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MsAnitaBlue
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Posted - Jul 9 2010 : 10:05PM
I was just thinking and I wanna know your guys thoughts on what makes a good submissive in your alls eyes?????? Please Share
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ChodeMasterJ
Perpetual Marxist

5405 Posts
4/03
Posted - Jul 10 2010 : 12:08AM
Good constant eye contact if you're deep throating. Especially if you're on your knees in front of the guy. Just my opinion. :)
charn
fubar

2880 Posts
12/09
Posted - Jul 10 2010 : 12:30AM
I've read subs consider their collars to be very personal items. People who practice bdsm can probably see the difference between someone who is playing submissive and someone who is submissive in her personal life, by small traits such as wearing the same collar or just any collar in every scene, if she wears one.
Jacqueline Carey's Kushiel series of books does a swell job of describing and demonstrating bdsm dynamics. That's a few thousand pages of reading, so here's my boiled down synopsis:
The master writes the rules and the sub sets the boundaries.
Edited by - charn on 7/10/2010 12:39:17 AM
MsAnitaBlue
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Posted - Jul 10 2010 : 7:50PM
Eye contact.. Why????
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MsAnitaBlue
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Posted - Jul 10 2010 : 7:51PM
Very Very True.
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Dread
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Latex and boobs
5085 Posts
3/07
Posted - Jul 10 2010 : 9:57PM
I love those novels and not just for the BDSM sex, but thats veering off topic.
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Dread
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Latex and boobs
5085 Posts
3/07
Posted - Jul 10 2010 : 9:58PM
I can't speak for anyone else, but making eye contact is almost like a questioning manner as if "am i pleasuring you well enough?" looking for confirmation. Just my view on it though.
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ChodeMasterJ
Perpetual Marxist

5405 Posts
4/03
Posted - Jul 11 2010 : 12:59AM
^ yeah. It's just showing that the dicksucker is kinda subservient to whoever she's sucking off. If that makes sense. Probably doesn't. Haha.
charn
fubar

