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| kingdarius Deactivated User President of the IDGAF Coalition 3288 Posts 2/10 | |
| siripornstar Member 199 Posts 6/12 | |
| GroberSpass Member 330 Posts 3/07 | |
| siripornstar Member 199 Posts 6/12 | It's important if, when reviewing my scenes, fans realize that blanket statements such as "your scene with Lex was really boring" can hurt me and my career in ways you might not anticipate. The negative comments on this thread about the scene have revealed that any dislike of the scene has to do with Lex's age and that he doesn't perform the way he did 10 years ago. Well, that has nothing to do with me and my performance. And for the record, I LOVED the scene I shot with Lex. I enjoyed myself. I wish that were enough for you guys to all enjoy the scene, too. I don't have a time machine. If the only reason you didn't LOVE the scene is because you think Lex should have fucked me harder, the way his 30-year-old self would have, then going around saying "Siri's first IR with lex was boring" is not going to change anything. Sorry. In fact, it's going to make OTHER directors think twice before hiring me for THEIR IR movies, because they heard fans say bad things about my first IR scene. Fan feedback matters a lot. It matters more than you think it does. So please only say things you REALLY mean when reviewing a scene - and even better, give specific ideas for what could have made the scene better in your opinion. If you actually want to see me perform in more (and better, to your taste) IR scenes, then it would be more helpful if, instead of criticizing what is already done and can't be undone, you wrote encouraging things, requested me for scenes to other companies who shoot IR, or simply wrote about what your ideal scene with me in it would look like. AND your voice is more likely to be heard by actual producers and directors if instead of reviewing my scenes on my performer board, you write these things on Evil Angel's or Lex's Director board, for example. Edited by - siripornstar on 1/5/2014 6:07:25 PM Edited by - siripornstar on 1/5/2014 6:08:13 PM |
| whatsatelephonebill Senior Member 2935 Posts 10/11 | |
| Goldstein All-Star Member "You have sacrificed nothing and no one." 3689 Posts 8/10 |
(IR, anal, gangbang and DAP fans, in particular, from my observations.) But, you're right, posting bitchy criticism -- particularly when it's not even really about you -- helps no one. FWIW, I think that what Lex says about you to his fellow directors and studios will matter far more than a few disgruntled fans. Also, unless the people doing the hiring decisions are living on another planet, they ought to be aware that you are rapidly -- rapidly! -- becoming a very strong fan favorite! Glad you enjoyed yourself with Lex. My impression has always been that he treats the girls with respect, and comports himself (onscreen, at least) as a real gentleman. Hope you do a scene with Mandingo, as well, if you are looking to add more IR work to your credits. Keep working the red hair ![]() |
| fanman44 Deactivated User 474 Posts 1/13 | |
| prisma342000 Member 773 Posts 7/06 | |
| ladd3rfr3ak Member Gia Itzel is love 383 Posts 12/13 |
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| LeeKingsboro Deactivated User Best For Business 526 Posts 11/13 | |
| siripornstar Member 199 Posts 6/12 | I've come to the decision to leave this forum. Many of you who post here on my own performer thread are really nice and I've enjoyed hearing your feedback and input. But despite the positive aspects of ADT, it's become evident that the majority of posts about me on other threads are not kind and respectful. In recent months, I’ve found that many of my posts result in other users making snide or nasty comments. It is no longer a rewarding experience to devote time each day to posting on ADT. To those of you who have appreciated my interaction with you, thank you. To those of you who do not like the way I entertain you on film and insist on being mean-spirited, you’ve succeeded in chasing me away. -Siri ETA: The above post was posted after I last checked ADT and before I clicked the "post" button on this post. My decision to leave has nothing to do with the above post- I had already decided before I'd seen it. My decision is also not related to the one reviewer who commented about my scene with Lex in another thread, as has been speculated about. As stated above, I just don't find it rewarding to spend time posting here anymore. Please respect my decision and refrain from personally attacking me. Those of you who can't stop yourselves from personally attacking me because of my decision to leave: you've merely proven my point. Edited by - siripornstar on 1/8/2014 2:37:21 PM |
| LeeKingsboro Deactivated User Best For Business 526 Posts 11/13 | |
| ladd3rfr3ak Member Gia Itzel is love 383 Posts 12/13 | |
| LeeKingsboro Deactivated User Best For Business 526 Posts 11/13 | |
| pervybrit50 Deactivated User 473 Posts 11/13 | |
