You just can't seem to get porn anymore that isn't focused on anal. While I don't mind it a bit, I feel that's it's just gone overboard. The part that does disapoint me is that the *new* girls that enter the business just seem to go right into anal, gapes, atm, the whole 9 yards.
Now, studios like newsensations seem to be throwing in the towel and pretty much focusing all their titles on anal. what a shame.
It used to be that a gal was *broken in* in the business for a while and then eventually does *some* anal. Now, its all anal all the time. I would love to see some of the new talent just doing the traditional thing for a while first. Hell, call me old fashioned, but that's what i think. I hardly thinkg that most of these girls even enjoy it at all.
Now it seems opposite, the actress will do absolutely anything when they start in the business, but then tame down as they get popular (jenna haze, kody (desert rose)
And what is it about anal guys? that it's a little more taboo? that this young thing is doing something that's just nastier? and why is that a turn on?. Just getting naked and fucking on camera pretty much puts me over the top. I'm much more turned on by a beutiful pussy than ass fucking.
anyways, rant over. Does anyone at all feel the same as me? or am I some kind of prude? . cheers
It used to be that if you saw anal in a scene it caught your attention and you were surprised to see it. Now when I watch a movie the only thing that surprises me is seeing no anal in a scene. When there's no anal I notice it, I'll think to myself "why didn't he stick it in her ass", anal is now the norm. The reason it's so prevalent is because it sells very well. If you don't have anal action in your movies you won't sell as much as companies that do. Slap anal on your cover and it'll sell. The guys at the video store I go to tell me anything that's got anal (specially all anal) advertised on the cover rent and sell very well, no matter what company released it. Anal = $$$$$$$$$$$$$$ Who would have ever thought the day would come when you'd be surprised to see a scene that had no anal in it. If you check out the quality gonzo stuff out there today by companies like Evil Angel, RLD, PXP, Digital Sin etc, it's practically impossible to find a movie that doesn't have at least one scene with anal in it. I can't name one.
The guys at the video store I go to tell me anything that's got anal adverised on the cover rents and sells well, no matter what compnay released it. Anal = $$$$$$$$$$$$$$
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I guess it's pretty simple. It's fantasy. Most guys will never get their ladies to have anal sex with them, so it's exciting. Something new, foreign, etc... hell, most guys here probably hardly ever get laid at all.
For those of us that have had it before, I think that it's probably a *been there, done that*, what's the big deal kinda thing. oh well. to each their own. I personally avoid the *all anal* titles. if it has a scene or 2, fine, but I don't want every single girl to be at it.
Exactly, most guys want to fuck their girlfriend/wife in the ass on a regular basis, even once in a while. More girls are into it now more than ever, but a lot of dudes aren't getting to plow his woman's ass on a regular basis, maybe once in a blue moon, if that. It's still a bit taboo for most of the girls out there in non-porn land.
I suggest you stick around and especially peruse the Sex forum,before assuming things like that.
In fact,compared to other forums I find the regular posters here seem to have active sex lives and see porn as recreation or enhancement to their personal lives,not a substitute or obsession.
But me?No,I AM obsessed,I DON'T get laid,and I won't apologize for liking anal or DP's.It's fantasy,and I am delusional,and that's the way it is.
------------------------------------------------------------ DP Jones says:"Warhol once said that in the future,everyone will be famous for 15 minutes.DP Jones once said that at least once a week there will be a "what's the deal with anal?"thread on ADT."
I can't stand anal, I even hate doing it myself. When watching porn I avoid vids that emphasize anal and fast forward though the anal in the ones I do end up watching. I don't get the fascination with it, period.
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Posted - May 13 2004 : 6:25PM
Anal is for some reason the best seller. I love anal now but couldn't stand it a few years ago. I don't know what happened maybe after dipping into my gf's ass for the first time a few years ago changed my mind (it does feel very good) but I really don't know it just took a hold of me. Maybe it is just something that is a fantasy as mentioned before or maybe it's just something that still is thought of as being nasty and therefore people want to see it. All I can say is that every film I own is anal themed except for the features. I actually enjoy seeing a woman getting her asshole filled than her pussy. Perhaps because vaginal sex is the norm and anal isn't. Don't get me wrong I love sex whether I get the pussy or the ass but I prefer to see anal on screen. It's like a mysterious force pulls me (us) to that black I mean brown hole!
