I have an ex-girlfriend who is seriously considering trying to get into porn. One problem is she doesn't know how to go about getting her foot in the door with reputable people. She is a 24 year old BBW (Pretty big, but not enormous) with a great ass and face. I'd like some advice for her, preferably from people with some experience in the business. How to go about doing it, how much she would start out getting paid, how much she could possibly make if she was good and what other things should she expect if she started doing porn, including what type of things a new young BBW would be expected to do in the films. She can be pretty wild in bed, but I don't know if she's down for some of the circus act stuff. Thanks. Edited by - Freakdude28 on Apr 3 2011
I say you tell her to start fucking anyone anywhere so she can get more comfortable fucking strangers. Then have HER post some pics here so we can see what she looks like. She'll get more $$$ doing 2 on 1 or more type scenes. I love BBW porn so if she needs a big dick to get her ready just let me know and I'll hook up with her a few times to break that pussy in. What size are her breast? Does she deep throat or cum dodge?
Thedude. I think her breasts are double D's. She'll try to deep throat, but she can't do it well at all. Can't stand the taste of cum, but will take it on the face no problem. She has done anal with me about 20+ times so she's down for that, although alot of porn guys have much bigger dicks than me so that might be interesting, haha. If she made the decision to really do this I'm sure she would have no problem shooting with 2 guys. I know she's fantasized about that actually. And I'm assuming she would be willing to do IR because she had a couple black boyfriends before me. Edited by - Freakdude28 on 4/3/2011 3:13:41 PM
As long as she's ready to kiss the rest of her life good-bye, all she has to do is show up and take it. My advise would be to become an escort, that way, when you're bored and the money slows down, there isn't a recording of it stopping you from getting a job that doesn't involve fucking. Of course, that all depends on her future prospects. If she has no ambitions towards a serious career of any kind, porn is OKAY!
By the way, I changed the title of this topic to reflect the fact that she's a BBW. And a little more info on her sexually... She can be a little quirky, in that she will do anal and facials no problem (Epecially for money I'm sure). But one thing I told her she might have to relax about is the taste of pussy. I told her that (Just from my porn viewing experience) there would probably be times when she would have to suck a dick after its been in her pussy. Like when doing a threesome, and the guys trade positions. This is something she has never been ok with. Any time I fuck her, if I want to put my penis in her mouth any time that day I have to jump in the shower and wash up first. I am thinking she might have to get over that if she wants to do porn? What do you folks think?
^Good idea, changing the title. Mindee is our unofficial official resident BBW porn insider/performer/advisor; perhaps she will provide some insight on this topic. It has been discussed in recent threads that the producers of BBW porn have "different" ideas about what BBW fans want to see, so you needn't be too concerned about her quirks being a problem.
Thanks for your response. Yes, I read about that in the other thread. How producers think they don't really have a market for BBW's doing the really crazy stuff. And I told my friend/ex about that and about how things like her not swallowing may not be a major problem in BBW porn. I'd like to see that change though, lol. I would love to see a really cute BBW do a blowbang with swallowing, or something like that.
First, why does she want to get into porn? What's driving her in that direction? Go back and re-read Kimi's reply. Second, at 24 she really isn't that young. To be considered young, she needs to be 18 or 19, or look 18 or 19. That's not to say she can't be successful, but I don't think she'll be considered young talent, particularly based on the size you describe. As girls get into their late 20s without establishing a market/following, they can fall into tweeners - between young and MILF, particularly if she has average looks (see below). Third, how attractive is she? Is she going to be the cover girl on the DVD? Fourth, what's going to set her apart from the scores of girls that venture into porn everyday? Her cup size will open the BigBreast market and taking it up the butt opens the Anal market (a big market), but beyond that, what's she going to do because she doesn't deepthroat, doesn't like blowjobs, doesn't fit the teen market (probably the number one market), and there are more big girls than HWP ones. Try going to your local video store and looking at all the new releases on the shelves and look realistically how many of the DVDs shown there would be available for her to market herself.