| JackSparrow Deactivated User 7235 Posts 7/11 | |
| coming soon Senior Member 1705 Posts 2/11 | Look, I understand that many people use that thread to find news, and I accept the premise, but the more you complain about others not abiding by that premise, the further you get from your premise. That is, complaining about being off topic is off topic too. This obvious fact seems invisible to those who don't realize the contradiction between wanting every single post of that thread to be first anal news and complaining every single time one posts something else in such a vehement way. In the meantime, Siri appears and announces that she hopes to do a first anal scene this year, as a new year wish (and hell, this is the time for it!). But no, instead of a relaxed atmosphere, a bunch of people spoil the fun by promoting the absurdity noted in the above paragraph and complain that Siri was off topic! Ok, let me check: is this a 9-5 job or a porn forum? Oh, I see, it's the latter. Then what the hell is going on? It's a shame. I totally understand Siri. |
| ladd3rfr3ak Member Gia Itzel is love 383 Posts 12/13 | |
| Skinmeister Member 447 Posts 4/13 | |
| scope21 Deactivated User Only Big Booty will do!! 6253 Posts 12/13 | |
| LeeKingsboro Deactivated User Best For Business 526 Posts 11/13 | |
| TairyHesticles Member 809 Posts 6/13 | |
| pervybrit50 Deactivated User 473 Posts 11/13 | |
| Dexter76 Member 241 Posts 12/13 |
It is after all, her choice. If people like you kept posting negative stuff about her, why should she sit there and take it? At least now she doesn't need to read it and can get on with her life without people giving her shit. |
| PornoSmurf Senior Member 1190 Posts 12/13 | So in terms of growing your fan base Siri I think leaving ADT is a bad idea. We all have our decisions to make though and I wish you all of the best either way. |
| LeeKingsboro Deactivated User Best For Business 526 Posts 11/13 | I believe she's accepted that, that's why she left and didn't want to get told off anymore. It is after all, her choice. If people like you kept posting negative stuff about her, why should she sit there and take it? At least now she doesn't need to read it and can get on with her life without people giving her shit. [/quote] ^ Awwwwwwwww |
| WackPosteIntolerant Member French Royalty 154 Posts 1/12 | |
| LeeKingsboro Deactivated User Best For Business 526 Posts 11/13 | |
| WackPosteIntolerant Member French Royalty 154 Posts 1/12 |
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| LeeKingsboro Deactivated User Best For Business 526 Posts 11/13 | |
| WackPosteIntolerant Member French Royalty 154 Posts 1/12 | |
| LeeKingsboro Deactivated User Best For Business 526 Posts 11/13 | |
| thatonebigdude Member 19 Posts 10/09 | If Siri can't take a mildly critical view of her vaunted first IR on the internet, how can she take a director giving her a critical assessment on set or after the scene is edited, in person? She is thinskinned, period, if she lets the words of a vanishingly small few people drive her away from her legions of fans here. It's not the critic's fault. It's only partially her fault, for being so sensitive to views that don't align with her own. It's YOU, the sycophantic worshiping fans who refuse to acknowledge faults, who shoulder most of the blame. You insulated her from her critics. You shout down anyone with a different viewpoint. You swarm to her defense, as if she needs you to ride in on a white horse and do battle for her. It gives her an inflated view of herself in the eyes of the fans, and when someone comes along who dares to say otherwise, and can actually get through YOU to get to her, she runs. Siri is a grown ass woman, a performer whose work is available for public consumption and -YES- criticism. No other star is immune, why should she be? You guys talk shit about other performers constantly, vitriolic hateful words at that. I or another person can't say, "hey Siri, I wasn't that high on your latest scene" but some of you can call a performer with breast implants weird, ruined or deformed? You attack people for allegedly having butt implants; there's a whole damn thread about THAT, lol. These are personal assaults, but they're okay. Say anything, even something not personal, about the "busty goddess" you all seem to blindly adore that doesn't follow the party line, and get smacked down. Does that make ANY sense? Let her run. Good. If she can't take the small amount of bitter with the flood of sweet she gets here, LIKE DAMN NEAR EVERY OTHER PERFORMER WHO POSTS HERE SHE DOESN'T NEED TO BE HERE IN THE FIRST PLACE. |
| LeeKingsboro Deactivated User Best For Business 526 Posts 11/13 | |
| astroknight Questionable Moderator Tastes so good... 4187 Posts 11/99 | |
| LeeKingsboro Deactivated User Best For Business 526 Posts 11/13 | |
| birthofcool Member 175 Posts 3/09 | |
| H1gh Contra5t All-Star Member "My asshole just naturally opens up because that's what I want, I'm so horny for it" 8498 Posts 1/13 | |
| LeeKingsboro Deactivated User Best For Business 526 Posts 11/13 | |
