angeles
755 Posts
10/04
Posted - Jan 30 2006 : 11:48PM
On her mailing list, she said that Frank was hospitalized with kidney stones, plus her grandma in Norway had died.
 
Lance
Member

My Life Sucks
386 Posts
4/05
Posted - Jan 31 2006 : 12:40AM
Damn gotta be a rough go for a sweet girl. She was very kind to me and my wife. We wish her the best.

www.alexandrabelle.com / www.lance-strong.com

Dean Wormer
Senior Member

Fat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life, son.
1048 Posts
7/04
Posted - Jan 31 2006 : 4:27AM
I've been following this story for 2 days now. It just keeps getting weirder and weirder.

"The time has come for someone to put his foot down....and that foot is me."

modano
Member

316 Posts
12/05
Posted - Jan 31 2006 : 12:04PM
it says he beat her, so, excuse me for not feeling any pity for him.
Sheldon
Member

263 Posts
9/04
Posted - Jan 31 2006 : 12:31PM
He was a neo-Nazi - a member of the National Alliance Party.

Good riddance to bad rubbish. I wish they'd all just kill themselves.

JEWEL (imposter)
Jewel De'Nyle

736 Posts
1/06
Posted - Jan 31 2006 : 1:01PM
I'm glad she's rid of him he did nothing but destroy her inside and out. I shot her once for XXX Platinum Blondes and he was so controlling over her it made me sick. Goodbye and good reddens!!!
MikeSouth
Deactivated User

511 Posts
11/02
Posted - Jan 31 2006 : 2:58PM

As I said when I broke the story...I hope this trend continues.

Fuck him.

Frank is dead. Good.

pornmonger2
Member

19 Posts
12/05
Posted - Jan 31 2006 : 4:06PM
I can care less that he's part of a neo-nazi white supremacist group. Most of those groups and its members are useless and do no harm.

What bugs me is that he beat her to a pulp all the while pimping her to the porn industry. I do commend him that he isn't a total loser. He actually accomplished at kiling himself.

rc7394
Senior Member

1109 Posts
8/04
Posted - Jan 31 2006 : 5:52PM
18 years of abuse? She can't be anymore than 30-32 yrs. old! When did he meet her? When he was 10?

Anyway, I'm sorry.

Crucifixio_Jones
Senior Member

Arrogant & Obnoxious Narcissist
4727 Posts
10/03
Posted - Jan 31 2006 : 6:24PM
Actually, Vicky will be 41 on June 12 of this year.
skronker
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Scopophiliac
9780 Posts
9/02
Posted - Jan 31 2006 : 6:58PM
Lifetime movie of the week?
 
gypsy666
Member

99 Posts
8/05
Posted - Jan 31 2006 : 7:53PM
He said she was and he wasn't.
beefstrokinoff
Member

123 Posts
2/05
Posted - Jan 31 2006 : 9:25PM
Tricia Devereaux should be able to answer this, but was her husband there during the commentary you guys did for Vault of Whores? I seem to remember another man besides your co-director on the commentary, and I thought that it was her husband. Maybe I'm way off though.
Eric381
Deactivated User

What are you looking at? It
2452 Posts
3/05
Posted - Feb 1 2006 : 11:30AM
That caught me by surprise as well, she looks pretty goddam good for her age (although the initial respondant told me she was now 48, which I found hard to believe).

~E

Crazy88
New Member

2 Posts
12/05
Posted - Feb 2 2006 : 12:09AM
The National Alliance kicks ass.
tricia_devereaux
Evil Angel DVD

Patience is a virtue, but who wants to be virtuous?
4283 Posts
4/00
Posted - Feb 2 2006 : 1:56AM
beef - no, the 2 guys were David, and Jim Crawford (the production manager)
why would we have Frank on the commentary, but not Vicky?
Sheldon
Member

263 Posts
9/04
Posted - Feb 2 2006 : 6:42AM
He beat the crap out of her over the years - so why should anybody believe him?
Anthony_K
Member

Lafayette. LA
12 Posts
9/04
Posted - Feb 8 2006 : 12:26PM
Since I happen to be a member of Vicky's site and forum, I can add some perspective and halt some nasty rumors that have been going around the adult blogosphere.

