As a girl, there are some things which turn me off big time. - I hate Guys who look like they were just released from prison. - I hate Guys who have tattoos, piercing or too much gorilla hair. - I hate Guys who don't keep and portray a very good hygiene. - I hate Guys who are so drugged that they are unable to ejaculate on demand. I have noticed that men in most porn nowadays are just artificial machines with big instruments. There is no feeling in what they do and that turns me off. Male performers nowadays are very often too mechanical and take too many performance-enhancing-medications, that's why it takes them forever before they can actually orgasm thus making the sex scenes way too long!! And blowjob scenes seem to take ages!! However I still believe that Gonzo is still better and less artificial than feature-movies where the director and the porn performers want to play Sydney Pollack and Meryl Streep and then it looks very stupid. Edited by - laura on Aug 22 2007
I don't do drugs, don't even drink, I have no tattoos, no extra holes in my body, my hygiene has always been great, well, except for the time I was going through a punk phase, and I never been to prison, so I don't know how to look like I was just released. I'm also working out and getting my body toned up, for health, personal and other reasons. I've thought about doing porn, but the disease factor keeps me from really wanting to pursue it. I don't want or need warts in uncomfortable places, nor do I want any form of herpes, or the other big killers in my body. Nor do I want to be the third man in gangbang, getting sloppy thirds after two dirty, hairy, fucks go first. Call me crazy, but I also don't want to navigate through previously and extensively charted territoy. "When they're runnin' down my country, man, they're walkin' on the fightin' side of me."
It's up to the director to get passion into a scene. Something as simple as kissing can help in this respect. It's up to the editing team to cut down the length of a scene. Blame them if you see a guy jacking off for too long or a blowjob lasting 20 minutes. As a man i find the following a complete turn off. - Girls with spotty asses - Saggy or droopy tits with absolutely no shape - Virtual rectal prolapse (seen in older women movies) - Too many moles (especially those near the anus which can be mistaken for shit!)
I agree with most of your points but the funny thing about this one is that drugs might actually help in that category. When I used to smoke weed, I was constantly horny and could cum several times a day. Now that I don't use any drugs, once a day, if that. Can't speak for all drugs though. Weed was the only thing I ever used. I guess it might depend on how high they are, too. The worst thing about a drug like weed is that when you quit, you realize how drab the world really is and how pointless everything is without some happy medicine. Edited by - randomprecision on 8/22/2007 1:21:15 PM
My point is that I think girls who watch porn are awesome. I haven't met many that like/watch porn and the ones that do hated BJ scenes. Are we on the same page now? The times, they are a changin'.
Most girls watch porn and even like blowjobs but the majority do their best not to say so to guys because most guys are like: you watch porn then you're a slut. Many guys like to stamp people like this is a hooker, this is a tramp, this is a slut etc... I think respecting that girls can also like porn and sex will eventually lead to more openness from our side towards you guys in general.
You are right, Laura. "Grown up" with dutch and danish porn, where fucking scenes werent going over 10 minutes are very rare, it was astonishing for me to see, that men can "stand" so long in US porn. And it was boring too. In some US porn movies, the fucking scenes are just toooooooo long. And nobody is cumming in "advance". This is not only unrealistic, but also very mechanic. What is so bad, if a man comes 2 times, and very fast, just when the scene starts ? On one point I disagree strongly, I prefer feature movies, almost all of the women I know, who are watching porn, prefer feature movies. They dont have to be artificial, sex can be much more authentic than the "gonzos".
1. Laura: "I think respecting that girls can also like porn and sex will eventually lead to more openness from our side towards you guys in general." plus 100,000 2. I have wood just from reading Laura and caroline's posts…
I hate the guys who have just been released from prison even more than those who merely look like it. I am not bothered by tattoos or piercings. It's all about how well they can fuck. If I want to see pretty boys doing nothing but looking pretty, I'd give up porn and subscribe to Playgirl.
That's funny because tattoos are actually pretty expensive. Especially if they have a lot of intricate detail and you have them done by someone who really knows what they're doing. If they're good at it and it takes a lot of time, they're not going to sit there and work on you for hours for free. I personally don't like tattoos on women but they can sometimes be nice when they're really well done. Most of the nicest people I've known have had tats (I don't). I don't think it's fair to judge based on that. Edited by - randomprecision on 8/22/2007 10:26:09 PM
Of course, I know you are a girl, but as a straight guy that loves my porn, I'm not watching it for the guys. It could be the headless horseman for all I care. In fact that would be preferable. I am a little interested what you think of the girls! @BIGmike: I'm disappointed that you won't be pursuing a porn career.
@veronica moser wrote: "I have wood just from reading Laura and caroline's posts…" Mr.Woodworker, then please dont react so strange, when a woman is browsing porn dvds in a sex shop. When I was in the US, the male customers and the male clerk ( I was the only woman there always ) looked on me, as if I was a martian. When I asked the clerk, where and if they have japanese bukkake porn, he looked at me, as if I had spoken in an ancient language. It was very strange ;-) We have quite a lot of sex shops in the Netherlands, where a woman is behind the counter - or owns the shop.