No offense at all by the statement. I certainly didn't mean it in a negative way. But I would bet you that my observation is quite accurate. There are more than likely a ton of people that lurk here vs. regular posters.
Hey, to each his own. I just personally don't think that ALL porn flicks need to feature anal sex. I think if all guys actually have had anal sex with their partners that they wouldn't be so obsessed witht he fantasy of it all. I much prefer having sex with my wife vagianlly (and she's had 3 kids) - Still tight as a drum (bless her).
Also, guys, whatch some of the extras sometime. before any of these girls take it up the ass, they use an enema. how romantic. it's not like it's a spontanous thing.
I think part of the fantasy must also be that the girls just plain don't like it. they pretend pretty well so they can get their paycheck.
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Posted - May 13 2004 : 6:49PM
Anal is better than any drug, and my girlfriend has the kind of presciption that I like.
Anal is much better than any drug ever will be. My girlfriend doesn't give it to me alot, but when I get it she has complete power over me. That's why I'm obsessed with watching it, because I know how great it is and since I can't have it 5 times a day everyday of the year. Watching it is the next best thing.
Well, i think that's bullshit. I agreed with you until the first time I had anal sex. I didn't realize how good it felt untl then, and now it just adds to the fantasy to see it in porn. I like vag sex just as much, but I am not an anal-hater.
I think it's much more likely, in keeping with your logic, that many guys who post here who like to watch anal a great deal are stuck in marriages with women who won't shake the crust off the old brown eye and let them at it.
BTW, good for your wife, .
I must disagree here also. I tried heroin in college. And no disrespect to the only girlfriend that ever let me poke her pooper, the drug was better . Of course, addiction runs in my family, so I could be biased.
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Posted - May 13 2004 : 9:46PM
I have a buddy of mine who divorced his wife because she wouldn't give up the A. I kind of felt bad because he asked me one night if I would stay with a woman who wouldn't take anal and I told him no. Now he has another gf who controls him by using her ass! It's funny if you think about it. He always tells me, "at least I have my porn"! LOL
Here's the rub (No pun intended) You cab get pussy from any woman. Getting anal sex damn near requires the planets in allignment, and a global low tide.
That's why anal is hot. Some guys have been with the same woman for years, and get nothing but missionary style, and anal is the sexual air they breathe.
The presence, or absence, of anal sex in a relationship has got to be the most trivial reason to divorce some one I have ever heard. You get what you deserve, I guess.
Personally I think anal sex is the best in porn, but there are a lot of movies with not that much anal. You just have to take some time to read some reviews.
The Just Over 18 series by Red Light District does not have much anal scenes, but still have many beautiful girls.
Virgin Surgeon by Zero Tolerance feature 6 scenes with no anal.
The triviality is only as great as the desire is small; if something is of great importance to you then however trivial it might seem to someone else it is not to you. I've been with my gf for about 8 years, if I totally denied her oral sex I am sure she would either leave after a while or make my life impossibly difficult.
The point is, that attached to that anus, there is an entire woman. In the totality of a relationship, one specific sexual act is trivial.
Lets have some what-if's.
What if after 15 years of marriage and 3 children she had colon cancer-curable with surgery, but medically unable to have anal sex. Di you tell her thanks for the memories, but hit the bricks?
What if she didn't like anal, but her hot friend Suzie did, and she suggested just inviting her over for threeways whenever the mood struck?
I'll be as to the point as I can. Anyone that would divorce soley over anal sex is either 1) a 14 year old (literally or emotionally) that doesn't actually have any real relationships with women outside of the videos we discuss here. 2) is stupid. 3) has a sexual fixation/fetish that would, according to the DSM4 be considered a psychiatric illness (because of limitation of social function) and should probably be in therapy.
Now, if you're divorcing a Ferrari because it doesn't have an 8-track, that's nuts. If she's actually a Yugo that leaks oil and doesn't have an 8-track and you're trading her in, and the 8-track is just the excuse you use on a porn board, that's another thing.
I'm with Coyote22. 3-4 years ago anal didn't appeal to me whatsoever. Now I really don't mind it.
