I get a feeling a lot of people are going to disagree... hehe
I've never gotten the appeal of anal sex in pornos. It's not due to homophobia as I'm a New England liberal who's for gay rights and gay marriage but it always seemed kinda gay to me that guys would like to watch anal. However it never annoyed me as some people are into that stuff and if people like to watch anal sex then I'm fine with that. I can always hit fast forward on my DVD or VCR.
What has annoyed me a bit lately is getting movies of my porn starlets only to find they are doing an all anal (or almost all anal) scene. Now if the title was "Anal insert noun or adjective here" than that's fine... but it's annoying getting DVDs that have a girl I really like to watch only to find out most of it is anal. It's gotten to the point where I have to go on one of the many great websites that over reviews to find out if it's just anal.
I miss the days I could walk into a video store or adult shop, see a girl I like and put my money down to rent/buy it. Back then I knew that while my favorite babe was probably gonna be taking a dick up the ass she would also be doing vaginal. They would do most positions with both anal and vaginal. Now it seems like most has mostly anal, no anal at all or some positions using anal. For instance I am a huge fan of cowgirl/reverse cowgirl. I like to see a girls eyes and her entire body. Now it's bad enough that most of the cowgirl scenes today are mostly tight shots of the guys dick going in and out but they'll skip vaginal and go straight to anal in that position.
I dunno, I'm just a newbie and I hope I don't sound like a dick... I just wish porno was diverse like it once was... if you were into a specific thing (like anal) then you would get a little of that in your typical porno but you were better off getting one of those anal DVDs. Now it's like shit has been thrown into a blender and sometimes you get anal and little vaginal, no vaginal and all anal or some other mixture.
"It's not due to homophobia as I'm a New England liberal who's for gay rights and gay marriage but it always seemed kinda gay to me that guys would like to watch anal."
Wow. How enlightened you are up in the Blue States.
the appeal is that; it's not natural, not acceptable and sometimes no everyone would understand or enjoy it. I love anal sex in vid and in bed... as you said read the review before you move check on what's your kink: all girl,vaginal b/g no anal or... whatever your preferences are.
Bad luck mate. I am only interested in porn that focuses on anal (hetero) and feel like I know where you're coming from. Fifteen years ago the ball was very much in the other (your) court. I'm glad that you raised this point though. I wondered earlier on today whether I'd start a new post seeking opinion as to whether anal would be as prevalent in porn from now on as it has become or whether its' popularity and presence in (hetero) porn would somehow wane to some extent in the future.
I like anal to be a part of scenes, but I do like vag to be a part of the scene too. I think the draw for alot of people is the taboo-factor of anal. Something that a lot of people have not experienced in their own sexual history. The closest I've ever gotten to it in my life was, "whoa boy, wrong hole." dhoa!
now, now. lets not start with the North vs. South aspect of this thing. I could throw down and say there are nothing but crazy, stars and bars flyin', shotgun carryin' crackers down in the Southern states ... but I won't.
one un-enlightened idiot is not a census, even if that un-enlightened idiot is George Dubuya.
and no, I'm not from New England ... I'm from CHICAGO!
Others surely have put it more eloquently in the past but for me part of the appeal is seeing a nice pink pussy slit, juicy and ripe, next to the pooping hole that is getting pounded.
i'm in the camp that i prefer more vag scenes than anal. i don't mind watching anal but it's not my cup o tea. i do agree with the point that scenes do appear to have a preponderance of anal these days. i guess whatever floats your boat but i'm not too keen on seeing the backcover where a gal has her asshole so spread and wrecked that it looks like her colon is about to leak out. why play in the garbage dumpster when the candy store is open for biz.
In my opinion, men are very visually stimulated human beings as well as physically stimulated. I believe men are "generally" drawn to things in porn that we can not normally get in real life. Some of the beauty of porn stars are amazing as well as the skills they possess. Anal sex, cum swallowing, cum swapping, threesomes, deep throat etc. are not norms in the "average" bedroom. Everyone wants what they can't have.
Vaginal is quite effortless while anal is more advanced. It's like comparing a friendly game with the world championship. I enjoy impressive performances so I like girls who do anal a lot more, also the guys need to know what they're doing.
It will probably even out over time, at some point we will probably see an all vaginal trend as a reaction.
I think the videos should be labeled with icons showing if it's based on anal or vaginal, all anal or all vaginal etc.
When I was a young teenager just the sight of breasts could get me off. A few years down the line the 'taboo' factor wears off and its full on vaginal sex that floats my boat. Now, having spent years watching porn vaginal sex to me is so mild that its little more than foreplay, and I really need anal sex for a scene to be a turn on. I dont think theres anything particularly 'subliminaly gay' about that desire, it's just that if I'm buying a porn video I want to see EVERYTHING - the most extreme blistering sex possible, not bog-standard straight-forward vaginal sex. If anal is a turn off for some people fine - I'm sure there must be lots of softcore companies like Vivid that cater for other tastes.