| H1gh Contra5t All-Star Member "My asshole just naturally opens up because that's what I want, I'm so horny for it" 8498 Posts 1/13 | |
| LeeKingsboro Deactivated User Best For Business 526 Posts 11/13 | |
| moonlighters1985 Deactivated User 152 Posts 4/12 | And even the piracy issue on reddit AMA. I got a feeling that you let the negative thoughts a little too much from your posts. I could tell how strongly you feel about some of the issues from your posts. But please pick your battles. You are too popular(time wise) to waste your emotional energy on things you have no control of. We are not the brightest bunch around here and you could tell that easily whenever a IR discussion comes up. Don't let us upset you. |
| Quorrl Senior Member 2835 Posts 3/11 | |
| thatonebigdude Member 19 Posts 10/09 |
It boils down to this: some people are too thin skinned to accept any sort of criticism. If you put yourself out there in an attempt to entertain people, you have to willing to accept all flavors of feedback, be they positive or negative. I like Siri, she's my kind of porn star, and I support her by buying as much of her content as I can manage. She's sexy, I like to watch her do her thing on camera, and I have no problem praising her. Case in point: a few months back, I listed her in my top ten starlets of all time, made all the more impressive because of her relative newness. "Good" comments are okay. Apparently, as long as that's the extent of my public discourse on her, that's fine. The moment I or anyone else brings up a legitimate complaint or concern, it appears to be met with negative feedback not just by her but a legion of defenders. That's saddening to me, because we'll never see real growth from a starlet if they're never told what their weak areas are. Let me be clear, I mean real, constructive criticism, not vociferous hatred based more off the poster's insecurities than anything the performer may or may not have done. For example, she waited a little while to do her first IR. I'm okay with that. Some others clearly aren't. She hasn't done anal yet. I'm also okay with that. Others aren't. In both cases, people have gone out of their way, seemingly, to call her out on it, and in an extremely negative fashion. I can see having a problem with those posts. However, expressing sadness at a level headed criticism about her choice of co-star isn't an attack. It's a legit beef with a scene that was highly anticipated and I, ultimately, felt fell short of what it could have been. If she can't parse through the thickheaded comments and see the real critiques for what they are and keep moving forward, if she can't handle the notion that sometimes some "fans" are assholes, and instead of ignoring them she "regretfully" has to quit a forum, then she is too weakminded to be in the adult entertainment industry. Not everybody is going to like you all the time for everything you do. I would think this would be one of the earliest lessons a performer would learn. What's funny to me is this: as long as the posters on this forum are tongue wagging, wolf-calling, worshipful and starstruck, the performers eat it up. The second someone steps out of line and says something even mildly uncomfortable, the actresses get their backs up, and they have a swarm of goonish, mindless zombie fans ready to pounce on whoever the star designates as their target. I'm PM'd to death over this, with people saying all sorts of nasty stuff to me, as if I or my words had something to do with Siri leaving this forum. I praised, praised, praised, then I dared to look at something she presented with a less than positive eye. How dare I not tow the line and stay in lockstep with the rest of the beauty-blinded fans! You drove her away from us, thatonebigdude! I will NOT accept the fault for this. SHE chose to take what I said in a negative way, and SHE chose to let my words and the words of a few others run her off. Think about that: she hears good things about herself all day long on this site, and as soon as somebody dares to speak differently, it's "goodbye, cruel world". Fanboys, that's what she thinks about you. You're not I'm done with this site as far as posting is concerned. I'll go back to lurking and reading reviews, as my input -the "negative" input, anyway- isn't valued because I don't have H cups and take dick on camera. |
| H1gh Contra5t All-Star Member "My asshole just naturally opens up because that's what I want, I'm so horny for it" 8498 Posts 1/13 | |
| JB_X Deactivated User addled 1500 Posts 10/12 | Your comment that a performer who chooses to leave the forum is too thin skinned for the industry is ridiculous, though. How many veteran performers have done it already? If it's important to a performer's success that she interact with fans, twitter more than takes care of that. |
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| ladd3rfr3ak Member Gia Itzel is love 383 Posts 12/13 | |
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