First time I saw double anal performed (Matador: Men at Work) I could've died. It was really the most ridiculous thing I ever seen at the time. Now it's normal, and to me it's a "how far is she willing to go" thing. That's what turns me on about it.
I could still enjoy flicks with little to no anal though.
You've made a jump here from 'won't' to 'can't' so I will amend my example likewise. I am sure if I were to be struck down with tongue cancer my girlfriend would accept her lack of oral pleasuring; if I simply stated I wouldn't do it anymore knowing how much she enjoys it she would view things very differently.A great solution, now you're thinking Myk! Anyway, tell me a bit more about this Suzie, she sounds really hot already!Now we both know that relationships rarely end like that and you're presenting a gross simplification of things. Sex, or the lack of it or incompatibility of sexual mores are often cited as the reasons for divorce and indeed they are often one of the root causes. That said, the route from sexual problem to divorce/end of relationship is often a long and bitter one as the original issue festers into frustration and frustration shifts to resentment and before long many other issues that once were let go now become bones of contention in their own right.
I don't expect you to agree with me over any of this but at least acknowledge that by reducing the act to simply its mechanistics you are presenting only part of the picture. After all, if my gf left me for fucking another woman would you simply state that inserting a penis into a vagina is hardly worthy of such a response? Of course not, you would accept that it was not so much the details of the act itself but the implications that are important (lack of trust/ feelings of hurt or betrayal etc) surely?
Maybe Coyotes friend spent years doing whatever he could, in and out of the bedroom, to please his wife, even if that involved doings things he didn't really want to do himself? Maybe Coyotes friend asked very little from his wife but bent over backwards to please her secure in the knowledge that if he ever asked the same would be returned? Maybe Coyotes friend eventually summoned up the courage to ask for this one thing he'd always fantasised about only to find that the benevolence he'd displayed was not returned because perhaps she 'didn't think she would like it'? Maybe the significance of her negative response lay in what it more generally signified rather than just a simple disappointment at a lack of chocolate starfish action? Maybe, maybe not.
The divorce lawyers and the judge must have had a good laugh over this one. "Grounds for divorce, your honor - she won't give me anal! Woe is me...."
This guy sounds like he is so fixated on one specific sex act, that he'll allow himself to be "controlled" by his new girlfriend just to get some. He deserves his predicament.
But, what does he mean when he says, "At least I've got porn"?
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Posted - May 14 2004 : 5:10PM
.. I should ask him how the divorce court took his explanation of why it was warrented..LOL. Well all I know is that his wife had and I assume still is very shy about herself. He wanted more in his sex life and more than just the missionary. I have found that anal sex brings a woman to relax more when it comes to sex. Well let me be more specific..A lot of people think that it is dirty and painful. Once they find out that it is not painful (by being gentle that is) and that it's not dirty they tend to loosen up. Thus they become open to more sexual acts and experimentation. This is what I have found out from my own experience. I know that not everyone will like anal but every woman who I have done it on liked it after she had it and once she did she wasn't as "shy" in the sack. My friend saw from my gf's this change and wanted to get the same results from his wife. However either he went about it wrong or she just wouldn't have it (she is very religious and they have a narrow mind) and he didn't want to be stuck in a situation that wasn't pleasing to him.
I agree divorcing someone over anal sex is a little extreme but I mean people get a divorce over dumb things all the time. I personally would find out if my wife would or would not do certain things before I got married. But maybe he didn't think about anal when he married her. At the present his gf knows how to get what she wants and if she doesn't she won't let him tap her ass. I told him that he should leave her but he seems to think that she's the only girl in Portland who will give up the ass. He's got issues no doubt but like you said he does deserve it.lol. And the "at least I have porn" things means (i think) that if he doesn't get the A or sex he can always yank to porn..I really don't like asking questions like that to another guy..:::hey bob so what are you going to yank to tonight :::: couldn't do it!
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I don't know how long he tried to get her to do it but all I can say is she wouldn't. But it would be funny that she'll give it up now! The guy isn't the most emotional guy I know (towards women I mean) so maybe he just went about it all wrong..:::Bitch, bend over and spread those cheeks!::::: If that was the case would you??
Hey, heres a great title for all you looking for no anal in porn, 'Fuckin' With Dave Pounder.' And check out that cover!
