Which of the following things do you look for in women… that captures your attention the most? Please give only your TOP 3 things. Also, it would be helpful to provide models/pornstars’ names as examples so others may be enlightened. Here is an index of “attractions” to choose from. Feel free to add other aspects to the list as needed. Hair Skin Face Eyes Smile Voice Mouth Breast Abs Hips/waist ratio (hourglass figure) Ass cheeks Genitals (labia, clit, etc) Leg/thighs Feet/toes Overall sex appeal Femininity Edited by - wmonbear on Dec 17 2009
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Posted - Dec 13 2009 : 1:42PM
I love almost everything about women. But for the top 3 things I look for that are most important to me, I'd have to go with: Ass (Round bubble butt preferred, a la Kelly Divine or Jenny Hendrix) Legs/thighs (long and shapely a la Roxy Carter or Sophia Santi) Genitals (prefer a tight-looking puss w/small labia a la Sasha Grey or Nicole Graves) Edited by - wmonbear on 12/13/2009 1:49:57 PM
Honestly, the majority of the things on the list are meaningless to me unless a woman has three key traits: charisma, character, and a sense of humor. If we're talking porn stars, then sex appeal also ranks up there, and is derived from these three things for me. Other than that, physical traits can become attractive if they have the right personality traits for me. Same with men.
Primarily but not limited to - Slightly prominent hip bones. Back of the knees (And fronts of them too) Inner thighs Ankles Front of the neck Tummy Hands with long fingers Eyes Noses (especially big noses) Edited by - randomprecision on 12/17/2009 3:00:18 AM
Well, of those the original poster listed, I'd say 1 Face 2 Skin 3 Hair Face is the most imporant thing to me. By skin I assume you mean zits and being hairy and such, which gross me out. And hairstyle is definitely a turn-on. I like most kinds, just not really short or bald. As for the rest, I don't mind small breasts or a small butt. I don't care about feet or eyes. Pretty much the rest of the stuff I can work around. Obviously wouldn't want really flabby thighs or things like that, of course.
Yeah uh-huh sure... and I guess conspiracy is just a theory. 252 Posts 12/09
Posted - Dec 18 2009 : 5:53AM
For me, it's simply a beautifully thick hour-glass shape body. I don't care about height, length of hair (as long as its well-kept...along with the rest of her) or even race. However, considering what Gore Gore Girl wrote, I guess those traits are a high priority for me too.
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Posted - Dec 19 2009 : 9:36AM
Interesting post. I admit the big nose thing caught me by surprise. But this is the kinda thing that intrigues me about this topic. How varied our tastes can be in the opposite sex. I have to say, you did mentioned a few things that I absolutely LOVE, that didn't make my original list of attractions, such as:
Back of the knees (not sure why??)
Knee caps when they have smooth appearance and don't show bone structure (boney knees can kill an otherwise great pair of legs)
Inner thighs (soft, sexy, and ever so close!)
Slightly prominent hip bones
Do you mean like this?... Edited by - wmonbear on 12/19/2009 9:37:35 AM
Something like that. It's really hard to describe. Only a picture could really do it and I don't know of any pictures I have right off. I'll try and remember to post one if I run across something. Edited by - randomprecision on 12/19/2009 3:03:26 PM
3 is a tough restraint, so I may have to cheat a little here. Ass=big or just nice ( Flower Tucci, Katja Kassin, Lisa Ann, Olivia O' Lovely, Ayana Angel, Nina Hartley, Luana, Brianna Love, Jenna Haze, Rozy Jezel, Teagan Presley) Legs/Thighs/Calves (Amber Lynn, Lauren Phoenix, Keisha, Savanna Samson, Britney Stevens, Carmen Hayes, Vanessa Blue, Dragon Lilly, Rosario Stone, Penny Flame, Julia Ann) Nipples=pert and erect (Amber Lynn, Flower Tucci, Jenna Haze, Belladonna, Alex Malone, Ice La Fox, Druuna, Chloe, Friday, Kylie Ireland)
top 3 - feet / toes - i get turned off if a girl has ugly feet even if she's gorgeous , beautiful feet are huge turn on since i have a foot fetish for pretty feet. face - eyes -hair - smile - mouth and i'll add teeth as well (all relates to the face) skin - i prefer pale skin 4. i like a juicy body type 5. i like short girls (150-165cm)or at least not too tall although i'm pretty tall myself 185 cm. 6. overall sex appeal 7. genitals (tight looking pussy /small labia , pink pussy and butthole - the clean look , shaved or trimmed) 8. ass - i love bubbly butts but not fat asses , i do like big juicy butts. 9. breast - i like 90% of them - small /big /real/fake .