Heres Your Answer:It's the Nasty factor of it all.The Butt is where you shit out of so any sexual conotation to it; makes you think Taboo.Things that are Taboo;people want to ingage in.My enjoyment in Anal Sex is that its a Hole on a Female other than the mouth you can bust a load in;and dont worry about pregnancy.Also when I do it;it adds to the sex- ual flavor that the Girl was freaky enough to let me do it. Every whores Ass I invade;I want to bust my load in.I sleep well at night knowing my sperm is swimming around in her rectum.Gross right? Thats why you love it Pervert!!!
I'm sick of hearing about anal being gay. Anything a guy does with a woman is not gay. Why is it gay? Because men have assholes too? Men have lips and they can kiss. Is kissing gay?
Secondly, what kind of videos are you renting? I like anal so I rent alot of stuff from Buttman, Jules Jordan, et al. Even with titles like Ass Worship and Anal POV there's plenty of vag fucking. The all anal titles say it on the box and I really don't see too many of these being produced.
Just rent some Vivid, Wicked, Hustler, Adam & Eve-there's a tonne of company's that make tamer porn. Go to the couples section in your local store. Sheesh.
To answer the question- a women's ass is the hottest sight in the world. To penetrate it feels great-it's incredibly tight. It's butt fucking, not rocket science.
I forgot the most obvious reason why there's so many fans of anal: THE ASS. The most beautiful female body part ever. I always keep my eyes open for sweet asses to rest my eyes on. So I think that we who deeply loves the female ass probably doesn't think so much about the actual dirtyness or the taboo-factor.
There are quite a few photography books entirely dedicated to the female behind and just look at the work of Hervé Lewis! No one makes this part of the female body look as good as he does... you'd want it all over your walls.
Soon to be Dead, try these companies: Kick Ass Pictures, Hustler, Simon Wolf (teen titles). Those 3 maybe makes more pussy-only movies than those that have both, pussy- and anal-sex.
Sin City (teen titles), Smash Pictures, Digital Sin(DDF and their own stuff), Zero Tolerance, DVSX. also makes pussy-only movies or movies that have good balance pussy- and anal-sex.
I agree with Soon To Be Dead. I'm sick of Anal being the most filmed act in some movies. If that's all there is, it loses its' appeal as something unique and taboo. PLUS I JUST LOVE WATCHING A BEAUTIFUL PUSSY GET POUNDED!!!
How can a vag fan possibly complain? Even the most hardcore anal-themed videos are half pussy fucking. I don't know how your are seeing these anal-only titles without going way out of your way to find them.
I only watch titles that scream ANAL and I still have to hold down the FF button for half the damn video waiting to the ANAL to start. Geez!
"Hold your ass with your two hands, baby. With your two hands..."
Speaking of the GAPE. I remember an earlier, it had to be, scene with Bridgette Kerkove taking it in the Ass on a sofa. The guy pulls out and she's got this great gape, which the camera guys tries to zoom in on. She puts her hands down to block the camera. I think I remember popping her finger in there to get it to wink shut. She looked embarrased and said something like don't film that.
It was one of the first good gapes I'd seen and was amazed. Imagine that - now she is an anal queen.
Another great early gape (when I realized this was a genre) I remember was a cumback pussy #ed something, but the scene had Cheyenne Silver and Mark Davis and a blonde chick. Davis gaped Cheyenne like I couldn't hardly believe.
I also agree and wish that people would stop saying it is gay. I too enjoy watching anal scenes and the gay thought does not even cross my mind. I like watching double and triple teams too....so secretly I must be wanting cock? Please!!
******* Assanova wrote: I'm sick of hearing about anal being gay. Anything a guy does with a woman is not gay. Why is it gay? Because men have assholes too? Men have lips and they can kiss. Is kissing gay? ******* phatbasey wrote: I also agree and wish that people would stop saying it is gay. I too enjoy watching anal scenes and the gay thought does not even cross my mind. I like watching double and triple teams too....so secretly I must be wanting cock? Please!! *******
Amen to both of those posts. You know what I think is gay? People who go around saying that a man liking a girl's asshole is gay. *That* is totally fucking gay, and I mean that as in "ghey" as the kids say these days. It's so 8th-grade or something, it shows a real juvenile kind of naivete about sex. It's so 70s or something. God it's irritating.
I don't think that liking anal is gay or weird or anything like that.I like it too. I just think that there is way too much focus on it in porn these days.
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Posted - Mar 11 2005 : 9:17AM
Why? Taboo factor. And watch what you cannot get on a daily basis.Agree 100%!!!
Why do we have to discuss the same and same over and over again here on ATD. Some like anal, others dont. And that's it.
(Mienhagen, writing this with a painful hand from FF-ing trough all those so called anal-titles last night.)
we still live in a society where, in certain quarters, masturbation is still seen as a "taboo" subject, let alone the process of penetrating an anus with a penis and i think that the tabboo issue surrounding anal sex is a big reason why i love anal sex.
quite simply, the anus is dirty, and for that reason the "moral majority" see it as such, dirty. something you shouldn't do. but we all like to be a little bit naughty at times, don't we?