I am glad to get into a place which not only appreciates porn but at the same time criticizes it. I would back what some people said here. Seeing the performers nowadays gives you the impression that they are doing this for the sake of acting and these performances can be well compared with those of machines. After all sex is a pleasure thing and the feelings has a lot to do in here. I am afraid thats no longer visible nowadays. I am thinking to enjoy with london escorts Edited by - notalldumb on 8/30/2007 6:38:15 AM
To my knowledge, I've never been looked at strangely while in a sex shop in the USA. Then again, I tend not to notice or give a shit whether other people are looking at me, be it a sex shop, grocery store, or wherever. It's been my experience that 90% of the time I go in sex shops there are women behind the counter. mod: snipped the quote re-edited by 3sb to add back the other part of the quote that I also referenced in my reply. Edited by - hardware on 8/23/2007 12:49:07 PM Edited by - threesomebody on 8/23/2007 2:37:01 PM
the Woodworker responds: I live in NYC, and do occasionally see wimmen in stores stocking adult dvds. And its fine! I wouldn't look at anyone askance… but I can't help but be pleased when a woman expresses a detailed appreciation of fuck films. RE: women behind the counter… Yesterday, I stopped by a female-centric sex store in the area. The focus is on dildos and vibrators, but they have quite a bit of gonzo and GGG dvds. While the ladies working there are often transgendered or identify as "male," yesterday there was a heartbreakingly cute gal with a rockin' pair of titties…I expected a completetely blank response from her, but after walking away from the DVD section, she gave me the biggest sweetest smile I've seen in quite some time. That = wood.
I used to rent my porn from a regular video store and quite frequently, the clerk would be a young, attractive female. Probably college aged or so. I always used to feel very odd at checkout because it was, after all, a regular video store and I figure they didn't go to work there because they liked porn. It was just a job to them so I was always thinking they were looking at me like some kind of degenerate loser (Which I am but I don't need every hot chick in town to know it).
The Elusive Southern California Spearmint Rhino 88 Posts 6/07
Posted - Aug 23 2007 : 1:09PM
"I have noticed that men in most porn nowadays are just artificial machines with big instruments. There is no feeling in what they do and that turns me off."
As a Lesbian, I have two words for you: Manuel Ferrara. If you haven't yet, take a look at his scenes with Jenna Haze. I don't think those come off as mechanical. He has no tattoos, piercings, and little or no chest hair (although I personally have no problem with any and all of those things on men or women).
I hate a few things in porn: When they cut to the dude's face, when the scene focuses on the guy(s), or when the director allows the guy(s) to talk during the scene. When the director/editor can eliminate these three things, and the girl is nice looking and knows how to screw, then the scene is HOT! A.T.
Laura rules...she's alright with me. I think she's got a good head on her shoulders, pardon the pun. What I hate in porn are dude's masturbating...come on directors take a cue from Toni Ribas, let the girl's finish the guys off that's what they are there for.
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nietzsche Deactivated User
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Posted - Aug 23 2007 : 9:45PM
I'd prefer it face down in my lap.
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Posted - Aug 23 2007 : 9:51PM
Gay dudes pretending to be straight, to get paid. I think a lot of us know who.
My last girlf liked watching porn (plus she was hot) but would only admit to it if we were doing it and there was satellite TV or internet within close proximity. Same thing goes for flicking the bean. Women won't ever admit to it unless in a horny moment in a close relationship. As laura said, its out of fear of being labelled a slut.
I hate cellulite, I saw that is natural but i dislike to see it.. I hate Guys who have a low orgasm (not much sperm) I hate Girl who have pussy shave off in a bad way I hate fake facial
Not neccessarily on demand, but to see a guy masturbate over a woman's face for half an hour and unable to ejaculate due to too many drugs and steroids in his system is just very irritating and ugly.
A girlfriend of mine once told me that men in porn are way too goodlooking to be staright men. I don't believe this is the case, but yes, as a girl watching porn, I can see that some men have absolutely no feeling. I call them battery human dildos.
All in all. I like constructive discussions. Edited by - laura on 8/25/2007 6:16:56 PM
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Posted - Aug 26 2007 : 5:15AM
^^ Here, here. It does seem the guys are getting more aggressive etc in porno's, which sickens me. That and the whole bird-feeding jerkathon at the end is just plain shite. Who actually thinks this crap is good enough to film? It seems that it has replaced the "cumaway" to the guy's gurning face as the wood-killer at the end of a scene. But at least the cumaway had a technical reason, most of the time.
Not to mention the fault of the director or editor. I mean, if this guy has a problem splattering over my lady's face in a reasonable amount of time, hello? edit it you moron. No one wants to watch this wood-deadening contortion forever. mod: snipped the nested quote - see the Forum Etiquette Edited by - hardware on 8/27/2007 1:30:07 PM
As a man, I agree with Laura, but what bothers me even more is the over aggressiveness in regular porn, as apposed to porn with a specific SM/BD slant. Are we as a society becoming so jaded to this violence? That's what it is...I cringe every time I see a woman wince at her hair being pulled or manhandled in a way reminiscent of rape. I don't mind a little aggressive sex...but I prefer it to be at the woman's direction/control.
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Posted - Sep 25 2007 : 4:24PM
Good point, I think it's much more enjoyable watching girls get fucked by good looking men, because it looks better and it's much more fun beliveing that the girl is really into it too. mod: snipped the quote Edited by - hardware on 9/26/2007 2:57:53 AM
Guys who slap the hell out of the chick. Seems so many male actors are wannabe rapists. With all the choking and slapping till the girls flesh is dark red is downright annoying. I just wish one time the girl would deck the guy in the face as hard as she can to seek justice. That would be worth watching!