1. Face - gotta have a cute mug of course and extra points if she's just as pretty when she's giving head (not as common as you'd think). exemplary cuties: Bobby Star, Rebeca Linares, Taylor Rain... cute + killer head face: Angelina Valentine, Gia Paloma, Gina Lynn, Adriana Deville 2. Buttocks - I like little ones and I like big ones, so I can't really give examples. They can be firm or a little flabby too. I guess shapeliness is what I look for in an ass. 3. Feets - not too picky here, feet just turn me on in general. Don't like a big honkin' big toe, long nails or chubby toes though. I'll also add that ladyboys/shemales must come nicely hung. I know some might say that's not relevant to a thread like this, but they's all girls to me. Edited by - MrTibbs on 2/3/2010 2:57:56 PM
I usually look for short girls with natural bodies. Minimal tats and piercings. I like faces that are cute over beautiful. I don't need high cheekbones and perfect lines. I like sexy eyes that tell you the woman is enjoying what you're doing with them. I like them to have cute, well-kept feet as well. I'm more interested in the lower body than the upper body. Ass, legs, and feet are important to me and I like a nice ass best. I could care less about tit size. Big or small is fine by me. I like good sized nipples. I like a woman that has a little weight on her. Too skinny or muscular I don't care for unless it is their natural state. And I like the girl freaky enough to do anal, fuck outside, and make sex interesting, but not so freaky she is into S & M and the like. Other than that I don't care. Skin, hair, or eye color doesn't matter. Ethnicity doesn't matter. Edited by - A-ten on 2/3/2010 3:53:40 PM
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Posted - Feb 3 2010 : 6:03PM
Always critically important: 1 - Face - I know it when I see it 2 - Legs - Full curvy thighs, full curvy calves 3 - Figure - Wider hips, narrower waist, shoulders no wider than hips, long legs
not necesarily important, but a big turn-on: 4 - Complexion - Begging to be licked 5 - Breasts - Shape, pert, firm, prominent nipples, usually small
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Breast Feet/Toes Hair
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Posted - Feb 4 2010 : 5:10AM
I must say, the results thus far have been interesting. I am very surprised that more people haven't placed TITS in their top 3 most important things (or that turn you on the most) about women. Also surprised by the number of foot fetish people . Amazingly, the current tally shows 6 votes for FEET versus only 2 for TITS. Feet a bigger turn-on than tits? Are you serious? http://img206.imagevenue.com/img.php?image=78345_Voting_-_most_important_female_aspect_123_118lo.JPG
Apart from a nice face, I'd say real big boobs, shapely legs, and if we wanna get real dirty, their pussies. I like 'em gaping, with large flapping labia and big clits. To me that's a vision!
I think this is still inconclusive. It would seem that there's consensus on face, ass, legs, and feet. But I bet it won't be so simple if you were to ask, "Okay, granted, but exactly what is it about face, ass, legs, and feet?" I can't count the number of times I clicked on a link "Best. Ass. Ever." or somesuch, and was completely underwhelmed by some bony no-assed blonde. So dig deeper... I think all the nuances are there.
Smell. Whenever a woman walks by me and I get a whiff of how she smells, her natural smell, it makes me seize up. And I have to agree with anyone who says boobs are overrated. I think they are too. I think women like Ashli Orion and Kacey Jordan are perfect, regardless of how big their hoots are.
Ok--IM onna throw a curve ball I LOve big asses--love a pretty face--love a nice lower back..nice neck---lots of things but the number ONE thing? the smell of a girl's breath.. im very particular--but if its the RIGHT smell---sweet--but with a nice natural odor...i get hard and stay that way... drives me MAD anyone else like this as well???
I started to try to choose a few from the list but I couldn’t pick any one thing. Not that I’m not s sucker for big butts, tattoos and other things. It’s hard to pin down a single set of criteria for the women who turn me on. I think a lot of the times it's an intangible factor. Like Gore Girl said: charisma, character, and a sense of humor. If these things aren’t there or compatible a great looking girl can suddenly seem unappealing. but if i had to had to choose I would say: Hips/waist ratio (hourglass figure) Skin (complexion) And smell to throw my own in. There's nothing better than a woman's smell lingering around after she's gone. Hank
Tough, but in terms of purely physical attributes, I'll go with... 1. Face (particularly high cheekbones or a heart-shaped bone structure). 2. Hips-to-waist ratio and overall curvature of the ass. 3. The general area of a girl's neck, collarbones and shoulders. Men are generally known for their broad shoulders, narrow hips and square jaws, so it's no wonder so many of us are attracted to the opposite when looking at women. They are truly beautiful creatures.