1) Vicky is NOT a member of the National Alliance, nor has she ever been one. That was a falsehood spread by Frank during his last days as a means probably of revenge for their split. And the fact that she has performed with people of color both in her private swinger life and her public porn career should bury this vicious rumor once and for all. (If she was that racist, would she have performed with Nina Hartley, or arranged a scene for her (now in hiatus) MILF Queen.com site featuring Nina and Tyler Knight (who, BTW, is a Black male)???

2) The fact that she remained with Frank through all the violence for so long should be no demerit on her part; they had as many good moments as they had bad, and perhaps she belived that he would seek help for his personal issues. Frank should be held totally accountable for his actions, but in the end, he was still a human being with issues that he couldn't ultimately resolve. Never confuse a woman's love with weakness.

3) I have seen on some other adult message boards (this means you, XXXPornTalk.com;thankfully not this one) some of the most vile and venal personal attacks on Vicky for her actions; and it pisses me off to no end. I think that some people seem to have forgotten that she, like any other woman who performs sex on screen, is still a full and complete human being with feelings and ethics, not just some personal sex toy hologram to be used and disposed of. Just because you are entitled to state your opinion in a message board doesn't give you the right to degrade and dehumanize her.

4) Finally..the fact that Vicky has decided to go on with her dance tour after all this means absolutely NOTHING but the fact that she has ended her mourning and wants to move on with her life and career. Rather than question her motives, why not just respect her right to mourn as she wishes??

Bottom line: It is not our business to lecture Vicky on how she should live her life, since she is mature enough to do that all her own. We may never know what caused Frank to snap or to abuse her for so long..but with his passing, that story has now ended, and unless Vicky decides to share her personal story in a more public matter. I suggest that we let it go and move on, as Vicky obviously has.

My own opinion, and nobody else's.

Anthony

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Edited by - Anthony_K on 2/8/2006 12:52:14 PM

Anthony_K
Member

Lafayette. LA
12 Posts
9/04
Posted - Feb 8 2006 : 12:54PM
loverboy
Member

64 Posts
7/05
Posted - Feb 8 2006 : 2:07PM
I was watching Vicky in a scene just this morning and was thinking how hot she looked. Sorry to hear about her personal problems. Her husband sounded like a real loser. Hope she gets over this rough time ok.
pauloh
Deactivated User

9 Posts
11/05
Posted - Feb 9 2006 : 6:41AM
And yet you believe the allegations against him. Do we have reliable, independant (ie not her publicist) corroboration of either side? If not then this is just Bridget vs Skeeter all over again, except this guy can't defend himself anymore.
 
dalipshandil
Deactivated User

INDIA
47 Posts
1/06
Posted - Feb 13 2006 : 3:42AM
I absolutely agree with you Dean Worm(h)er.Somebody has got to put his foot down just as well it was you else it would have been mine.Why the fucks can't people l;eave the dead alone.You keep fucking their hole when they're alive atleast leave their poor souls to rest in peace.Is that asking for too bloody much?

Who the creeps gives people to stand in judgement against someone is dead and done away with huh? Atleast give the guy some respite in death when he can no longer defend himself. Whatever were the problems they had in marriage and led him to beat the shit out of Vicky Vette.Assuming he did beat her(ever in public?)blue and black he wud have had reasons for it else a pimp(u said it not me)wud never trample on his golden goose while she was laying the eggs for him by getting laid on camera.

So let his soul not rot just because he lived on Vicky's hole.Enough is indeed enough.If Vicky was so battered she cud have left the guy or else it shud have been her putting an end to the seedy and sordid existence and not him ending his own life? Let's not make it any murkier than it already was.O.k. huh?

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