right after having sex with my girl and right after ejaculation. I usually get the this feeling like I want to get her out of my bed as soon as possible. Its not my mind, it's more like my penis don't want her near me. sometimes she wants to cuddle right away and all I want is to sleep or take it easy for a few minutes. ..but of course after 15 minutes I'm ready to go again ..I read somewhere that this behavior is normal, I doubt it. have you ever felt like that?
As soon as you come, your testosterone drops like crazy. It is quite normal to fell turned off after sex, but I think your problem might be more than that.
My husband is more into cuddling afterward than I am. Which is probably me being more high-strung and thinking I have things to do, and him being more easygoing and relaxed, and happy to just stare at the ceiling with my head on his chest.
I'm not interested in cuddling after sex. I'm more likely to jump up and want to go DO something, or roll over and grab a book and fall asleep reading. A LOT of men I have known are much, much, more into cuddling and savoring the moment than I am.
I have a whole range of feelings right after intercourse. Sometimes I want to cuddle, sometimes I want to be alone. Sometimes I want to start having sex again right away, sometimes I want to grab a soda from the fridge. It all depends.
Lindi wrote:and Kimi wrote:These posts are really interesting to me, because my wife is less into cuddling after sex than I am. She also generally tends either to want to do something or to go to sleep. This behavior has bothered me over the years, but perhaps I've taken it personally when I shouldn't have.
I Hate condoms, I may be a little allergic, but as soon as the sex is over I usually want to wash, I rarely get to do this as it would probably be a little hurtful to go running out of the room right after I'm finished. I think polyurethane condoms are the answer. I only wish my girlfriend would go on the pill, or the shot.
It seems as if, at the ripe old age of 44, my education in women is just beginning. I thought I'd been awake at least half of that time; clearly, I was only sleepwalking.