1. Yeah the taboo factor... It used to be the girls who put out that were the "naughty" ones. Now just putting out is not enough. Now it's the girls who do Anal. It's risque, it's not an everyday act. It's something a lot of guys dream about, but may never do.
2. It's incredibly visual... Usually when filmed you get good shots of the ass or in the instance of RCA (my favorite visual position) you get to watch great sex while still being able to see the pussy!
Thats True. I like when they spread the lips and moan
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Posted - Mar 17 2005 : 10:22PM
I do enjoy watching anal on occasion. I guess it's an animal instinct that I like very small girls taking in what I would imagine they can't handle...pushing the edge.
Anal, is it really taboo anymore? I see vaginal sex as taboo today more than ever. Maybe that's why I crave gangbang creampies so much now, as opposed to maybe 10 years ago.
As far as feeling you're some kind of homo with anal sex. I haven't done it. But then I ask myself, if some drop-dead beautiful chick (I'm talking an absolute knock-out) came up to me and said she'd have sex with me only if she could play around back there, I'd have to go with it.
The market is saturated with anal anymore. I guess that's what everyone wants whether they admit to it or not.
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Posted - Apr 7 2005 : 8:59PM
So the appeal of anal sex seems to be its taboo factor and because you probably can't get it on a daily basis. This is why you can see it so often in porn for porn is about fulfilling taboo fantasies. That leads me to the assumption that you all put your dicks up a girl's nose and then cum inside her ear every day cause I never saw that in porn and I don't think it's one of the pillars of society, either.
I just want to say that there has to be something more about it than the taboo factor since there are other taboo actions as good as no one wants to do. And I don't know exactly what that something might be. I mean I like watching an RCG anal from time to time because I love to see the camera focused on the pussy but why should I want to do anal myself except of course when the girl doesn't want to do vaginal?
"I forgot the most obvious reason why there's so many fans of anal: THE ASS. The most beautiful female body part ever. I always keep my eyes open for sweet asses to rest my eyes on"
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Posted - Apr 8 2005 : 9:08AM
... and probably the only female body part I have in stock myself...
Sorry, I couldn't resist. You're right, a female ass can be really beautiful. However in my opinion most beauty lies in the eyes of the beholded one. As for non-facial body parts no tits or ass can compare to the most feminine of all body parts. Call me superficial but there's nothing like the beauty of the pussy. But different people, different tastes, I guess.
I would imagine its degree of "taboo" varies, but helps define the dynamic of its factor.
I'm not sure what the consensus totals would be, but I personally have always considered, a girls asshole, to be the most private, and concealed part of her physical self. Even by design, it remains visually off the radar. So obscure, that the only chance one likely has of ever seeing it, is if she specifically elects to show you. So when she does, theres a sensitivity that resonates, that can be interpreted in that she's exposing a more intimate part of herself. The more stunning the girl, or more difficult a challenge she could present, the greater the stimulus. When magnified through a scorching anal scene, or expelling sloppy cumfarts, well, it helps explain some of my attraction to it.
I doubt Freud was reaching for straws, when he associated so much of our subconscious psyche to it, let alone the anally fixated mind. In fact, I'd say the visual attaction to the ass (Gluteus), is closely related to our evolutionary chain of existence. Our attraction to the subtle, symetrical contours, that shape to form a superb ass, is primeval. While clearly distinguishing the sexes apart, it also inspires, and fuels our drive in pursuit of it, or for others, that pussy thats attached to it.
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Posted - Apr 8 2005 : 9:50AM
It makes me sick to hear that some people assimilate anal sex with inconscient gay matters ! ok anal = gay ? so blow/jobs = gay too ! ...then we are all gays !
Ok here is this directors take on this subject. Anal sex may have become somewhat the norm in porn these days. But, I am not sure you can say that for the general population. Sure some women are into it, and I am sure some aren't. I have talked to many people about this topic over the years. Men generally want to see things that they aren't getting in their personal sex lives. I know this was the case for me as a young man. My longtime girlfriend at the time had a fantastic butt. Unfortunately it was off limits LOL. So I sought out magazines and movies that had anal sex to satisfy my curiosity.
I had a fetish for women's butts since the time I was about 11 years old! I used to frequent a local cigar and soda fountain shop near my house that had racks of girly mags. Till this day I can still remember some of the magazine covers that had voluptuous derrieres prominently displayed. It was butt love at first site LOL. Some folks are breast lovers and some are ass lovers. We all have our own tastes and turn on's.
I don't make movies for myself. I make them with a diverse audience in mind. So I try to keep my personal tastes to a minimum. I try to cover most of the bases. Oral, vaginal, anal, dp, multiple positions etc within a scene. Very rarely do I shoot an all anal scene. I have... but I like variety with sex. Don't you?
As Skeeter was so kind to recently inform us all of... Leah Luv just shot an anal scene...
Now I can't speak for every guy, but man, I don't know who hasn't looked at that "girl next door" type, over 18 of course ;) sexily stroling down the sidewalk and thought... Hmm, I wonder if she takes it in the ass?
Not ever guy does this, not every guy will get a chance to... It's like the forbidden dance - erotic, mysterious, taboo, naughty, and sure as hell sexy!