'0% anal'
I have never seen a title advertised as this before. I wonder if its doing well....Hell, even solo masturbation dvds with chicks have anal scenes with dildos.
As to the obsession with anal sex, I can't really put my finger on it, or currently in it, but this seems more of a discussion for a message board circa 99' as anal is as normal as a facial cumshot now. My thinking process is, whats the obsession with double anal? Or, why the obsession with she-male? Or, why the obsession with double dick swordfight blowjob tapes? And then I realize, its really just a progression of how far porn can be taken.
Anal is somewhat still taboo (I guess) in most relationships, thus, porn is the only outlet to see what we cannot (whimper whimper) get all the time, or ever, (of course this depends on your wallet size and how much you look like Colin Farell.)
Another question- If I get divorced because she won't take it in the ass than this is only as ridiculous as her divorcing me because I won't cuddle. They both are painful acts that are fantasized about by opposite sexes (and I have heard that they occasionally happen in real life, shocking!.) Definite grounds for divorce; does she get half if she at least took a eye cumshot? What if I can fuck for 5 hours? Do I get some reimbursment for time spent?
Back to the subject, all apoligies, my verdict is that, Anal, no anal, it doesn't matter, as long as Emily Davinci or Teagan are on the screen. I don't care if they are knitting a quilt or scrubbing mold from a tub, it would be still be hot. (Just make sure its POV.)
You say won't, I say can't. Tomayto, tomahto. I'll give you that one.
The situation I was responding to was a simplification...
He divorced his wife because she wouldn't do anal. Sorry, but that's pathologic. The second part, that someone agrees that they wouldn't stay with a woman that didn't do anal, is equally pathologic. And I mean pathologic in the nicest, you need a few years of therapy way.
You know, I really like hot, illegal in 17 states, screams that make the neighbors worry, sweaty, let do that again because its your birthday, I hope the batteries in this thing last, where'd you get that leather thing sex. It doesn't have to have anal. You can have a rich, fulfiling life and relationship without anal sex.
Porn fans want it because they can't have it. Porn actors want it because they're bored with the vadge.
But if someone is obsessed with anal and doesn't even want to bother with vaginal sex at all anymore, isn't that just Darwin at work? I mean it's kind of like when some people start smoking as kids and you know there's nothing you can say to snap them out of it. It becomes a habit and then you lose control and the anus swallows you whole. Now you're swimming in a world of rectum, hammering that pooper as if you never want her to poo again. Now you find yourself at war with her digestive system--her body wants to use that poop shute for one purpose, and you want to use it for another. Which of you will ultimately triumph in this battle of wills? Probably her, because you can't always be there plugging her butt. At some point you'll become limp and you'll have to go to work or something. Then she'll have ample opportunity to poo and you won't be able to stop it. You can only delay the inevitable by banging her so hard in the butt that she becomes constipated. But then she'll get irritable bowel syndrome and be less willing to offer up her ass in the future. Ask Kelsey Grammar's wife.
So the point is, well, I've long since forgotten what the point was. But if you think that I'm full of crap, just remember to let your significant other crap when she needs to, because you don't want her to be full of crap! (for crap sakes.) Good night now.
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Posted - May 15 2004 : 2:55AM
MYK-
If I'm pathetic because I enjoy anal sex and won't be with anyone who won't do it then so be it. I don't see why it is pathetic though. I mean some people won't be with someone because they smoke or kill animals. I don't need it every day but I do like to have it on a regular basis. Luckily my fiancee loves it and I get it a lot but she knew I liked anal when we first met. But even if she didn't I'm sure she would at least try it. I don't agree with what my buddy did but at least he's getting some..hehe
Life is too short to not get what you want, or to be frustrated all the time. Do you hear me? Life is too short!!! You shouldn't stay with anyone who isn't fullfilling your needs. That's why people get divorced period.
Kick Ass and Hustler makes a lot movies that has no anal or just a little bit. Simon Wolf, Zero Tolerance and DDF makes many titles that has no anal or just a little bit, and titles that has good balance pussy and anal action. DDF titles are distributed by Digital Sin/New Sensations.
Zero Tolerance and Simon Wolf makes best titles for my taste, i mean 1on1 action, pussy only or just a little bit anal, long scenes, very good camera work. But ZT and SW stuff is not similar, ZT is more hardcore and SW is little bit more couples stuff.