2880 Posts
12/09
Posted - Jul 11 2010 : 2:29AM
Eye contact is a moot point if she's wearing a blindfold or opaque goggles.
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I haven't used them yet, but they could be fun for focusing on the other senses, especially touch and hearing.
Rosco Fuji
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3309 Posts
2/09
Posted - Jul 11 2010 : 10:18PM
My babe and I went to a Swingers Party a while ago and the couple hosting the party had a Sub for the party guests to use as they saw fit. She only spoke when spoken to and actually had her eyes averted the whole time. The only thing she did without being told to in advance was to crawl around on her hands and knees giving head to the guests, whether male or female. She stayed in the living room while everyone was in the bedroom fucking, but was called in for cleanup detail when the one guy came on his girl's tits. She then crawled around to the other side of the bed for some PTOGM when I would pull out of my girl. At one point, my girl was in doggy and the sub was licking her pussy. I leaned in and told her to stick her tongue in my girl's ass and she did as instructed, roughly 1/2 hour after meeting us. While she was tossing serious salad, I whispered to her that she as going to be licking my cum out of my girl's pussy. She said to me, "That's what I'm hoping for!" I soon busted, pulled out, and the sub gave me PCH for about 30 seconds before moving to my girl for creampie cleanup. The next day, we discussed trying to find our own sub, but soon realized that having a full time sub would be too inconvenient and time consuming. Having a sub is being willing to have almost a second class citizen in your life on a permanent basis and not just having a girl look up at you while giving you head.
dogzcatcher All-Star Supporter
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Posted - Jul 12 2010 : 3:28AM
When the sub exclaims, "make me write bad checks!"
elgringoviejo58
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1460 Posts
1/07
Posted - Jul 12 2010 : 8:36AM
Knowledge of the Art of Courtly Love.
MsAnitaBlue
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I'm feeling mighty good today!!!!
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Posted - Jul 12 2010 : 9:59PM
Is she really that good????? Jacqueline Carey's Kushiel
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MsAnitaBlue
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Posted - Jul 12 2010 : 10:02PM
Very true.. I didn't even think of that...
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MsAnitaBlue
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Posted - Jul 12 2010 : 10:03PM
No it makes scene. I just wasn't thinking of that at the time...
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MsAnitaBlue
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I'm feeling mighty good today!!!!
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Posted - Jul 12 2010 : 10:04PM
I like the second blind fold. That was sexy...
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MsAnitaBlue
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I'm feeling mighty good today!!!!
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Posted - Jul 12 2010 : 10:08PM
That party sounds fun. I haven't been to one in a while might try to go to it next year. A sub does take up a lot of time and attention. I was one for 6 years.
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celluloidferox
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1/10
Posted - Jul 13 2010 : 1:30AM
I think what makes a great submissive is to learn from the best... Lorelei Lee
Edited by - celluloidferox on 7/13/2010 1:30:33 AM
Dread
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Latex and boobs
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Posted - Jul 13 2010 : 2:15AM
If you're into fantasy novels at all they're good reads. All the dom/sub stuff only happens in the first three books though. The characters change after that.
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MsAnitaBlue
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I'm feeling mighty good today!!!!
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Posted - Jul 14 2010 : 5:06PM
I have got to google search her then. Thank you for your thoughts.
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MsAnitaBlue
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I'm feeling mighty good today!!!!
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1/09
Posted - Jul 14 2010 : 5:07PM
Okay, I'll have to check it out. Thank you...
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wcw43921
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Look Into My Eyes--
1252 Posts
4/08
Posted - Jul 27 2010 : 4:21AM
Anita--
This is a scene I came up with which depicts my thoughts on what a submissive woman should be like. Feel free to use it if you're so inclined.
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Your man comes home from work after a day at the office. You greet him at the door with a drink in hand, wearing nothing but a black strapless push-up bra with a black garter belt, stockings and heels. He takes the drink from you and you follow him into the living room. He sits in his usual chair, and you take your usual place--kneeling beside him at his feet. As he idly channel-surfs, you look up at him with rapt adoration--there is nothing you would not do for him, and nothing you would rather do that kneel by his side and wait for his command.
Finally, he speaks. "I think I would like my shoes shined."
"Right away, sir," you say with a smile as you go to get the shoeshine kit, and moments later you are busily buffing away with the shine rag as you buff and polish his shoes to a mirror finish. You plant a long lingering kiss on each shoe after you are done, and you look up to him again to tell you what to do next.
"I think now I would like my knob polished."
"Certainly, sir," you say with a smile, and you take out his dick and caress it with your tongue and lips. As it rises to fill your mouth, your pussy instantly becoem hot and wet, for the pleasure you bring to him is magnified in yourself by the knowledge that you are in complete obedience to his wishes, that you are serving him as he deserves. You all but bury you face in his lap as you give your attention to his erection--then he interrupts you with a word.
"I think I would like a massage now."
"Of course, sir. Would you follow me, sir?"
You rise to your feet and lead the way to the exercise room, and even though you are ahead you feel his hand upon your lower back guiding your direction, and the reminder that he is in charge fills your mind with ecstasy and comfort. He stops you at a massage table topped with thick leather cushions, and you turn and undress him neatly and carefully. The smell of the fabrics of his business suit mingle with the scent of his cologne and his body, and it's all you can do to keep from smothering your face in his clothes--but you remember his will is stronger than yours, and you hang them up neatly and properly, in deference to his wishes.
He lies upon the massage table, and your hands softly yet firmly caress his body, working away the stresses of his day. You find yourself relaxed by the massage as well, and your eyes grow heavy as you drift into an erotic trance, in which all you can think about is his arousal--and yours. Eventually you take off your bra and climb on the table yourself, using your breasts to massage him further. He turns over on his back, and you straddle his legs as you engulf his cock with your cleavage, bringing him once more to full erection. Once again your mouth finds its way to his dick, stimulating himself--and you--even further.
You turn around on the table and offer your backside to him. He enters you with one thrust and keeps on pushing harder and deeper as you beg for more--
"Please fuck me, sir--I need you inside me, sir--Use me as you wish--I am yours, sir, yours--Harder, sir, please--Make me your own, sir--I am everything when you are inside me--"
Finally, he orgasms inside you, and the sensation of it causes you to orgasm a dozen times over, one magnificent ecstatic shock after another. He lies down on top of you, and the full weight of his body pressing you against the leather cushion gives you the same sense of ecstasy and comfort as before--the sense that comes with the knowledge that you are so deeply and completely dominated, and that you are the best submissive you can possibly be.
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I hope you enjoyed that scene. Once again, feel free to use it of you're so inclined.
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robocop
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200 Posts
7/10
Posted - Jul 27 2010 : 11:33AM
Funny how everyone is different. Such a scene doesn't turn me on at all. It's too passive for my liking.
When a woman looks up to you as if she is asking if she pleases you well seems more like she's a caring person than submissive. My biggest turn-on would be the woman to shout: "i need your cock in my mouth! strip your pants!" in a non demeaning way.
wcw43921
Senior Member

Look Into My Eyes--
1252 Posts
4/08
Posted - Jul 27 2010 : 9:13PM
^Not to start an argument, but that doesn't sound submissive at all--which is the point of this thread, if you look at the title and the OP.
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robocop
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200 Posts
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Posted - Jul 28 2010 : 2:24AM
You're right, it isn't. Just had to get my fantasy out. Sorry :)
 
MsAnitaBlue
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I'm feeling mighty good today!!!!
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Posted - Jul 29 2010 : 9:12PM
That is a great story. It sounds like what I did every time that I saw my old master for six years. That really brought back some memories. I haven't been that submissive to anyone in years. I might try it again....
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MsAnitaBlue
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I'm feeling mighty good today!!!!
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1/09
Posted - Jul 29 2010 : 9:14PM
It is amazing how everyone is different when it comes to this topic. That is what makes this topic so interesting....
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