i am 6 inches long and 5 3/4 inches round and my girl has told me that she enjoys my penis more then her last boyfriend who was 8 inches long and 4 inches round.
i dont really believe her.
whats your opinions of which women prefer ,and to the ladies which penis would you prefer ?, the 8 and 4 inch or the 6 and 5 3/4 inch
Stop being so insecure. If she is being honest (and she may not like the same thing as the answers you get), then you are just tearing yourself up over nothing. If she is telling a white lie, then the most obvious reason is to keep you happy. Because she likes the relationship.
Croy's right. Plus, most women do prefer girth over length. I do. Did you know that the concentrated nerves inside the vagina only go up about 3-4 inches from the entrance? Also for many women, hitting the back wall of the vagina; the cervix is painful. It feels like getting bumped on the end of the nose. Ow. For some of us, it's just uncomfortable. For some of us, it feels great. Point is, length won't please every woman. Good, reasonable girth will.
Or she may be like those of us who don't like length OR girth. I just plain don't like a large object, living or otherwise, shoved in my lady bit. I just don't. I prefer a penis under 6" long and girth matters not at all. I can feel a pinky finger just as well and just as pleasurably as a standard issue penis. No, I'm not just saying this to make modestly endowed men feel good.
From what I have read (today, just now, do a Yahoo search on vagina nerve endings) the average vagina is only about 7 to 10 centimeters long and only about the outer 1/3 of it is very sensitive. Umm... that's like one and a half inches in. I'm pretty sure, as long as you're not suffering from a micropenis disorder, no matter what size your penis is you can probably accomplish that.
I was always commanded to pleasure multiple fun zones simultaneously, so cock alone would not do the job. Kinda gets you past that second-guessing stuff. Anything more than a mouthful is a waste anyway -- unless you are a porn star.
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Posted - Nov 19 2005 : 3:18AM
I agree that you should just believe what your girl tells you. eg. Manuel Ferrara's dick is only 7 inches long, but it's got a hell of a gerth... do you think Manuel has issues with his dick? (I doubt it)
I personally like a nice combination of the both, but that's just me... my best friend on the other hand, does not like to have sex with a guy with a big dick. We both however, enjoy any dick attatched to the person we care for, regardless of size.
Manuel's cock is only 7 inches? I would say atleast 8. It is very thick though. He has given me some of the best assgasms I've ever had.
Porn lover- If there is one thing that a woman hates more than a skinny dick, it's an insecure man. Just relax, love your woman and stop asking her about her ex's cocks. Do you really want her to reminisce about her ex's cocks anyway?
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Posted - Nov 19 2005 : 5:49AM
Hi Hillary... I know this nugget because whilst in Budapest last year, I was sure Steve Holmes' cock was super long, and he insisted it was only 9", I was shocked when infact it was. Then I decided to get the tape on Manu, and it was just over 7", but really thick.
I can add a unique perspective here: I've actually increased my girth substantially and my length modestly-and no question my lady notices the girth MUCH more than the length. 6" is enough, 6.5" (length) is really enough to please any woman-by this I mean you can hit the spot above the cervix which you likely cannot at a shorter length. I think it's called the "A-spot" maybe? Some girls really like it. Back to the issue-what others have said is true-most of the female nerve endings are in the first few inches, not on the cervix, or 5" in on the walls or something... In my experience-women like to feel "filled up", just as we like it tight-it's all quite logical. So that really means girth is more important. Girth is what makes them feel stretched and full. 6x5.75 is a very good size, especially on girth. 4" is quite skinny and frankly, if she's telling the truth there-he had a really weird looking and likely fragile dick. 4" is well below average girth (25% below). Just as your girth is well above average-so I believe her statement that she likes your shorter, but thicker dick better-I think most women would. I've had a penis that was 5.3" in girth, and I've had one that is 6.5" in girth (and I mean ON me, not in me :) and no question even a 1/2" of girth makes a HUGE difference to how it feels to a girl-you are almost 2" thicker than the ex, that's a crazy big difference-if you don't realize how big a difference, draw it out on paper (use a string, and then make the circles concentric to see how huge the difference is. The only part that is strange to me-is that generally girls don't even know about "girth", much less measure it. They all talk about length. The closest I've seen is girls describing it by showing a girlfriend with an "okay" symbol how big a guy was... but to know the actual inches? Seems a little rare to me. I'd MUCH rather have a very thick dick that felt meaty in her hands, weighty on her face, and stretchy on her cunt and ass than a skinny long dick that she probably can't even ride without fear of breaking the fucking thing-looks more like a straw than a dick lol.