If we're going with purely physical features here, I'll go with: 1)Captivating eyes. Doesn't really matter what color they are, just a beautiful, captivating allure to them. Adult performer examples would be Madison Ivy. Her eyes have a "quiet intensity" to them. Another would be Aletta Ocean. Her eyes have a softer intensity to them, but are equally as beautiful. 2)Butt. Now, in addressing the butt, I start at the small of the back and go down to the back of the knees. The whole "ensemble". The small of the back and the thighs really set off the shapre of the ass....making the ass the centerpiece, if you will. Nina Hartley is mathematically perfect in this part of her body, as is Amber Michaels. 3) Well, I'm a guy, and I'd be lying my ass off if I didn't include boobs. I like natural but would prefer enhanced. April Arikssen, to me, had the perfect set. I really like Jenna Jameson's first implants too. Her areola were absolutely beautiful.
personally for me, it's hard to specify. I'll use celebrities as an example since we all know who they are. I like Jessica Alba's lips and eyes and I really REALLY like her, but then she has average sized tits, no ass, etc. Then I like Jessica Simpson, big tits, pretty dimples, good voice, but ass isn't that great (or at least I don't think it is, I dont' really look at a girls ass unless she kind of puts in my face cuz I'm not much of an ass fan) (but if the girl doesn't have an ass at all (flat butt) then it's like there's something missing). I like Halle Berry, she has relatively big tits for her size, eyes aren't that great, but she's got a great moaning voice. Before she fucked Ja Rule, I liked Tatyana Ali, nice eyes, but relatively flat, no ass, ugly feet, still thought she was hot. I like America Ferrera, most Americans think she's fat, but I think she's hot! Body fat to tit ratio totally helps, but not needed. I guess it all depends on how they work it.
Hmmm, to stay within the confines of your list and thinking of who my faves are, I would say: 1. Overall sex appeal - I don't care how beautiful you are, if you perform like a zombie and can't tease/entice then I'm not interested. 2. Skin - It's soooo important to me. Not just her face, but her body as well. If her skin doesn't look healthy, I take it as a sign that she's not healthy. That's a big turn off to me. 3. Eyes - very difficult time choosing this over "Mouth" (because teeth are very important to me). The color, shape, etc doesn't matter to me. It's whether or not the woman has anything going on behind her eyes. Ya know - window to the soul and all that. But looking back at who my fave performers are, there is no set body type other than non-enhanced. I tend towards natural. Carmen Hart, Kimberly Kane, Penny Flame, Chloe, Keri Windsor (the only boob job in the bunch, but her performances are what draw me to her). A couple of these women have had unhealthy periods where the hair went limp and their skin went dull or towards the end of their careers when they just weren't into it anymore and you can see that attitude manifest itself in their appearance and their performances. But during their prime, all of these women (excluding Kane who couldn't look more gorgeous than she does now) met my criteria. Edited by - savoy on 2/8/2010 4:38:56 AM
Not a shred of evidence exists in favor of the idea that life is serious - Brendan Gill 723 Posts 4/09
Posted - Feb 8 2010 : 11:49AM
Male: "Aw, cmon! Let's fuck." Female(hesitating): "Well." she looks at her watch, then out the window. "Okay, I guess. But make it quick, will ya? Desperate Housewives is on in ten minutes." That can be interpreted as 'willingness to fornicate' but if it's a turn-on, I'm in the wrong species. I need a tad more enthusiasm than that. Not much, mind you, but a little.
1. Pretty face leads me to: 2. looking for a nice round ass 3. lack of a sloppy body: no bellyroll or cellulite Fetish wise: 1. like hairy arms on a girl 2. big clits a bonus 3. winking butthole
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Posted - Feb 8 2010 : 2:38PM
Yeah well... I'm still (just about) in my 20s, I'm not married, single... Willingness to fornicate is a good thing in my world. Regardless of individual feminine allure, I'm a realist; a willing woman of moderate attractiveness is a from my perspective.
Yeah well... I'm still (just about) in my 20s, I'm not married, single... Willingness to fornicate is a good thing in my world. Regardless of individual feminine allure, I'm a realist; a willing woman of moderate attractiveness is a from my perspective.
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Well, that's a given or it should be. Unless you're like my friend who can't get a girl to give him the time of day and yet still actually LIKES and is turned on by the girls who "play" "hard to get" because he claims to like the challenge. Without the "willingness to fornicate" then it's right to the "brother zone" with the girl. That only benefits the woman, and even for the nicest guy in the world, even HE would get bored by that relationship/friendship REALLY fast. It's like being married early! lol No point of doing that.