ZT and SW titles i recommend... From ZT: Not Just Another 8Teen Movie -serie, Virgin Surgeon. From SW: Young Natural Breasts -serie, Wet Teens, Juicy G-Spots.
ps: Simon Wolf -movies that has this text: "...Our Favorite Scenes." in back cover are Compilations.
edit: links to companies added, Hustler link goes to renting site.
I agree with coyote22 and boss_hog. If I got no anal from my girlfriend,I'd find another girl who would give it to me. Life is must to important and short to settle for relationships that don't satisfy your needs. If I didn't bust my butt working out everyday, and grew a huge gut, my girlfriend would leave me. The key is compromise, I stay in shape and lick her pussy and she stays in shape and gives up her ass to me every now and then. I don't think that's trival or too much to ask for.
as I said, to each their own. and everyone seems to have their priorities. If I never had anal sex again, it would be no big deal to me. I have a wonderful wife and family. We've been together for 16 years and I'll love and respect her regardless of anything.
So I guess for some of you, if your gf/spouse got ill and couldn't perform any sexual act you pleased, that you'd drop them like a hot potato. I think that's just sad. I don't pretend to be up on some moral pedastal (far from it), but I think it's fair to say that some people are just shallow and don't know what it is to love someone unconditionally.
Obviously not. The distinction between can't and won't has already been addressed. And it's not just tomayto tomahto. It's an important distinction.
That said, I personally wouldn't leave my girlfriend for not letting me have anal sex with her. But, that's just me. I've heard of more trivial reasons to not be with someone.
As a reason for divorce? I think it's extreme. And I do understand the argument that it isn't just about her not performing anal sex. It's about what she will or won't do for you which has broader implications about the relationship. But I don't think it's that dramatic. I still would give my partner that option and not take it as symbolic of her not caring enough for me. It might just hurt her.
My advice so this isn't a problem: Don't marry. It's so 20th century.
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Posted - May 16 2004 : 12:13AM
It basically comes down to what one likes. I would never leave my family for something as trivial as not getting anal but then again I would have made sure that my spouse was down with my sexual needs and vise versa. And bringing in diseases and medical complications is just way too much. Ditching someone just because they have a problem isn't cool especially if your married.
I didn't mean to imply that you did. Sorry. I was just saying I wouldn't. I don't necessarily think it's a bad thing if one does leave his girlfriend because she won't have anal sex. It just isn't something I would do, I don't think. I never have before.
Listen, I'm not one of these enlightened people who think it's cool to go around acting superior about not caring about anal sex. I like anal sex very much.
boss hog wrote;Get her drunk so she won't remember to have you charged with something when she wakes up in the morning?
I don't suppose any man has ever understood any woman since the beginning of things. You don't understand our imaginations, how wild our imaginations can be. H.G.Wells from Things To Come 1936
I agree, all this anal crap is ridiculous. Sure it's a fetish that many like, but let's get real, many of us like pussy too. The pussy was made for fucking, not the asshole. It's a shame when you to go the video store and see gorgeous girls on the cover and discover it's ANOTHER fucking anal show.
Damn right!The pussy was made for fucking.And menstruation.And for babies to come out of.And for urine to pass through.
And the mouth was made for fucking!All that delicate tissue,jagged sharp teeth,the same thing we eat with!We pick hairs out of our salad and won't touch the salad but women don't mind going down on the hairy manpole.
OK,I'll shut up now.Score another first poster for Why So Much Anal!
One of the things that sets our species apart is our ability to innovate and find alternate uses for things beyond their original design. The superiority of Homo sapiens is partly defined by cock sucking, pussy licking, and ass fucking.
The more evolved, social creatures actually spend significant portions of their time on leisure activities once the basic survival issues have been met. Anal sex/dance/music/enjoying great food & wine/surfing Teahupoo doesn't help perpetuate the species; it's fun though, which is why humans do it.
Brother, you got the last one wrong. Shows how much you really know about female anatomy. I suggest you do a Google search on the word "urethra" as opposed to the word "vagina".
If this was true, it wouldn't feel so fucking good taking a cock up the backside. A lot of women's orgasms are much stronger when they are anally penetrated too. Maybe it's best left to the individual?
Posted - May 13 2004 : 5:26PM