Hmm i have same size as u if not even smaller girth and never had problem and neither spent my time asking girl stupid things in bed since the answer is then why was she with me then and not her ex and why was he ex and me present. Its like her asking me is she doing bj better or worse then ex *stupid*DUM*DUM*DUM* or are her tits bigger or smaller . Anybody can find something lacking since we aint perfect so i chose not to care but have fun!
Yup i m like 1/2 inch smaller in girth just checked yet never had problems <::::::::> ! Edited by - Rasko Markovic on 9/8/2011 7:27:08 AM
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Posted - Oct 10 2011 : 8:23AM
Now that's an interesting topic... Well I am not a woman but from my personal sexual experience I can state that in terms of normal vaginal intercourse most girls prefer girth instead of length, still there are many exceptions and considerable limitations. The physical anatomy of the woman's vagina support the prementioned statement, as very fine Pagoda commented and yes from my knowledge generally women love to be filled by meaty cocks as seedfeeder also wrote, but be careful they like to be filled, not to be stretched, the latter can be proved quite painful for them. In the end I think that it all has to do with the proportions of a woman's vagina. Most ladies vagina can endure quite a... load... inside them, still there are women who have very narrow pussy (yummy!) and they feel more comfortable with a slight longer male member than a very fat one. Now generally I think what most women like as the matter of penis dimensions.. is an adequate size rock-solid banana-shape cock which attends proud and glorious before them, not too long to cause them troubles, not to short to use glasses to see it, not too fat to be unable to stand erect, not too thin to use a nipper to hold it. As for insecurity my friend porn lover... I would say that Women are a lot more complicated creatures than us men. I can assure you that for females, in bed there are factors that count a lot more than the size of our dick (well, I am talking about at least normal size) so if you really want to be a real lover I would advice you to concentrate on them more... the crazy Greek guy knows...(whistling)
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Posted - Oct 10 2011 : 8:45AM
hmm I forgot to mention that in the issue of anal penetration I would be brave to declare that thinner and longer dicks are quite more efficient than fatter ones.. and thats because.. first women dont have cervix in their bottoms and secondly they have many muscles that hurt a lot when they stretch. This is also obvious in porn where most anal committing actresses would feel a lot more comfortable having .. Valentino's long dick, rather than Shorty Mac's beer can size cock inside their colon. Except of course Ava Devine, Sasha, old Milla or similar ladies who have quite elastic anuses.. and they wouldnt have big problem to put Shorty Mac along with his beer inside too (no offense ladies)...
Pagoda has is right on the money. For me it feels great when a guy, "bottoms out" but truthfully it doesnt take a 10" cock to do it. I'd go for the girth too..
I am not bragging but I have a pretty thick cock. I'm not very long but I more than make up for it with my girth. I will tell you that I have NEVER had an issue with causing a girl to have pain - even the smallest and tighest. If a man has a lot of girth it just means that they need to take their time and be sure that the woman is satisfactorily excited and lubed. It means that you need to spend a lot of time in giving your woman oral sex. I have become very skilled with oral sex because I spend a lot of time giving it to make sure that my partner is ready to go. She enjoys it and I enjoy it and it really makes the sex a rockin' experience. If a girl is adequately prepped, they should have very little problem with handling a lot of girth. I am not anywhere near the range of the shorty Mac guy or whatever his name is but am more in the same class as Billy Glide and, again, I've never had an issue.
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Posted - Oct 12 2011 : 3:11PM
Most surveys I've read indicate that girth is more important.