Thanks for the response Rod. You're right, I guess 24 isn't young in the porn business. And actually, she does like blowjobs and licks balls. She's just not a big fan of cum in her mouth and has a pretty strong gag reflex. As for why she wants to get into porn, I think its about 80% for money and 20% cuz the idea kinda turns her on. And as for attractiveness, she has a prettier face than a large percentage of the BBW's I've seen. She needs to get her teeth whitened first though, and she would be the first one to tell you that. And I think her body is just what alot of BBW lovers are looking for. I guess the point of me posting this topic is because I'd like to get a good amount of information for her before she takes the leap. I think its a matter of her being sure this is what she wants to do, getting started and then deciding she likes it, or doesn't. Edited by - Freakdude28 on 4/4/2011 9:50:05 PM
Yeah, I read that topic. And I just read it again. Thats one of the reasons I thought maybe my ex had a chance. I see alot of BBW stuff without swallowing, etc. So I'm thinking a BBW who can't swallow wouldn't be that big of a deal. She still does anal, ball licking and facials, and would be willing to do group scenes.
^ I think the point of the other thread was those 'extreme' opportunities don't exist for BBWs because the niche is too small to support the extra cost of those productions. That means less work for those girls and therefore less opportunities. It doesn't matter if she's willing to do 5 guys because no producer is going to pay the extra cost/do the extra work required to do that kind of scene because it just means they'll make less money. Maybe Mindee and your ex can connect off-line to further understand the upside/downsides.
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Posted - Jul 4 2011 : 5:52AM
Quite frankly no one I knew has ever leart to swim just sitting at the edge of the river. If you're serious about learning swimming the first step is to plunge in..even from the shallow end if the deep end scares you. So if Ur babe really wants to carve a niche as a pornstar she needs to keep her inhibitions on the back burner and plunge in. As it is she is already 24 and isn't getting any younger so tell her to stop fussing over what she will not do and instead highlight what she actually loves doing..Once she starts signing the release orders then she can present a list of do's and dont's. Her teeth are the least of her problems as she can get them capped what she needs to work upon is the mental block she has about not wanting to do uite a few things. I suggest you let her know that the camera never lies and until u've been doing it for a long time faking it isn't too easy so if she is not comfortable doing something it is bound to show in her performance...provided she reaches so far. Let her get herself a showreel shot in pics and maybe a.v and start mailing it around.Unless you plan to be her business manager I suggest you let her do her own spade work rather than trail on her heels. It will make her feel comfortable and in control. SEX Is The Only Religion I Pursue Furiously & Am Willing To Die For It..Wid A Smile!!!"
She's already doing one thing right. Asking questions before she does anything. If some people are to be believed that's a hell of a lot more than some girls do. Obviously, you can't expect to do porn and never have it come back to haunt you. It may and it may not. Just depends on how much porn she does and how much exposure she gets. But she should just assume everyone she knows (or ever will) will find out and see everything she does. She may have already considered all of this but you have no idea (or maybe you do) how many spats we've had on this forum over whether or not the girls are naive when they go in. Anyone who asks me for advice here will get this advice. No one will accuse me of "grooming" a newbie for an unpleasant experience she didn't expect. And that's what she should expect. She should expect at least some of it to be quite unpleasant (aside from everyone she knows knowing she did porn). She will be dealing with people who are accustomed to being very candid (and probably sometimes rude) with women about sex and everything else. Apparently even some girls who seem to handle these things relatively well for a while have not been able to deal with it indefinitely. I'm not an insider so I don't know exactly what goes on when cameras aren't rolling but some of the stuff that goes on when they are is pretty shocking. She needs to (if she hasn't) watch a lot of porn (including some of the really extreme stuff like Facial Abuse) and be sure she she can handle herself. And since she trusts you to help her out, it wouldn't hurt for you to be there with her for emotional support if she needs you.
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